The Breakup Bible

Common Sense Media says

First-heartbreak story has good life lessons.

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What parents need to know

Educational value

Parents can use this book to talk about relationships -- including how media portrays teen romance versus what most of these relationships are actually like.

Positive messages

A believable and realistic examination of the pain of a first real breakup, done with humor, wit, and a great supporting cast. Jen takes time getting over Max, but she also learns to take charge of her own life. Readers will cheer her on as she lands an important internship -- and even flirts with trying love again.

Positive role models

Jen's family is supportive of her during her breakup, as are her friends.

Violence
Not applicable
Sex

Some kissing, and Jennifer's boyfriend pressures her to spend the night.

Language

Some words like "bitch" and "ass."

Consumerism
Not applicable
Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Teen drinking at parties and at a restaurant.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that the main plot here involves a girl's attempt to get her life back together after her first real boyfriend breaks up with her. She recounts kissing him, and even a night when he asked her not to go home. Characters swear, and there are also some scenes in which teens -- including the protagonist -- drink. Parents can use this book to talk about relationships -- including how
media portrays teen romance versus what most of these relationships are
actually like.

Parents say

Kids say

What's the story?

Jen's family and friends try to cheer her up after she's dumped by the school newspaper editor; her grandmother even gives her a cheesy self-help book. But Jen remains heartbroken, especially after she discovers Max is now going out with a ditzy girl who works on the school paper with them. Her life slowly gets better, thanks to her involvement in a controversial article -- and a realization that Max wasn't as perfect for her as she thought.

Is it any good?

QUALITY
 

Some lovely writing and a colorful supporting cast breathe realism into this likable novel about a girl getting over her first heartbreak. Readers will relate to sad Jen, a driven school newspaper editor who now has to work closely with the boy who just broke up with her. They will also like her colorful family, which includes a foul-mouthed younger brother obsessed with hip-hop culture and a wacky grandmother who gives her an over-the-top self-help novel.

On the other hand, readers may tire of how long it takes Jen to get over Max, and they may not know what to make of The Breakup Bible (which instructs Jen to cut out inspirational messages such as "Mr. Wrong is in the garbage where he belongs" and "I complete me.") Also, the story line in which Jen writes a controversial newspaper article about race relations at her high school seems to come out of nowhere -- though it does energize her, and help her draw an important conclusion about Max. Ultimately, the author hits the right chord: Jen takes time getting over Max, but she also learns to take charge of her own life. Readers will cheer her on as she lands an important internship -- and even flirts with trying love again.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about how teen relationships are portrayed in media, from TV to books. What are some of the cliches -- and how do they shape expectations of what relationships are actually like? 

  • What do you imagine a good relationship to be like, and how does that compare to relationships you've been in, or seen friends in?

Book details

Author:Melissa Kantor
Genre:Coming of Age
Book type:Fiction
Publisher:Hyperion Books for Children
Publication date:May 1, 2007
Number of pages:272
Read aloud:12
Read alone:12

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Teen, 17 years old Written byhaybail09 May 5, 2009
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14
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dumb

i thought jen was being a big baby, get over it..max did...im not trying to be mean, but if someone breaks up with you they dont care anymore, why should she care?!
Teen, 14 years old Written bychipperj December 19, 2011
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common reasons that its a good book.

I think as a teen that it does have some cursing in it and some kissing but thats really all the bad stuff. I think that this book is good for teen girls cause in some of it it showes what not to do and gives some good advice. I think it shows that your not alone on the heart break that every one gets there heart broke every once in a while though the girl in the book takes it a little over boared, it still showes that your not the only one. so i do recramend it unless you shelter your kids from cursing and kissing.
What other families should know
Educational value
Great messages
Great role models
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Teen, 17 years old Written bygibi_14 March 11, 2011
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12
QUALITY
 

:P the breakup bible review

I really liked this book! sure there is drinking parts but excluding tat, its a great book! I love how she and Todd make an article for her class! I also founf it cool that she was able to confront Maz after he told her those awful things! I really liked the breakup bible!!! :P :D :) <3
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