As a vSide user for almost eight months, I have not come across the actual vSide game as having an attitude problem. It is not only based around shopping, clubbing and looking cool, its based around interacting with users from across the world. A social network. Half the people i know dont even go on vSide and use it as a "place to party." You meet some of your closest friends on the internet as weird as that sounds. I dont see how vSide is labeled as hard, there is nothing hard about vside. Yes if you would like to do the secrets, then they can be difficult, but that is your decision to do it. Hence the title "secrets." Yes there is cursing and rude behavior on the profiles, but if anyone has a problem with that there is a report button. Just because its on the web browswer doesnt mean you still cant report the user for profanity..etc. Or in any case of a young adult, If parents do have a problem with it, they can easily block the site from their internet provider. The moderators control the content in the actual game, and on the profiles. However, they do focus more on the actual game. I dont blame them. Yes there is several clubs with bars, but it doesnt mean that as a user if you are in a "club" with a bar, you dont have to go up and order anything. Virtually of course. Thats your decision. If you teach your child about the safety's of online, and virtual worlds i dont see how vSide should be a problem. As for the profanity, you cant keep your child away from that no matter how hard you try to. They will come across profanity virtually and in the real world. Its a matter of life. What i got from this review is that everyone who plays this.. their parents are lacking in the parental control area. Thats not the case. Its all about trusting your children. There are alot of things in the real world that will do more damage to your child then a virtual world. Anyways, What im trying to say is, nothing in this review is closely related to how vside actually is. Its not about the profanity level, or the clubs with bars, or the cool image vSide is "spreading." For me its about interacting with people of all ages, all over the world, learning their cultures, their way of life. I believe vSide is a good expierence. Its trying to create an identity.. of yourself..your avatars are an image of who you are. Adios!