Kids don't need any extra encouragement to form cliques. Nevertheless, we recommend My Secret Circle, a private social network that comes on a pink USB keychain. Girls invite only other girls they know and want to be in their network, using printed invitations and secret codes. In exchange, parents can feel pretty secure knowing their daughters are playing with real-life friends in a safe, closed environment. Access codes generated by the program work one time only, which makes the site pretty predator proof.
When we reviewed it in July 2009, My Secret Circle still needed some work. The game selection was wimpy and a resolution problem squished uploaded photos. But tweens will love the cute interface, choosing an avatar, journaling, instant messaging, and following others in a Facebooklike "friend feed". Parents should be prepared to shell out again when tweens lose the USB key or password needed to log on. On the other hand, $20 is a small price to pay for this kind of safety.
Online interaction: Girls are able to interact only with friends to whom they've given a unique 12-digit "friend code." To ensure girls invite only people they know, the product encourages users to print out the code and a small pink envelope to personally hand to friends. If the circle of friends changes, users can delete members of their network.