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Missing Daddy
By Carrie Kingsley,
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Gentle message of caring for child of an imprisoned father.
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What's the Story?
MISSING DADDY, by Mariame Kaba, chronicles the range of emotions a young Black girl feels about her father being in a prison far away from her, revealing the depth of her sadness and the strength of her love. At home, she talks with her grandmother about why he's away. At school, her teacher helps her understand how every family is different, but a classmate whispers that she's a criminal just like her dad. She gets most excited about visiting days, when she and her grandma travel a full day to see her beloved daddy, who welcomes her with open arms.
Is It Any Good?
This essential book for children facing the absence of incarcerated parents uses clear, compassionate language to connect and reassure. It's also a reminder to caregivers that children's feelings are complicated, contradictory, and completely valid. The warm, loving illustrations in Missing Daddy pull on heartstrings, showing fireflies dancing on the edges of the page and her nervous excitement for visiting day when she can see her daddy. The discussion guide at the end offers well-considered questions to help readers understand the complex nature of situations they might not be able to imagine, and a way for children with absent family members to feel heard.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how it feels when a family member is absent, whether it's for a longer time like in Missing Daddy or for a short trip. How does their absence change the rest of the family?
What can you do if you hear someone being hurtful to another person?
Who do you talk to when you feel worried or sad?
Book Details
- Author: Mariame Kaba
- Illustrator: bria royal
- Genre: Picture Book
- Topics: Brothers and Sisters
- Book type: Fiction
- Publisher: Haymarket Books
- Publication date: September 17, 2019
- Publisher's recommended age(s): 3 - 7
- Number of pages: 36
- Available on: Hardback, Kindle
- Last updated: June 25, 2020
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