My Secret Circle (http://www.mysecretcircle.com)

common sense media says

Invitation-only social network limited to real-life friends.


parents & educators say

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this private social networking site -- actually a program that loads only when a special USB key is plugged into the computer -- is super secure.  A completely closed environment, My Secret Circle is invisible to the rest of the Internet and has no links to other sites. The only people who can see a child's profile are real-life friends who have been given a set of numbers to type into their own copy of the program. My Secret Circle doesn't have the breadth of features or the richness of, say, Miss O & Friends, a real Web site where girls from all walks of life can meet. However, it does give tweens a cute gadget to show off and a safe place online to hang out with BFFs, including a cool voice chat option with headset. Parents just need to make sure girls don't give in to the temptation to use the product as a social weapon. 

Educational value: Journal writing and decorating photos provide a creative outlet.
Positive messages: The product promotes wholesome online activities with friends. However, parents might want to monitor how their daughters handle inviting other girls to participate. The product's built-in exclusivity, echoed in the name, the use of the word "diva" to describe members, and the awful theme song that plays every time the key is inserted -- "You’re in or you’re out!" -- has the potential to cause hurt feelings.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Not applicable.
Language: Not applicable.
Consumerism: There are no ads, but kids have to spend an extra $14.99 for a headset with special USB cap in order to use one of the main features on the site, voice chat.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Not applicable.
Privacy & safety: Far more stranger-proof than other social networks, the site restricts members to friends to whom the child has given a unique, one-time-use-only code. The site is completely invisible to the online world and kids can't leave to browse other parts of the Web. Inside the site, users can lock their journal entries. Parents must purchase a special My Secret Circle USB key in order for kids to use the site.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Discuss whom girls intend to invite to join their My Secret Circle social network. Should they talk about their special online group at school? Why or why not? Read our social networking tips.    
  • Diaries are usually places to record private thoughts, dreams and gripes. Discuss how writing in an online journal can give people a false sense of privacy and make them less careful about what they say and who sees their entries. Is it ever a good idea to let someone else read your journal, even if you're best friends?

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
Kids don't need any extra encouragement to form cliques. Nevertheless, we recommend My Secret Circle, a private social network that comes on a pink USB keychain. Girls invite only other girls they know and want to be in their network, using printed invitations and secret codes. In exchange, parents can feel pretty secure knowing their daughters are playing with real-life friends in a safe, closed environment. Access codes generated by the program work one time only, which makes the site pretty predator proof.

 When we reviewed it in July 2009, My Secret Circle still needed some work. The game selection was wimpy and a resolution problem squished uploaded photos. But tweens will love the cute interface, choosing an avatar, journaling, instant messaging, and following others in a Facebooklike "friend feed". Parents should be prepared to shell out again when tweens lose the USB key or password needed to log on. On the other hand, $20 is a small price to pay for this kind of safety.

Online interaction: Girls are able to interact only with friends to whom they've given a unique 12-digit "friend code." To ensure girls invite only people they know, the product encourages users to print out the code and a small pink envelope to personally hand to friends. If the circle of friends changes, users can delete members of their network.


This review was written by Carla Thornton
 
 

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Samantha S
kid, 12 years old
 
love it!

CrazyBlu4Eva
kid, 10 years old
 
First time to see a girly social networking site.
I even haven't tried it yet.But after I downloaded the "quick-start" guide and read it.The site looks interesting.So colorful.It said that you can have your own "Diva"(Avatar for "My Secret Circle").Even the games.I love games.

happybear9240
kid, 12 years old
 
I think its a little young for about 10+

soccermagnet44
parent of 10 year old
 
Perfect
it is what every kid should have!

zedada
parent of 6 and 10 year old
 
Not so sure about this one at all
I wasn't able to adequately review this site as you need to buy it at Walmart or Target and can't get it online. However, while it may be a step-up from some other social network sites, with its security issues, it seems to promote secrecy and exclusionary behaviour which are not things I want to promoted by kids. The instructions to parents did little to make me feel positive about the site and the promotion of things like BFF just seemed silly. So if my daughter decides she wants to use this site, our family will have to discuss at length and likely she will have to get with her own money. However, we do let our son use facebook (although obviously I have concerns with facebook), with significant guidance and discussion and a completely closed account.

smallvill
parent of 18 year old
 
Love it.

catiebug
kid, 8 years old
 
awesomeness
its awesome

girlpowrocks
kid, 11 years old
 
NOT GOOD TO HARD ??
i don't think .... its really hard to upload all these hard stuff for girls i bett its a reall good website for girls but u have to do HARD stuff

wtichgirl
kid, 10 years old
 
love it!

tatertot2002
kid, 10 years old
 

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