IMVU (http://www.imvu.com)

common sense media says

Beautiful 3-D chat world; can be unsafe.


parents & educators say
  • 42% say sexual content is an issue
  • 41% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the anime feel of this beautiful 3-D social networking site will encourage younger teens to log on, but it really isn't for kids. To access most of the content (nudity and raunchy catalog items), you need to pay $20. You need credits to buy stuff for your avatar, and teens can get creative by designing and selling catalog items or public rooms.

Educational value: Teens can learn about graphic arts and 3-D rendering and build a public room.
Positive messages: While you may build online friendship-making skills, the site may desensitize kids to real human interaction and encourage talking with strangers.
Violence: Some home pages are fine; others discuss sado-masochism and have violent images.
Sex: Many user home pages have sexual innuendo, racy graphics, and titillating discussion.
Language: Many home pages are full of swearing.
Consumerism: Some ads. Access to restricted areas and credits to purchase higher status items can be bought for $5 to $20.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Found on user home pages.
Privacy & safety: Kids can potentially give away personal information, since there are no moderators on the site. The site is all about chatting and "making friends." Personal information could be given away on user home pages, too.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
Families can talk about Internet safety and establish rules for using the site safely and responsibly. What are the potential pitfalls of sharing personal information online? What kind of information is off-limits?

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
IMVU's graphics are astounding, but the ability to see your character physically interact with someone else does take the anonymous feel out of online chat. Frankly, it's a little disturbing. And speaking of disturbing, many odd things are for sale in the catalog, such as handcuffs, syringes, revolvers, and even crucifixion nails. While there are plenty of additional clothes on sale, the "Sexy Schoolgirl bundle" is one example that lets users know there's more going on here than meets the eye.

 

Online interaction: The instant messaging focus makes it very easy for strangers to engage with each other via avatars. Users find other people to talk to by searching on age, sex, and location.


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What parents & educators say

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Based on 76 parent & educator reviews:
  • 42% say sexual content is an issue
  • 41% say language is an issue
  • 34% say safety or privacy is an issue
  • 29% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
  • 29% say they noticed product placement

Most useful reviews by all members

bieber1213
kid, 12 years old
 
This is not SAFE!
Well i have played and they do use cyber sex and my parents let me continue on the website but then it was an issue but i knew to get off of it when a teenager asked me where i live, whats your address,don't worry i wont hurt u,i will take care of u and i will make u feel good so i ran to my mom and i was to be asked to never be on there again the guy got in trouble and found out he was 30.so it can happen to teens to so thank u and thank u for listening!

IMVUout
adult
 
I feel it should be banned completely from the PC.

 
only good for the rich and mentally stable, def not for children
IMVU is a rip off, it's an addiction. My adult daughter is slightly mentally handicapped and is so sucked in by all the fake crapped. She spends half of her SSI buying clothing and other junk just to make this myspace like chatroom rich and it never sinks in that she is giving money away for nothing, She cannot wear those clothes herself or decorate her own home with the fake furniture. Many times she has had to come asking me for food because she spent her grocery money for a stupid card allowing her special credits for the game. Once sucked in by the game it's like a drug where you can never get enough. My daughter has cried when so called friends degrade her if she doesn't keep buying cards to make her avitar more popular, I suppose it is ok for those who can afford it and are mentally stable enough to realize IMVU is not real life but for someone like my daughter it is not good and who ever came up with the game... shame on you for taking advantage of people in the manner you do.

Slumber
parent of 4 year old
 
Relax and think about the positive's that can come from con's
I am 22 and have been using IMVU for about 5 years and have seen just about everything. It is what you make it. There are millions of people using this program and even more on the internet alone. Just like you teach your children about safety's outside of IMVU and the internet. You teach them about the dangers over the internet, as well. You can't be there all the time and it's up to you to warn them ahead of time of the consequences of the decisions they could make. Over the years, I have seen IMVU make many changes and continue to change for the better. IMVU is great in many ways and myself have learned a lot from it. The people I have met on IMVU have been mostly great, everyone has there own agendas on there, but most people are respectful and if they are not its very easy to close the window and leave. You always have the power in those situations and at a even safer distance. Just like if a stranger tried to offer your kid a ride you tell them to scream for "help" and run. On IMVU or any sort of chat site you tell your kids to say NO and close the window. My aunt also use's it and it is a great way for us to keep in touch and a lot of other close friends. She allows her children to use it and controls everything they do on IMVU. They have their friends from school on it in a room that their mother picked out for them to use to hang out in. Simply, if your kids are going on there looking for sexual people and items then they are going to find it, just like in the real world. That being said it's obvious for teens and up. I think we are all aware on what it's like to be a teen. They are going to do it one way or another if they want. Probably, shouldn't be so over-protective or all your hair will fall out! =]

itachi3679
teen, 16 years old
 
its alright..i mean...so clothes in the catalog IS disturbing...the chat rooms can become dirty but...you can find friendship chat rooms instead of fools or 18+ people makeing out online...which is totaly NOT RIGHT! NEVER DATE ON IMVU! if your looking for something like this...please go look up the sims 3

 
Not for children or even teens
I myself go on the site, I love creating the graphics. But, it is NOT a site for kids or even teens...the first thing you are greeted with in most chat rooms is "do you have a webcam?" and I have been asked for photos, I have been asked for my cell number to chat on the phone by men in other countries, I have had very inexplicit sexual desires given to me...by men and woman. It's not a place for kids.

The kitchen queen
parent of 4 and 10 year old
 
band it form pc
My daughter is Internetpro and she is right this website includes Sex and this website is for no meer child to get close up to this website down right horrbile P.s my daughter wrote this but this is what i thought

 
Get your 11 year old daughter off the internet.
I have been reading the reviews and I noticed that everyone was complaining about the sexual content and innapropriate speech. I have also noticed that almost every review was from a child from the age of 11-13. To me they shouldn't even be on the internet unmonitered. They are still young, I mean im 16 but I'm very mature for my age. But what I'm saying is that young kids can easily attract a virus to your computer by not knowing what they are doing. And yes IMVU can be a little offensive but why is your 11 year old daughter on it? If you do not like your child on IMVU than you can block the side under parental controls. But instead you all want to rant and rave about IMVU being a very innapropriate site. That is your opinion, and the only way that you can see the innapropriate content is, like everyone has been saying, an access pass. You have to have access to a credit card and you have to be 18 years or older with a verefied account. I recommend that a child 14 years or older can play this game with no harm. If they are any younger they shouldn't even be able to type that well and this is a typing software. Us teenagers use it as a hobby, we can show off our virtual avatars and increase our social skills. Yes some people have boyfriends and girlfriends and even some married, but I dont see any harm in that. It's not unhealthy or wierd, sometimes people like your personallity more than your looks and IMVU can be that chance. I have noticed that IMVU was crowded with innapropriate content but know it has switched management and its undergoing alot of changes, and slowly but surely it is correcting all of the innapropriate products and behavior. This is a good past time and it can even get you into development, helping you educationally by teaching you 3d software and design. But I think i've taken up alot of your raving and ranting time and i'll let you go so you can let ur kids on the internet. Oh btw facebook and myspace is no different, people can still have "sexual conversations" with your kids. In conclusion QUIT giving IMVU a hard time. Its a great product and an addicting hobby. Thank you so much :)JessyJeter. Avatar name iKarnage.

ChinaPuppy9
kid, 10 years old
 
Its alright
I have seen so many adds for it so I thought it might be fun not about the boys I just liked the rooms and when I logged on I faked my age on purpose to see if it was safe no it isn't I logged myself on to 18 in one minute I am also on stardoll I recomend stardoll you get friends and for older kids talk a little deeper and I know thousands of people who as my friends already are on it and we chat.now IMVU is a STUPID USELESS GAME and thats just the start.definletly over 20 thats when I plan to get a boyfriend seriously.but it would be GREAT for 20 up.Like if you have money and are sensible then its perfect but I would NOT reccomend for under 18 at the very least.

GuestAccount
parent of 15 year old
 
Not appropriate for impressionable children.
As a long time user of imvu I feel I need to point out a management flaw in the way the service is run. Instead of fixing long standing existing bugs in the client, they continue to add new features, many that the users scream they do not want. Until imvu gets their act together, it is not a wise investment of anyone's money. If someone needs to try it out, do not waste any money upgrading to an AP account, the experience is the same. Safety appears to be a secondary concern to imvu also. They have a report for abuse system for the users, but all they ever do is give copy and paste responses to support requests that they obviously have not read. Ever time you file a ticket to report abuse and you state all of the steps you have already taken to stop it, they will send you a copy and paste message back telling you to do what you have already stated you have done. They have inadequate age confirmation systems in place, so that children can get access to the more adult portion of the site, and predators can and do easily pose as minors.

vannessa124
kid, 9 years old
 
WHY I KIND OF HATE IMVU
i dont feel good cause IMVU is a very unsafe web i wish i had imvu its like a adult you no kind of you no things

kirakira97
teen, 14 years old
 
You have to be responsible to use this fun site.
I find this site only inappropriate if your kid makes it inappropriate. Parents blame the site for what their kids choose to see and say and do with whomever your kid wants to talk to. The site's message is a generally good one about making friends and expressing yourself.Its how your kid does it that makes it inappropriate.

Joltik
kid, 13 years old
 
A disgrace to online gaming
I have never had an account on IMVU, but one of my former friends did. She told me her cousin, who is 18, had showed her it. When I slept over at her house, I saw her playing it. She had a collection of private messages with people who were about 18-30 years old. Note that my friend is only 12. She had given away her real name. In this review I will refer to her as C. Some messages were like, "C i want u and i luv u sooooo much" and "cmon C lets have some fun ;)". And then there's the advertisements... I was on one of those flash game websites. It was meant for kids my age. When I decided to play a game, an advertisement popped up on the side of my screen. It showed two IMVU people (lacking a better term) dressed as the characters from the movie Avatar. The people-avatar things were making out, while the female had her legs wrapped around the male. Both were only wearing underwear. So overall, this website looks horrible. I won't ever join this website.

animeluvera
kid, 12 years old
 
Well, i'm 11 and i had a user before. I had quite a experience on this website. I dated a guy that was 16 and when it came to phones, he asked for a photo of me in my bikini, i said nothing back and told my mom. That ended it. My mom deleted my account and i am NEVER gettin back on that web ever again til im 13 . but if some older random guy ask for innapprioate stuff when i start it, im quiting till the age of 16. i recommended this website to 16 year olds and up. and there is a lot of sexual stuff in this web.. if i ever have kids, im never goin to let them on this site EVER till the age of 16 or 13.

Nothingtodo2
kid, 11 years old
 
Too much love?
I loved this website but before you download this I have to tell you it broke my pc like it died for good this is the new laptop i got from my family. A lot of sex is included

concerned ...
parent of 12 year old
 
Absolutely not for teens
This site allows children to potentially view pornographic content. I lures with Sims style graphics. block this site!!

forevsmile
teen, 14 years old
 
Who made this webstie and why?
Sexual content: Users can get all the way undressed, giving them the option to kiss, make out, or have sex. Violence: Users are allowed to kick each other, slap each other and give each other wet willies. Product Placement; You have to pay for a better membership Safety Issues: Its very often that users ask each other to online date, there's no moderators. It's easy for a old man or women to lie about his/her age and talk to children and teens, which is a HUGE safety issue. I hear a lot of stories about people saying their 14 when they are really over 30. User content issues: Users often argue, ask each other to online date and say lots of rude, nasty sexual comments. This is not for kids or even teens! Language issues: Since there is no filter, users can swear without getting banned. Drinking drugs and smoking: As Common sense media said, on the user home page. Off- 17 and Under Iffy- 18-21 On- 22 and up. This is not safe at all! Keep it away from your computer

 
Sexual Atmosphere for Older Teens
Sexual: IMVU has chatrooms where most of the late teens there discuss sexual things commonly. As a member of the website, I have many friends that call themselves "mistresses," "masters," "slaves," "goddesses," "pets," etc., and such names are of the world of fetishism . . . A totally sexual experience not meant for early teens and younger. Swearing: Everyone swears all the time with words ranging from the least offensive to the most distasteful. Consumerism: Ehh, there are McDonalds-themed chatrooms and Starbucks-themed chatrooms and even some that have the Wal-Mart emblem on the front. Nothing wrong with those, since they're not sexually suggestive. Privacy: I am often asked where I live and whether people would like to see my feet or genitals with pictures or webcam shows. As long as you avoid the perverts, you should have no problem, BUT make sure you DO NOT list any information about your city. Sure, you can say you live in Louisiana, but don't say, "Oh, yeah, I live in Lafayette . . . " It's a bad idea. Overall: I love IMVU, but it's simply not meant for young teens and under.

Faralynn
teen, 15 years old
 
Pros and Cons of IMVU (warnings and advice included)
I don't mind it, but there are a few pros and cons, and unfortunately, the cons outweigh the pros. The sexual content is a bit overboard, especially in chat rooms and some groups, though luckily a some people put "18+" or "XXX" or "Rated R" in their group titles or in certain threads. Sadly, due to curiosity and natural rebellion, children will lie about their age and be accepted into these groups/rooms, even if the creator makes a homepage check or group check on the members. I'm a member, and while most groups aren't focused on sex, the ones that are are a problem. The viruses that are interconnected with the IMVU 3D chat is also a problem; they crash computers at least two weeks after installation, and slow down the computers due to the sizes of the files. Predators aren't likely to seek out your children, but just in case, it is best to keep personal information to a minimum, which means limiting the things you put on your homepage or setting it on "Friends Only" or having it so that you and only you can view your homepage, and only putting people you know and trust as friends. Naturally, that's common sense. As for parents' concerns about child safety, if you inform your child about the dangers of Internet predators and viruses(preferably starting at a young age; the younger they learn, the more instinctive the information becomes), they may think you're being a worrywart, annoying, or over-dramatic, but they will absorb the information. The customer service for IMVU is virtually non-existent; the only way to get the CEO or other members of the company to listen to your complaints, you must try almost everything, even if you're a dedicated member that's been on the site since it first began. Also, the “Help Tickets” in IMVU only give you a computer-created response, if any at all. The complaints in the forums are given an equally mechanical response, advising the member(s) to file a “Help Ticket”. However, IMVU is not all negative. Like all social networking sites, you can interact with people from around the world and make new friends, as well as keeping in touch with old ones. Unlike most, you can create virtual products and gain computer graphics skills. You can also enhance your writing skills and let your creativity blossom, though it is easy to get hooked to the idea of constant creative juices flowing in and around you, just as you can get hooked on Facebook applications and MySpace groups That does not mean IMVU is necessarily addictive; it's just fun, though it could be addictive to many. It's easy to become engulfed in the virtual world, to have it mean more than the real world, like many other games. The nudity is a problem, and I know first-hand that if another Avatar is showing nude or sexual content, you WILL see it, even without the "Access Pass" or "VIP Membership". If you're an aspiring writer or graphics creator, IMVU is great as a creative or educational outlet. If you're smart about keeping your personal information(for those that don't know, that includes your full name, age, birthday, address, school/work, and appearance) to a limit, it is a great way of meeting new people and staying in touch, as I stated before. IMVU credit-based websites and companies, like those of other virtual currencies, make money from the members by offering better deals for credits than the company itself. The language in the site is not censored as it should be, probably to help keep the size of the site to a minimum. Virus protection is highly recommended, preferably from Norton, Ad-Aware, and/or AVG, and the temptation to download the 3D Chat is probably one best ignored. Viruses can also be transferred through trusted links, so run virus scans regularly to catch any signs of viruses(if you download the Chat or not) so you can get rid of it before it can cause more than minimal damage to your computer, if any. Sticking to groups that seem appropriate – or buying products that are appropriate – for your age group will keep the sexual/drug/alcohol/violence exposure to an equally appropriate rate. Though it might seem a pain or unnecessary, if you're under 18, it would help if your parents were kept informed of any threats, inappropriate messages, disturbing content, or other things that make you feel uncomfortable; 1) so they trust you more, 2) so they can help, if possible, and/or 3) so they can inform the police if the messages/content continues. These are just suggestions, mostly for PCs since Macs are more immune to viruses, though are recommended for both, though I'm not an expert. These are just observations and recommendations from a member of IMVU.

 
NO PERSON UNDER THE AGE OF 18 SHOULD USE THIS SITE!!!!
I think that it is really up to you to decided what is right for you. I don't think that this is site for children at all!!!! I do use it, but I'm 29 and choose to communicate with people this way. You don't have to buy all the crap that they have on there. PARENTS YOU SHOULD GET YOUR CHILDREN OFF THE COMPUTER ANYWAYS AND FIND THEM A HOBBY!!! PARENTS NEED TO WATCH WHAT THEIR CHILDREN ARE DOING INSTEAD OF JUST LETTING THEM DO WHAT THEY WANT. PARENTS THESE DAYS DON'T WORRY TO MUCH ABOUT WHAT THEIR CHILDREN ARE DOING ON THE COMPUTER ANYMORE OR DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW TO SET PARENTAL CONTROLS ON THEIR COMPUTERS. I THINK THAT IT IS FUNNY THERE ARE MORE COMMENTS FROM CHILDREN THAN ADULTS ON HERE. JUST GOES TO SHOW YOU THAT PARENTS DON'T PAY MUCH ATTENTION TO THEIR CHILDREN ANY MORE. I think that if people are being taken advantage of on this site, its due to their own stupidity.

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