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Parents' Guide to

Confide

By Neilie Johnson, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 16+

Privacy-focused messenger secure, but sketchy for kids.

App iPhone , iPod Touch , iPad , Android Free Other
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A Lot or a Little?

What you will—and won't—find in this app.

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Privacy Rating Warning

  • Unclear whether personal information is sold or rented to third parties.
  • Personal information is shared for third-party marketing.
  • Unclear whether this product displays personalised advertising.
  • Data are collected by third-parties for their own purposes.
  • User's information is used to track and target advertisements on other third-party websites or services.
  • Unclear whether this product creates and uses data profiles for personalised advertisements.
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What’s It About?

CONFIDE is a freemium secure messaging app popular in the corporate, legal, and political arenas because of its auto-destruct feature. Message text arrives covered with colored bars, which discourages over-the-shoulder reading, and users must drag their fingers down the screen to reveal one line of text at a time. Messages (including photos, videos, and other attachments) sent within the app auto-delete after the recipient has read them, thus ensuring they can't be forwarded or reproduced. Proprietary tech even prevents users from taking screenshots of messages. The free version offers basic security; the paid Confide Plus and Pro versions offer even more in the form of message retraction, unlimited attachments and voice messages, alternate cosmetic themes, business dashboard, and analytics support.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say: Not yet rated
Kids say: Not yet rated

Loads of features make this messaging app secure and private, but those very features make it riskier for teens. Confide has a lot going for it: a clean interface, straightforward functionality, total message security, and hey—it's free! Unfortunately, the things that make it a businessman's dream make it a parent's nightmare.

With Confide, kids can pass digital notes—including pictures, videos, and other kinds of attachments—back and forth without leaving any kind of “paper” trail for you to follow. The possibilities for predator use alone should set off alarm bells. So as far as Confide's usefulness goes, context is everything. Used by adults either in a private or professional setting -- or between family members concerned about data privacy -- it could be a very useful tool. But there are other secure messaging apps that offers the security you want without going into “Mission Impossible" territory. So, though it's a thoughtfully made app that's essentially safe for teens to use with known contacts you trust, it is a concern if you want to be able to see what your teen is up to.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about privacy using apps like Confide. What are the benefits of using an app like Confide? What are the risks? What is it always important to tell trusted adults?

  • Think about online security. Since everything we send or post online can be saved and/or used, how can we be careful about our digital footprint?

  • Discuss your rules around app choice. What apps are okay to download and use? Which ones aren't?

App Details

  • Devices: iPhone , iPod Touch , iPad , Android
  • Pricing structure: Free
  • Release date: January 1, 2013
  • Category: Other
  • Publisher: Confide Inc.
  • Version: 8.3.6
  • Minimum software requirements: iOS 10.0 or later
  • Last updated: July 22, 2019

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