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Valentine Princess: A Princess Diaries Book

V-Day romance fluff for Princess series fans.

What parents need to know

Positive messages

She's a strong kid who knows herself and speaks her mind, though influences of drinking and sex are around her.


Concern over disappearance of Grandmere and her new friendship with a "David Koresh-Fundamentalist-Mormon-Rasputin" type.


Mentioning of being a virgin and waiting to sleep with boys on prom night. Mia kisses her boyfriend. Girls talk about breasts being huge or being flat-chested, or having implants.


Very tame. Loose teen jargon such as "sucky," "I was like," or "she was all."


All over the pages: Maury, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Hallmark, Kay Jewelers, Teen People, the Today Show, Michael Jackson.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Mia fixes grandmother her mixed drinks. Mom tells story of girls who died from the drug ecstasy.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that there's prolific mention of name brands, usage of teenage jargon "like" and "she was all," and discussion of first romantic encounters. There are references to sidecar drinks, flat and big-chested girls, losing virginity on prom night, and kids using the drug Ecstasy. While this book appeals to younger tweens, the princess' teen issues are a better fit for readers 12 and up.

What's the story?

Sixteen-year-old Princess Mia is sitting in her limo about to travel to Genovia for the summer. That's when she discovers her journal from one and a half years ago and finds the section about Valentine's Day with her boyfriend Michael. He does not believe in the holiday, while she finds it a special time to express how she feels about him. Friends offer input, agreeing and disagreeing. In the meantime, her Princess lessons with her Grandmere have stopped as her Grandmere has developed a friendship with a mystic Dr. Steve and has disappeared, except for appearances on talk shows.

Is it any good?


This is basically fun fluff that will be hard for readers to put down. Hugely successful author Meg Cabot has cornered the market on writing for female tweens, having created a character that is very relatable as a gawky high school student yet fulfills young girls' fantasies of being a princess. This volume in the series is also written as journal entries. In VALENTINE PRINCESS Mia is actually rereading a diary from a year and a half before her first Valentine's Day with her boyfriend Michael.

Mia's a good kid at heart with strong morals and resistance to peer pressure, but there's not much here in the way of substance or tough challenges for her to face, making her a less relatable and engaging character and this series less meaningful.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about Valentine's Day -- what is this holiday about? Is it a means for card companies to earn money or are there meaningful, cost-free ways to observe it? Even though Mia is a princess, how is she still relatable to readers? Why does Mia keep a journal? Parents can point out how the process of journaling helps kids make sense of events in their lives -- a valuable tool during the tumultuous tween/teen years.

Book details

Author:Meg Cabot
Genre:Coming of Age
Topics:Princesses and fairies
Book type:Fiction
Publisher:HarperCollins Children's Books
Publication date:December 1, 2006
Number of pages:96
Publisher's recommended age(s):12

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Teen, 15 years old Written bymanda17 April 19, 2009

Anyone 12 and Up

I read this book before, and I have to say a warning to parents that have younger kids interested in this book. THE MOVIE DOES NOT HAVE THE INNAPROPRIATE PARTS OF IT! This book was made into a Disney movie, but although the movie is rated PG. The book has more dirty language, and some sexual references.
Teen, 13 years old Written bymoviegurl March 24, 2010

Not a good book for anyone under 13

The books are great, infact I read all of them. But if you don't like your kids reading books that talk about sex and being a virgin, it's probably not a good book to let your kids read. The only problem is the book puts down the thought of being pure...The Grandma in the story is a little rude, and does smoke/drink. Although, it's a fun book, that any girl will probably enjoy reading, Mia is a strong character who is surrounded by good friends.
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Great role models
Kid, 12 years old June 22, 2015


I have not read this book, but the rest of the series. If I can go on those, this is not really a kids book. Know who's reading it. Some may be ok with this and take it responsibly. If they are ok with it then it may actually help them in some ways. I was really surprised when this series was in the kids section at my library though and I would not recommend it to anyone under 13, not even myself(although I still am reading this series because it is just that addicting!)
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking