What's the right age for parents to get their kids a cell phone?

I'm a parent, 27, and I may have a controversial opinion. I'm a millennial with a 4 and 7 year old. The oldest is a girl. Shes highly independent and bold, and this year asked to ride the bus home instead of me picking her up. I was mortified honestly. I dont trust people, and after all the weird stuff that has happened in this world I get nervous. But despite my fear, my husband and I had a talk and decided to let her ride the bus. My only stipulation: she needed a phone. I did consider a crappy flip phone, but that is not the phone of this time. And smartphones have built in security features that help parents and kids stay connected. So we chose the Samsung j3 star as her first phone. We aren't an iPhone family, husband and I have a note 8 and galaxy 9. Anyway, shes does fantastic with it so far. Doesn't bother with it at school and no complaints from the teacher. I work from home, and when she gets off the bus, she calls me to let me know shes walking back. This makes me and her feel more comfortable. We do live in a gated community, but I dont know everyone around us, and even if I did, I have a responsibility to keep my child safe. She uses it to do research for projects and homework, and in her downtime plays games or watches videos. Husband is a techie and works for the mobile phone industry, so he set it up for her. So far so good. I didn't get my phone until I was 14, but cellphones were still kind of new.I never damaged or lost any of my phones. Also, it came in real handy. I think school-aged kids should have phones. Just having the peace of mind is enough of a reason for me. Plus, embarrassing your kid with an outdated phone or not letting them have one when their peers do is a recipe for...well...a lot of not so good stuff. Get them a cheap smart phone to start, monitor their use, have a conversation with them about the responsiblity of owning their phone, and call it a day. Parents might be surprised how maturely their child could handle the responsibility.

I think children should have a cellphone (note I did not say smartphone) or at least a phone that only contacts their parents when they start school, just for safety reasons. They can just hold it for school and the parent can take it back after class if they are so concerned. As for smartphones, as long as you limit a child's screen time it should be okay for any child who is mature enough. However I do believe it is important for children sixth grade or higher to have a smartphone to be able to be connected with their peers. I'm not saying that parents should run to the apple store and get the latest iphone for their sixth grader, but at least get them an LG touch screen that they can quickly check their grades on or use the calculator. If parents are really concerned about it ask for the phone before bed time and explain to them why you are doing so. It's important for kids to feel connected. I feel that if you have a good talk with your child and explain to them why or why not they should do certain things then they should be able to get a smartphone. I understand the whole "back in my day" nostalgia. However it is 2018! How did you feel when you were grounded and all of your friends got to go to the park to have fun and you couldn't. Imagine being able to watch them all having fun right outside your window? That is what you are letting your kid experience and they didn't even do anything wrong. Honestly, if you treat a child in middle school with respect, they should be mature enough to handle a smartphone.

Before my mini rant truly begins, I just wanna say, kudos to all you folks who grew up without cell phones in your life. You managed to survive, but times have changed. So, I just turned 15 and yet, no cell phone. I'm not complaining, I can see exactly why my parent's won't let me have one. If I'm out somewhere I'm always with another person and they have a phone, so I can ask them to use their's. The reason I so badly want a phone, it because I'm starting my freshman year of high school, and I know I'm going to get involved in clubs, events for art and choir, and go to parties like prom and homecoming! Some people are rude, and don't let others use their phone, so I would just like to have a way to contact my parents if necessary. Also, before I get a reply from anyone saying "If you have no phone, how are you typing this out for the internet, the most brutal place for criticism to be thrown, for everyone to see?", my school gives us Chromebooks for assignments, that's how. Anyways, back to my main point. I know how much my parents love me and want me to be safe, but if they really wish for my safety, I personally think it would be best for me to get a phone. Not only is it important for my high school life, but in March of next year, I get a driving permit, and then soon after that, my license! A phone is a vital part of a teenagers life in the modern age, especially since there's more danger than ever with the advancement of technology. I just hope I get my own phone soon so this little scrawny Asian girl with no muscle whatsoever can at least stay in touch with her parents and feel safe when she's by herself.

I have had an iPod since 4th grade (I’m in 7th now). It really does stink. I see what the adult are saying about how they grew up without them, but we grew up with technology around us, and we use it. Parents, when you were little, wasn’t there that one item that everyone else had, that you really wanted. Did you ever feel left out, until you got that item. For our generation that item is iPhones. Now I’m very socially involved. I can start a conversation with anyone, even an itrevert. But what hurts me is when, some one says “your really nice, do you have a Snapchat or a phone number so we can stay connected.” Nope. My parents say iPhones are expensive and distracting, and they are not wrong. But I’m not that kind a person who is going to post a picture of myself on Snapchat in underwear and a bra. I ave done school soccer, a school play, ballet, soccer for a wrec league, multiple summer camps, and cross country. And I’m very responsible. Once I was at school soccer parctice. Everyone had left and I was waiting there on the field. For my mom. The school had already locked up for the night, so I could use the phone. And my coach had left for home. My mom was an hour late. If I had had a phone that situation would worked out better. I have to save up for my own iPhone but I would like to bargain with my parents a deal of 1/2 and make a deal. I have to save up for my iPhone by my self now. I still like going on walks or runs with my dog, I like being outside. I just really want an iPhone.

Hello! I would like to share my opinion with you kids as an adult. First off, I was a child in the 80s, and cell phones, tablets & all other technology didn’t exist. I had an amazing, fun childhood & didn’t have to feel the pressure of having a cell phone to fit in! I really feel bad for this generation of children. My kids are 11&7, and I have made sure to limit their screen time & step out & enjoy the world!! My heart breaks for you youngsters who think a phone is the only thing important in life. You guys are being robbed of your childhood & it’s really sad! You should all be out playing outside & using your own imaginations to create things other than sitting on YouTube, video games & musically all day. Many of you may think I sound old school, but hey, old school rules!! I’m in shock st how many of you under the age of 13 are allowed an IPhone. To the kids between 10-12, you don’t need a cell phone!! You should be out playing and having a childhood! You have the rest of your lives to sit on the useless black box all day! To those of you who are teens: I understand the need of a cell if your using it to get in touch with your parents or something really important . Although when I was young, we had to call our home phone. We all managed to survive!! Life was much more fun and relaxed. We lived very happily without iphones and ipads. I was 20 when I got my 1st cellphone after 911. Nobody really used them before that, and life was much more simple. People actually spoke more and interacted in person rather than a phone or other electronic device. I feel very sad for all of you including my own kids. My 11 year old daughter doesn’t even care much about having a cell except for the fact all of her friends do. She rather go rollerblade, bike ride & dance. I will tell you having a cell phone is not that exciting. The novelty wears off. You kids have the rest of your lives to stare at the thing. I think the parents who really care for their children don’t let them have IPhones. At such a young age. Good job mom & dad! Keep teaching your kids that a cell phone is not that important. It really isn’t. I wish we could go back to land lines & be done with all this texting & facetiming crap. Everyone is glued to the phone all day. Really annoying! Your all missing out on the beauty of our Earth. There are so many other wonderful. & exciting things you guys could be doing other than texting in the cell or tablet. If you want to see your friends , call and go over to their house like we did as kids! We had so much fun in the 80s & 90s! I hope reading this from an adult perspective will help you kids to realize that a cell phone isn’t a necessity. Many problems of our world today is because a dramatic increase in technology & kids becoming addicted to cell phones and other devices. To those kids who “ don’t think it’s fair” that your parents won’t let you have a cell phone, your should thank your lucky stars that they care enough about your childhood happiness over a cell phone!! Social media is the cause of bullying, addictions, obesity, and many more health problems and psychological issues. I’m frightened to see how your all going to grow up. I will be honest with you all. I actually was much happier before cell phones & other technological devices took over our world. It really is shame. Hopefully, there are some of you out there that will really think about what I have written from an adult perspective & reflect on your own childhood. All of my 11 year old daughter’s friends love me because I actually talk to them & they are fascinated hearing stories from my childhood.! So kids please don’t waste your time worrying about having to get a phone & what others think. Real friends will care about you regardless if you have an iPhone or not. My advice to you all is to get out of the house & off your electronics and have some fun before your childhood is over!!! I hope my response will help alleviate your worries, and get you to think deeply about the important things in life. Please just have fun & don’t hurry to grow up. You will regret it later.

It is important to consider that kids might get addicted to their phones. While a simple parenting lock can help with this, you might still not need to buy your kid a phone. If they are mature and in the 6th or 7th grade, you might want to consider it. However, if your children are younger but still in need of a means of communication, a simple iPod or iPhone SE/5s will do. If you have an old, but working phone, please think about it too. Now, parents, just because your child says, "All my friends have phones too" (I'm sure parents always heard this, am I right?), do not spoil them with the gift of a small box with immense power. Also, if your child is involved with many extra-curricular activities, talk to your child about. Edit: Shout-out to that other person that liked my language. Just-sayin

Okay. This is a pretty tough question. It honestly depends. Most of my friends got their phones in 4th-5th grade. They were pretty nice phones. I do live in a suburban area where most people are pretty well off. I got my phone when I was 12 and in 7th grade, It was an iPhone 8. Yes, I do realize that that is really expensive, but I take good care of it and mostly use it for emergencies. My parents bought it for me for safety purposes since I do go around a lot, For other people, it might be different. Maybe your child isn't careful with their things, tell them that. Then if they're responsible you'll buy one for them. Money. Money is a huge issue. Most (smart) phones today are pretty expensive, around $400-$1000. A lot of people can't afford that. Maturity. If your child isn't mature, or if you know they'll goof off or use it in class, you probably shouldn't give it to them. I'm not going to say "Buy your kid a flip phone at age 10" or something like that because it all depends on the family. If you can afford a nice phone and think they are ready, go for it. It honestly depends on the child and your budget.

I’m 16 and still don’t have a phone :(

I don't really believe you have to be a certain age to receive a phone; it depends on the responsibility your child has obtained over the years. Before everyone judges me because I have an iPhone 8 plus, Let me tell you what I have done. First I am ten in the 6th grade. I have skipped 2 grades and I am doing high school level math in the 6th grade. I have straight A's but I could always do better. I do lots of afterschool programs, and sometimes I stay at my friends houses, and most of the time I have to take the bus home. I have learned to be responsible by taking care of my little siblings, and I mow people's lawns, and saved up $400 to buy the first half of the price of the phone. I know that I might seem like I am bragging, but I am not. I am not rich whatsoever and i have been a spoilt brat EVER. All these whiney teenagers should find better ways to talk to their parents. It did kind of suck without one, but I wasn't dying.

I’m 10, and I got an IPod Touch 5 when I was 8. My parents felt I was responsible enough but not enough for a phone. My older brother who at the time was 10 but now 12 doesn’t have one yet but will get my moms old one for middle school. I feel like 12 is a good age. Maybe younger if them kid is in clubs and needs to let the parent know that’s they are done ect.

I’ve got an iPhone 8 it’s nice, really fast and iOS 11 is cool. I like being able to have social media and friends unlike everyone else in the comment section

In my class of 35, only another girl and I do not have a phone. The thing about it is that I really need a phone because my school is very academically inclined and there is often not enough time to copy down notes. This means that you will have to take pictures of them but I am not able to so more often than not my notes will be half copied and I have to rely on others for pictures of the notes which I do not like because I like to be independent. I feel very left out in my class and many times, my teachers will WhatsApp my class group chat about last minute tests the next day and I would go to school and find out that there is a test. So within30-40mins I have to learn the materials the best that I can and I really hate it. I had a phone last time from 10-11 years old but it has been confiscated since I was 11 for getting a 78/100 for maths. Also I come home from school everyday and 4 times a week, I come back at 6.30-7pm. If i have any last minute matters, I am not able to tell my mum that I won't be coming back for lunch or dinner.

This is a topic that I have been talking to about with my parents lately. I am personally turning 13 in a few months. When I asked for one, they told me that I could either buy the phone by myself, wait until Christmas or wait until my birthday (I chose to wait until Christmas to see if I have any reasons at school to need a phone). So, I say about 11+ would be good (and for a younger child 10-, an iPod or a flip phone). But, it all depends on the parents, how mature the kid is and if they have good reasons to need one.

I understand this is a different generation of kids. We didn't have cell phones when I was young like my children are one starting freshman year of high school and the second one starting kindergarten but I did get a pager when I was in junior high school 7th grade. I think a good age for the average kid would be high school now if your child has special needs like it is a diabetic or has any medical problems then I think getting them like a Disney phone for example or something similar where it's not internet and Facebook and all that stuff but just to where they can click a number and call for their parents or anyone on their emergency list for their cell phone and can only receive calls from people that are approved I think that is okay 4 children to have when they start going to school and are away from their parents. Plus it would give the parents peace of mind and the child would probably feel safer knowing that mommy or daddy or Auntie or grandma or whomever is right at their fingertips. In fact for most kids up until a certain age I think all cell phones should be the basic flip phone style that can only make calls to certain numbers and receive calls from certain numbers as the parents add those to the plan as they go along and it's a one set fee. As for smartphones of any kind I think your kid needs to earn that with having good grades and being responsible with their friends and showing Model Behavior and listening good at home. I wouldn't ever get my teenager an iPhone or a Samsung Galaxy there are other smartphones that are a lot less expensive that have the same features. I believe that once your child is 18 and could afford their own smartphone that's when they could decide if they want to buy an iPhone or a Samsung or any type of expensive mobile device so they have the responsibility of caring for something that they worked for.

Listen I'm 14 years old I still don't have a phone in 8th grade everyone was talking to each other and knew a lot about each other don't get me wrong up had friends but everyone had a phone and I didn't I asked my mom when I would get a phone and she said soon. So I didn't know until a couple weeks ago but apparently I had to go the whole summer with a stupid flip phone that I could definitely been picked on just to get a new phone and I had to ride my bike to high school for summer workouts so I turned down the volume on the phone all the way that way nobody could hear it and burried it in my book bag. So I went half 1 and a half of the summer pretty good well I had a church camp and my dad asked me to bring the flip phone but I don't know why I didn't bring it was one simple thing and I didn't do it. Anyway I got back and he said did you bring your phone I told him no and he said how can I trust you with a 700 phone if you can't even listen to me to bring it for 5 days so now I am mad because now I have to go another 2 months just to get a phone I have tried everything I prayed to God I have listened to them been more mature but now I have lost all hope all my friends have phones except me everybody wants me to get a phone but my parents I feel like don't so I just cry at night just wanting a phone hoping and praying that I get a phone but every day I wake up its like a slap in the face no phone all I want is a phone but they don't understand does anybody know what I should do

Okay guys...I know its frustrating not having a phone......I get it, I don't have one either. Sometimes you get left out, and it makes you feel kinda lonely. But you HAVE to be nice to your parents or else you won't get one. Me for instance, I am almost 12, and I popped the question around for a whole year before my parents decided to get me one. I am getting one for my birthday in August. But, I really needed one. I am going into middle school, and will be staying home alone after school EVERY DAY. Plus, I will be taking the late bus 4 times a week, and I will be dropped off 3 streets away, on a very large and busy street. I am in all honors classes which are a year accelarated, and math is 2 years accelerated. Plus, I got the highest score on my math final in my entire grade, a 98.8%. My parents did ask me a few times about my peers and if they had a phone and social media. They decided to get me one after being consoled my their friends and neighbors. Bottom line, they were concerned about my safety. Some of your parents, I'll admit, sound REALLY stubborn, so this doesn't apply to you. They also made me work for my phone...if I got terrible grades, I would get a flip phone. But, I worked hard, getting top grades in math and language arts, and As in science and social studies. I am also 3rd chair in my school band, and was chosen to open for the talent show, playing The Star Spangled Banner. I also got my green belt in half the time it takes most people at my dojo to earn. Now, I will get a Samsung s6 or s7. Again, that depends on my behaviour this summer. Most importantly, don't whine about social impacts, that only your parents can understand. I told my parents that if they gave me a smartphone, I could use WhatsApp to call them everyday after school and they could get a basic phone plan. I showed them things that mattered most to them, my safety, costs and grades.

In my experience, cell phones became almost essential in the classroom starting around middle school. They were used in place of traditional calculators or dictionaries, and checking the online gradebook was much more convenient with a phone available at hand. In terms of social media usage, I'd agree with the majority and say that the child's maturity is far more important than their age. But if phones themselves are encouraged in a school setting, I see no reason not to provide the child with one.

i don't mean to sound like a child but, everyone pities me. and I hate it.

My personal opinion is that you should get your child a phone the summer before 6th grade. This previous school year I was in 6th grade and I didn’t get a phone until Christmas. I think that is part of the reason 6th grade was so tough for me (besides most of my friends from elementary school went to a different middle school.) I think since I didn’t have a phone for awhile, I got shut out of things. Middle school is the point when people start to judge you. Without a phone I couldn’t see any trends, and other popular things like that. Sure I had one of the earlier iPods, but it took about 30 minutes to load a website! Finally after asking, dropping hints, and most importantly 3 slideshows; I FINALLY got a phone. Now: other kids in my grade had super expensive phones like the iPhone 8 or something like that. My parents decided to get me the iPhone SE. I personally think parents of middle school aged children should get their child a iPhone SE or a iPhone 5. Not some $1,000 thing. My dad bought my phone for around $160 dollars give or take.

Hey I thuink you should get your first phoneat 13. I dint get mine yet because my parents dont want me to. But i do have an android. A samsung 7+ and i got it this year for my birthday but I can only use it for emergencys.

I am 13 in about a month and I will be getting my mums iPhone 6s. All the others kids on this post have been commenting and saying really immature things. The only reason I am getting a phone is because my brother had got one at the age of 13. Respect your parents choices because fighting them can make it worse. I do find it unfair that my friends got phones in like the 3rd grade but think about, what sort of parents are that stupid to give phones to young kids? Just think about that.

I have to say I agree. From many of your comments I now know what (some) of your schedules, friends, ages (though that was required) and other personal info are! Some advice to start letting your parents know you are mature enough to get a phone- First do some research on the proper amount of time you should even be on this phone! A recent study says that your TOTAL amount of time on screens should be SIX hours! Also talk to your parents amount different rules and limitations you should have. Then start trying to become more mature about situations- keep your grades up, help around the house, etc..... Another idea is to write up a list of pros AND cons to having a phone. Or a list of how having a phone would benefit you and how it is different from the ipod/ipad/other electronic device you already have. Hope this helps!

So I turn 14 in a month and I still do not have a cell phone! My parents are talking about getting me a cell phone so I might get my moms old one. But they will put lots of restrictions on it and I will not be allowed to access social media. I have a secret email account so haha. I am writing this on my school iPad because that's the only device I have. I also might get a Chromebook in a couple years otherwise I can only use my moms stuff. I can't even listen to music on my music player because then it will corrupt my brain. I can only watch movies with no kissing or any little romance. It is so unfair. Help me

Hi, I have been reading all of these during the day. Anyways.... I am turning 13 very soon, and I still don't have a phone I have been asking for one since I was seven, My parents are really strict because They always want me and my 8 year old sister to do sports, we both do 3 to 4 sports each. And If we are lucky we might get tv on the weekends, and if we eat really really healthy we might get dessert, if we ear lucky.... Then to make things worst my parents want me to shut down my media accounts, and None of friends are in my class, or on my bus line, or live in the country with me , or have blonde hair like me and they do privit music lessons and have their own untrument unlike me... IM BEING LEFT OUT.... my friends says that they would adopt me because my parents are so mean.... I almost wanna cry becuase I don't have a phone , I have to use the computers at school do do this and for my media accounts i use my 65 year old grandpas phone, So follow me on insta

Hello. I have been reading through some of these comments and it's SOOOO surprising how many people feel the same way I do. I am will be turning 14 in about a month and I still don't have a phone (I am writing this on our shared family PC). Well at least a good one as I just have a crappy nokia. Next year I will be a Freshman and I am the only one in my grade without a phone. My sister, who is now 19, got her 1st phone when she was 13. I think that since then, things have gotten more extreme and more kid have phones at younger ages. My parents don't want me to get a phone because they believe I would be anti social. BUT ACTUALLY it would have the opposite effect!!! They are always pressuring me to get together with friend (especially as I have just spent my first year at a new school and I previously did homeschooling). But how am I suppose to contact friends without a phone?!?! (Nobody checks email that often lol) At this new school I have made many new friend and been more social but it would just be a lot easier with a phone. I feel REALLY left out when EVERYONE (LITERALY EVERYONE) has a phone (I think I would be more confident if I had a phone)(I wish I could be apart of the chat groups :(). Because I don't have a phone, I don't know the trends and stuff (One day I go to school and everyone is referencing the yodeling kid and I'm like WHAT THE HECK?!!) I just pretend and say that my phone is not that good so I just keep it at home as there is no point in bring it. But that's a LIE (I even lie to my best friend). This year I have tried really hard with my grades, chores and my social life (even tho not having a phone makes it really hard!!!) I really want to get a phone for my birthday but I am too scared to ask as I am worried my parents will question me and say "What do you intend to do with it?" and stuff like that. It's been hard enough try to survive Middle school without a phone and I am REALLY worried that I won't get a phone before high school. HELP!!! :( BTW: If you want to know what I think it a good age 12+. Any age before then I think kids should be able to just enjoy childhood carefree and I think having a phone any age below 12 would change this :). I also think that all siblings should get a phone AT THE SAME AGE so it's fair for the other brother/sister. (Sorry that I typed so much. This is kind of like therapy for my hehe)

I think 13 is an appropriate age for a smart phone. It’s late compared to some but my husband and I don’t think it’s necessary to text each other constantly or to be online a lot. Our son has a Nokia to text, call from and a lap top (provided by the school) so we feel that’s enough. He is not outside any social networks because of it and we do not have the phone eating into our time together as a family. Maybe it’ll be different for our daughter when she reaches 10-11.

about 90% of my class has a phone, and I have to get into the AA program in my school to get one, while most kids get promised a DOG when they get into the program, yet many parents dont even CARE whether or not their kid gets into the AA program! Its so unfair!

I am 16 years old i have a phone but it is not all that good My family has prepaid i believe there's nothing wrong with it my 1st phone was a samsung Galaxy j1 it wasn't activated my 11 year old cousin has a Samsung galaxy on5 Its activated! i was so mad data and everything My family gets so MAD when i called him spoiled he has an xbox 1 a laptop and his phone he had a wii u too all he wants he gets it. I'm like why am i being left out i didn't have that stuff in 5th grade. I Am so stupid I Have low down zte maven 3 because my Samsung galaxy j1 got Smashed with a hammer. (i didn't do it) so since last year i was the dumbo without a phone... i was so depressed. Comment and like!

I am 14 years old in year 9 and had just had my birthday. I don't have a phone but my parents always call me spoilt. Saying that I do have a computer but I share it with everyone because there are no other computers apart from the one my dad uses for work all the time. My brother and sister are both in their 20s almost 30s and my parents are still paying for their devices. Altogether, my mum has a TV, a phone, an iPad and another iPad. My Dad has a Mac and an iPad. My brother has a iPhone and a computer same as my sister and her husband. My dad paid for all of them. In year 9, 99.99999% of people have a iPhone, that part missing is just me. I always feel left out when my friends have sleepovers and every one of them has a iPhone and an iPod. They have group conversations and I text them using my moms phone and she always tells me off for using it even if I'm doing something for her on the phone. I find my mom is a hypocrite here because she is always saying how none of my sibling had them at my age. YEAH, BUT IT WAS THEN, 18 YEARS AGO, AND THEN THEY GOT IT WHEN THEY WERE 15 ANYWAYS!!! AND I am in the top class in school, I usually come 3rd in the year, I do more chores than my mum, I cook dinner three times a week, I don't swear, I play 4 musical instruments, I do extra curricular activities, I am responsible and mature, I always do what she says,( and not trying to sound spoilt but, I HAVENT GOTTEN ANY CLOTHES/ PRESENTS FOR 3 YEARS, no kidding, my clothes are literally falling apart and don't fit) I do everything you could dream of, SO PLEASE HELP ME FEAL INCLUDED IN SOCIETY

I think you should get a phone when your kid is responsible, and knows how to do school things, and you know is responsible enough to not misuse the phone and take school into their mind. - I think a good age would be 13+ -

I am 11 years old, and I would like to share my experiences. I am currently finishing up 5th grade, and I don't have a phone. I am getting one in less than a month, but I would like to share how I have felt. So let's start off by talking about how many kids have phones in my grade. I'd say about 65-75% of kids in my grade have phones, or at least iPads. I don't have an iPad (mine broke), but I may get one soon. Anyway, all the kids in my grade that own devices are in something called a "fifth grade group chat." I'm pissed off because I don't have a phone, so I can't be in it. I personally think that parents should get their child a phone when they turn 10. But it depends... one of the kids in my grade has had a phone since kindergarten. Thanks.

When I was 8, I asked my parents if I could purchase a Tracfone Cell Phone; and they said yes; it was a LG 440G Flip phone, and you would buy refill cards, which would give you minutes, 4 years later, I have a iPhone on Verizon Wireless, but I thought it would be fun to activate a old phone on T-Mobile Prepaid, which if you use the pay-as-you-go, it would cost a minimum of $3 a month (assuming you already have the phone and sim card) for service, this gives you a combined allowance of 30 minutes/texts, over that would cost $.10 per call minute/text. I think that if you use T-Mobile prepaid, that's a great way to see if your child is ready for a cell phone, and to see if you can trust them with one, because if they lose it, they would be losing an old phone, where you can just go onto my.tmobile.com and cancel the service.

I think parents should get kids cell phones when they are mature enough. When you see your kids are doing their homework, helping around the house, doing well in school I think that is the best time to get your child a cell phone. I got a phone when I was twelve, for safety reasons. Something you should also remember, will your child misuse their phone or get behind any rules that you have? If yes, then you should wait or put restrictions on the phone. But I think the best age to get a phone is between 11-14 because that is usually when kids are in middle school, and kids may feel left out if they are the only one without a phone.

Well, I'm 11 years old and for awhile now I've been wanting an iPhone. Okay, I'm in 5th grade and EVERYONE has an iPhone. Not even joking, all my friends have an iPhone. Like my one friend has the iPhone 7+ and it's pretty pathetic. She's SO rude to her parents and I don't know whats wrong with them, this one time she did naughty things on snapchat... SHE GOT HER PHONE TAKEN AWAY FOR 2 WEEKS! 2 WEEKS if that was my mom... oh stuff would go down! My mom would take it away for at least til' I was old and wrinkly. NOw, I have an iPod and its kinda the same but, it has no wifi when you go somewhere. Whenever we go to the mall, on her phone talking to her OTHER flippin' friends. Now I know you would say thats a bad friend but i'm stuck with her. My mom is her moms best friend. She's such a bratty rat! UGh! Well, back to the topic, I believe kids shouldn't have an iPhone til at least middle school. Yeah, yeah I want an iPhone. Let me tell you, I am so nice to my parents and I've been asking and asking and asking! No help. I'm great in school, not the best but not the worst. K, I always feel left out whenever I'm with my "friends" I feel like the ugly duck, with no iPhone and it kinda sucks. But I'm dealing with it because its not the end of the world, but my mom just doesn't get me sometimes. I'm very responsible, I've had an iPod for 3 years and 8 months ( not like I've been counting). I don't have a single scratch unlike my friend over here literally her phone is cracked for dayzz. Also I am very outgoing and very confident with myself and I believe I could handle all the bullys that come across me. Now that I have gotten my point across you should let this LECTURE sink into your head so you could persuade my family and other family's. K bye thanks!

Well in my opinion kids/teens are allowed to have phones when they are matured enough. What exactly happened to me is I told my parents and proved that I'm mature enough to handle phones as a 13-year-old who is going to do her end of year exam of year 8. I convinced them and made a poster of pros and cons. I got the highest grades and showed my parents proudly that "here I've done my part and has been doing all my chores and I'm planning on continuing on what I'm doing" Apparently I thought wrong, they didn't allow phones at all!Not even my 17-year-old brother!Quite shocking!So I was upset and we had a huge fight because my mom was the one disagreeing and wasn't allowing us to have phones. My dad was in a denial but he didn't say anything. He was like a lost puppy and followed my mom's orders and didn't even side with us. In the end, I got some beatings and didn't get a phone. My mom said it's addictive and it can lower my grades and also lead me to some dangerous and bad sites that can cause trouble unless you are trustworthy enough. Maximum 90% my mom witness that students use phones before going to school and takes it with them when it's not allowed. Well, I'm okay with that, they take phones to school but what happened was a boy from my year got his expensive iPhone 7 and wallet stolen and a girls iPhone 7 got stolen and her money. These items are not easy to spend easily. When students/ teens misuse them, they either get cracked easily and damage the phone quickly whereas fully matured adults can use a phone longer than you can imagine. That is another reason why teens should not have phones at a very young age. Your own child must have regretted something they have done but can't seem to fully erase it from the world. They get depression cause of cyberbully and must have led to suicide. ONLY if your child is strong enough to handle situations like that, once again it's completely fine for them to handle a phone rather than misusing it. There can be pedophiles out there on the internet and dragged teens to trouble and hassle which can worry the hell out of parents. People out there telling teens should have phones at the age of... 7-8?!!?Unbelievable! Parents SHOULD NOT allow their child to have phones at that age!Your child hasn't been introduced to the internet life properly and giving them a phone with no restrictions can be a big step and is very dangerous. There are many dangers out there on the internet that they are unaware of and unfamiliar with. It can all start with safety, maturity and limited time of using and using it wisely and with care. This way can show that a teen is capable enough to get a phone at the right age. I and my brother are allowed to have phones when we are going to travel to our future *so deep* or when we turn 18. I feel like this is the right age to be completely mature and make the wise decisions. But I don't know about you. This is just my opinion and from what I've seen. My dad told his best friend that I have told that "She says she is mature enough to have a phone."That time I was 12. His best friend cried out loud and said "No please don't make the same mistake!I have bought a phone for my daughter *age 14 I believe* and she has completely has been attached to it. She was listening to songs all the time, she uses her phone at late hours of the night, her behavior dramatically changed when she got her first phone and she became more demanding. I regret giving her a phone" When her dad takes her phone for few days she goes completely insane! Yes, she does well in her educations but her other activities and attitude upsets her parents. From that I have learned that this isn't the right time to have a phone. The phone can wait when it's needed. Once again this is my opinion. I don't know about yours. Please do share your thoughts on what your understanding and knowledge is on this topic.

I think kids should get a phone when they enter Middle School. I am basing this belief off of what I noticed in school the past few years. In fifth grade, not many people had phones, but in middle school, about 80% of people had phones in 6th grade and 95% in seventh. As a seventh grader, I am sad because I don't have a phone yet and I am stuck in the minority 5% who cannot join in on certain conversations or talk about certain trends because I don't have my own phone. I have been begging to my parents for one for years, but my parents are not budging on the issue and I am not expecting one until high school when i will probably be the only one without a phone. A couple times these past few months, I have needed a phone but i don't have one. On snow days, I want to see if my friends are busy, but they don't check emails anymore because they all text on phones. That leaves me bored. Multiple times, my parents were super late to pick me up from chinese school and I get worried. If i had a phone, i would know where they were and what was taking so long. they just dont get it. Although i know they think they are just doing what is good for me, i feel that having a smartphone would put me in a way better and less uncomfortable position than what i am now. I feel left out at school and sometimes i get made fun of. My parents' decision to not get me a phone is doing more harm than good, at least to me. How do i get the message across to them that having a phone will help me a lot?

Yeah, I am in HighSchool and I'm not even exaggerating when I say that everyone in my school has a phone. Even if it is a flip phone. And, I must say, sometimes I feel completely left out. Now a days even the TEACHERS automatically assume that by this age you should have a phone. You have no idea how many times a teacher has said things like. "Okay class, now take out your phones and sign up for this. I want EVERYONE to do it" and then I just sit there all awkward hoping that no one notices that I'm not taking out my phone. It is not only in my school where most teachers automatically assume the kids have phones either. In my cousins school, she says that her teacher takes attendance by having the kids put their phones in a box. (I'm assuming she knows what the kids phones look like? ha, Imma pretend like thats not kind of weird) But, the point is, everyone has a phone in 2018 and not having one can really out you in awkward situations. You can even be bullied in some cases. Now, if you are a parent... just avoid having the possibility of your child feeling like the odd one out of uncomfortable and get them a phone... That was really what I was trying to get at.. I hope this helped...

I’m 13 and I’ve been asking for a phone for a while now, I do not have a laptop or anything else besides the ipad I am writing on which is actually given to every student at my school but since I’m in 8th grade and am going to high school next year I will no longer have it (the ipad is also highly restricted only allowing you to do little things). My birthday is in April and all I want is a phone but my mom doesn’t understand, she asks why I need a phone and I give her many reasons like the fact that I can’t contact her, what if I was in an emergency, etc. Although my brother turned 15 when he got his phone he had an iPod that he got for his birthday a few years before which is something I never got. It just makes me sad because I just feel so left out of everything, I don’t have any friends because I can’t even speak to them outside of school I’m isolated from an actual social relationship. I know that phones are expensive but they do last I’ve always been responsible and I do have good grades even placing me in honors classes.

I'm 12 and I think the right age to get a kid their phone is middle school. I think that I'm at the age where I should get my first phone but I haven't gotten one yet. It's hard because 75% of my friends have phones and are on social media. But I do NOT think that 4 th or 5 grade is a good time to get a phone. That's when a kid should have an iPod which is my opinion.

I am 17 years old and I just got a new phone , I Phone 8, I have always had the older phones of my friends but I kept waiting cause I knew one day I would get a newer phone. I had the 5s for 3 years ( that was after the 6 came out ) and yes I will be honest I complained about it but it was okay. All you kids that really want a new phone , don't worry about having the newest phone at such a young age , you have your whole life to have a new phone . Just go with whatever phone your parents give you and when you get old enough , get a job and work for a new phone . ( I pay $100 a month for my phone)

Kids should not be able to use a cellular device, until the age of 14+ Here's a personal conflict. Most people get really bad eyesight and also are less physically active by using a cellular device and impacts their study whatsoever. I, as a 12-year-old kid, blackmailed my parents to get a phone. Most people thought that "What you're parents won't let you get a phone?" And now I've made an article for kids not using cellular devices. Ask these questions I,e I am doing a big responsibility, is he or she really responsible to get a phone? Does the child's belongings or school equipment ever get lost? Do you think the child is old enough to consult their parents on a phone?

I'm 11 years old, and I'm in 6th grade. (I don't have a phone, and completely respect my parents views and agree with them on why I shouldn't have a phone.) Before 6th grade I always begged my parents for a phone because....everyone had one. I had to text my friends on my dad's phone and everything. It was so frustrating! And all of my friends have social media like Snapchat and Instagram that I could never have. But now I'm in 6th grade and I'm starting to notice that my friends are spending WAY to much time on social media and texting. My grades throughout 6th grade were PERFECT and all of my other friends weren't AS good. I'm not saying the reason they don't have as good grades as me is because they have a phone. But it could be a contributing factor. I think a good age to have a phone is in 9th grade, when you will have more reasons to use a phone and contact people since you are more dependent, reliable, and mature.

(F)I am starting my 8th year of school here, and I do not have a phone. For years, I have been persuading my parents to get me a phone, just like the other 'cool' kids in my 5th grade class. Eventually, I noticed that all my friends, even the 'nerdy' ones, were starting to get nice, expensive, and upscale phones like the iPhone 6+. This fueled my persuasion skills even more, and I made elaborate presentations about the iPhone and why I should deserve one. I gave up for a while, until a few days ago. Using the howadultareyou.com test and not searching up or asking for answers, developed by a psychologist, I scored an unbeaten(at my school) 97%. This gave substantial evidence, however this did not get me a phone. What it did give me was that my mom finally accepted that I was mature and responsible enough for a phone, which I will be given in 9th grade. My mom just wants to wait one more year of no-phone time just to reduce my exposion to phones. I'm happy now! If your child is responsible, shows good character, has good grades, and displays a consistent level of maturity, you can give him or her their first phone.

It should be 10 look it up your self.

I think that kids should have phones at about 6th grade that is when they start to do more things with friends and sports that you need to let them have the phone to call you if something is wrong. and about middle school I was staying home a lot with my sister so i needed it to call my parents anytime i need to. i would also only get them 1 phone and if they cant keep it safe in a month then they should not have one but it is up to you.

Here is a good criteria set: Ask yourself: “Is my child/teen involved in a lot of afterschool activities?”, or “Am I away from home a lot?” If this is so, you may want to get your child a phone for safety. Another thing you should ask yourself is: “Has my child/teen displaying maturity, are their grades good, can they complete tasks?” If they exhibit the traits you have been pondering, a phone could be an option. Another thing to consider is “How can a phone affect their overall life (for the better or worse)?” By using this criteria, you can properly consider if they deserve a phone. You don’t have to get them the latest model (I got a my first phone a few weeks ago and it was an iPhone 6S), as long as it can use the latest (or previous) version of whatever it runs. However, if you give them a phone your previously owned, and it is an iPhone, consider getting a battery replacement first to make it run good (it’s only $29).

The age a child should get a phone depends on the child. If your child displays lots of maturity and you believe they will do the same with a phone, you can get them one. If not, then wait. With me, I was the type of kid that had frequent meltdowns when I was younger, and I displayed maturity at times but it was inconsistent. Eventually, I realised I needed to grow up, and I picked up my game. After that, my dad told me he thought I was mature enough to have a phone. You, as a parent, should do the same. Wait until they are consistently displaying maturity and until they have proven they will do the same with phones. I got a phone at age 12, but some people got one earlier and some are older than that and still don’t have one.

Hi, I'm rosa. I'm am 15 years old, I don't have a phone, my parents rule is we are not aloud to have a phone until we drive alone!!! Yes! I now it's not fun haveing a phone but I just haft to trust my parents now what they are doing, yes I've always wanted phone most teens make fun of me becouse I don't have a phone, all the kids that do have a phone be great flu for what u have and don't want newer becouse there are kids out there who don't even have a phone! Anyway that's it.

When I was around 10 that's when I first got my official phone (which was a Blu studio energy 2) it was a little expensive but not to expensive (like around $150). But after a year of my phone being in perefect condition my parents decided to get me a iPhone 6 plus (which was around $500 at the time) and I took good care of that to. Then around a year and a half later I got the iPhone 7 plus (which was around $860 at the time) and then now a few months ago I got the $1,000 Galaxy note 8 (I'm 13 at this time). So my point is to start little and see how responsible they are before deciding to blow $600 on a phone, because if you give a child the latest iPhone as there first phone they won't know how it's like to own a basic phone so therefore they will not appreciate the value, they might appreciate it physically but not mentally.

I got my phone when I was in fifth grade and my dad got it for me so I could keep in touch and I’ve had it for a year now and it’s is still in tack so about sixth grade is the right time to get a kid a cell phone

I am 13, and in eighth grade. My parents, for whatever reason feel that I'm not ready for a phone. I do believe that a phone is very important in day to day life. I'm a triathlete, and so I go on 60 mile bike rides, how am I supposed to keep in touch? I'm also into photography, and sometimes I don't have a camera on me, I do have a small little flip phone, but the camera is .3 megapixel. That quality can't capture a single thing! Anyway, I don't think a kid should get a phone when he is 10, 11 and maybe even 12! I wanted one so badly at that age and I didn't get one. I look back at this and realize if I did get one at the age, my life would be a mess! I think the correct age to earn a smartphone is around 13 years of age. This is just my opponion and I could be wrong, so sorry if you disagree! Thanks!

There is no real age limit on having a phone. It is about maturity and if you think your kid would be sensible using their phone. Could it wait a few more years?

I don't have a phone and I'm in 6th grade. And the reason I NEED a phone because, in my Theater Arts class, we have to memorize lines and I won't be able to contact my friend who is in my class. How am I suppose to memorize lines if I don't get to practice with her? And her mom doesn't even let her stay after school.

I don’t have a phone and i’m in seventh grade. i have a cousin in second grade that has a phone. everyone but like a few people in my school have phones aka my friends. i get made fun of for not having one. i think the right age for parents to get kids a phone is sixth grade because in middle school that’s when it’s really important because you’ll hang out with your friends after school and they will need to know when to pick you up. my brother got his phone when he was 14 because my parents rule is you have to pay for it to have it. but i’m too young to get a job except taking care of my neibors cat. there’s nothing that can help me because i get 3 bucks for allowance a month and 10 cents for any additional chores. so yeah in high school you have to have one because the teachers make you take pictures of the board instead of writing so i’m screwed. thx for reading my rant i love you

So am 13 and everyone in my school even people 2 grades younger than me......but I don't. My parents are divorced and so my mom bought me a android phone my dad took it away like 5-7 time a day on time he took it away and dropped it (it broke and shaterd) before this happend my dad threatened me with a flipphone then he finally did it. I have all A and maybe 1-2 B in school I don't do anything bad but that's just how it is for me. My dad won't let me get a better phone even if I buy it and it's soooooooo hard because am in grade 8 with a flipphone. My friends are always complaining about how they hate their iPhone 6pluse they got foe christmas beach use it's gray and not rose gold it make me want to slap them. Buy I don't know what to do ive only told 2 people about it and haven't even told one of my best friends in the whole world. Thank you guys soooooooo much I thought I was the only one with these phone problems

Hi. im 13 in 7th grade and my parents won't let me have a Phone with CELLULAR. I have an old hand me down galaxy s4, and have a text app on it. It is super embarrassing when everybody is on their iPhone 6 or 7's. I have to use someone elses phone to call them They get mad when i miss calls and texts, but i go out a lot, and i cant receive texts if im not on WiFi. I feel left out. my parents also never want to talk about it, and Christmas is coming up but i know i wont get a phone. I dont understand. I have saved up for a phone, but m parents said no! I also have A's and B's in school. I dont know what to do. My sister has had a phone since December of her 6th grade. (She's 15 now.) she got an iphone 4s, and then got an iphone 6s. She is way worse of a person than me and has had her phone taken constantly. I have never had my phone taken away.

This depends on when the parents decide. I was one of the last kids to get a phone, there were kids in my fourth grade class with phones! At the time of writing this (11/29/17), my parents got me a phone in June 2017 (a few month prior to this).

I'm in 6th grade and everybody in my school has a phone except me. I asked my parents why they won't get me one and they just are like we haven't have time to talk about it. But I know their lying. I hear them every night talking about it. And they say I'm responsible but it's so not fair. I feel like such a loser. Everyone at school teases me and I get left out because of that. I think you should get your kid a phone when they start middle school.

Personally I do not have a phone with a SIM card so I am unable to make phone calls without a internet connection. It sometimes proves to be difficult to contact my parents to communicate. Age 14/15 or the freshmen year of high school is a good time to get a cell phone, and also the maturity level of the child plays a major part in whether a phone would be used appropriately. During the high school years a phone is transforming form being a want to being a need, as many schools use communications through technology. So the years of high school would be a good time to get a child a cell phone.

Hi, I definitely think that you should get one by 10. Maybe a hand me down, like a used phone that you can download an app that to text and call on, just in case.Or a cheap one that doesn't cost a lot. When you are 11 or 12, I definitely recommend getting a new phone. You start to actually NEED it. Like me. I started to be in situations where I needed to contact my parents and i couldnt. Very inconvenient for both of us. Plus, I started to have a wider group of friends, and we wanted to contact each other via phone. You also start to feel left out, because it seems everyone has it. It might not seem like a big deal, but it is to kids. I am only 11, and peer pressure was getting to me too. Even my parents thought so. They decided to get me a new one, and we ordered a new Galaxy S8 for me. I was very happy, and my parents thought I was responsible enough for one. Mind you, I am not saying to get the latest phone. ANY smartphone is good. But I think that you have to make sure your kid is responsible enough, despite their age. A 9 year old can be more ready than a 13 year old in terms of maturity. I hope I helped.

Hi, I am a tween, and i am actually getting a phone next week, a S8 Galaxy. I think eleven is a good age, as you are a tween and starting middle school. I felt pretty left out, and i had new friends that I really liked that I wanted to be connected to, as before I was a shy and introverted person who didn't have a lot of close friends. I also actually needed it, as i go to a different church from my mom, so I need to have a form of communication with her. However, I have limits. I actually started my own rule: no social media. It spells trouble for kids, and if you read the news like I do (i like reading the news, it's interesting) you know what I mean. And I am only allowed to use electronics two days a week, Fridays and Sundays, which I think is a good limit for me. All that electricity and screen time is not good. And to all of you guys who desperately need a phone, I hear you. Maybe you should have a conference with your parents, talking about it. I hope this helped.

I've read at least 20 comments and I could agree on probably a majority of them. I had my dad's iPod when I was five all the way to 10 years old. I wasn't in any grade when I got my very first phone because it was the end of fifth grade but it wasn't sixth grade either. I do believe you should at least have a device like an iPod or a cheap phone like a Samsung J3 Prime.. Your age and maturity can be key too. My recommended age to get a phone for your child is probably 5th grade, or the start of middle school like 6-7th grade. If peers are pressuring you, just lie to them and say you have a phone already and you aren't allowed to bring it to school. I bet that'll kick them off the road. If you are still unsure just make sure you do a daily check on their search history and maybe after they've gotten more mature and more respective towards the social media and technology, you can be sure they won't misuse it.

Well I guess I will take the role of "worst mom in the world". Like Heather Land says "I ain't doin it!" I have three children, ages soon-to-be 4, an 8 year old and a 9 year old. my kids are already addicted to their Kindles as is I am not throwing a phone into the mix. My generation and this next generation has become so entitled and self absorbed, they believe that when they want something they deserve it no that is not true. When you hand a child a smartphone you're handing them over a very powerful tool. To have unfiltered internet access is insane. Do you realize how easily children can access pornography? Not just through searching for it on Google but also through Messenger and other hidden apps. The social pressure of sexting and sending lewd comments/photos to one another is so incredibly high. Do you realize that teen depression skyrockets by being on social media platforms by trying to meet up to their peers standards it's constant evaluation of whether they measure up 24 hours a day. And you don't even have to look at pornography through Google or messenger it's right there on Facebook teaching our kids what sexy is. There's the pressure right there I don't look like him I don't look like her. I'm saying maybe age 16 and that is with accountability software installed on their phone and controlled by my phone. Parents it does exist it is out there and yes your kids will be mad at you for it but better safe than sorry. look it up on Google Play apps. If you don't have the software of any sort your kids will find a way to hide things from you on their phone. I'd rather shave my legs with my husband's dull razor blade then buy my kids a smartphone before they are 16 years old and that's even pushing it because that's when they start driving and they may try to talk or text and drive. Nope. I ain't doin it.

I got my first phone at the end of 6th grade. It was my dad's old iphone 5 and it didn't work well. However, I am getting a Samsung Galaxy S8 (yes I'm spoiled when it comes to tech) for my birthday. I already have a tablet and 2 computers(laptop and desktop). Kids should get a phone at the end of a school year so that they aren't distracted by their new, awesome phone.

I am 13 years old and am in 8th grade. Everyone in school and all of my older siblings have phones. Everyone teases me about not having a phone, plus I'm in Middle School and I have to ask strangers or people on my team for there phones so I can call my mom. It is really embarrassing. I've had a phone before and I had it for a long time but then my brother stole it and reset it so now I don't have a phone. I also have enough money saved up to get a really good phone but my parents say I can't buy one. I would say that the right time to get a phone is the beginning of midddle school.

I'm literally a senior in high school and I don't have a phone. This is ridiculous. I am in the top of my class and never gotten a B or below in my life and I am super responsible. My parents are crazy.

I'm in 8th grade, and it stinks not having a phone. Practically everyone in the school has one. When I'm at a party or something funny happens in class, I can't take my phone out and record it ... because I don't have a phone. My parents won't buy me one until I get my driver's license because they say I don't need one. But I have a lot of extracurricular activities, I do track and dance and clubs at school. I hate having to ask to borrow a phone. I'm saving my money, because if I buy my own phone my parents will let me keep it.

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It all depends on if your kids do after school activities or not. It’s always a great idea for a good to have a phone when starting jr. High. It doesn’t need to be an expensive iPhone or Samsung. Start them off with something small and work your way up

I personally really want a Google Pixel 2. I am quite scared and nervous to ask my parents though, as their preferred age to get a phone is 13. My birthday is at the very end of the year, though... So that's why it seems weird if they get me a phone when I'm 11, when I'm actually going to turn 12 soon. I don't think they would ever surprise me with a phone on my birthday, unless I was 13 or 14. I asked my mom these questions (without her knowing this was about smartphones) and she said yes, I'm responsible, no, I don't lose things. I didn't ask her the rest otherwise she would know about the whole phone situation. I've talked about the GP 2 only once so far to my sister... and I'm kinda losing it. I have an iPod right now, and it works very well, but I have noticed everyone else has a phone except for me. I am in a school that's around 10 minutes away from my house, so if I ever walked and there was an emergency (which will hopefully NEVER happen) I could call or text them quickly with just a tap of my finger.

So, I turn 15 in about a month and I've only ever had one phone (no data or texting just a phone I could use wifi on) which was really crappy and broke after a couple months, my mother won't buy me a phone mostly because of money reasons but she won't let my dad buy me a phone who I'm pretty sure has enough money for it. I don't know why they won't get me one, I'm in all honours/accelerated classes and I've got straight A's, I do yearbook, drama, and my afterschool orchestra which you have to try out for plus regular orchestra and I take art. I think this alone shows that I'm responsible enough but I'm also in honour society and 4-h. I believe I am responsible enough but my mom thinks I'm too young even though most kids get phones in 5th grade now and I'm the only one in my grade(10 with 2 grade 11 classes) who doesn't have a phone. I believe I need one due to the amount I have to borrow my friend's phone to text her and the amount I stay after and go to events by myself and stay at friends houses. Although I try to respect her decision sometimes it's really hard and I will get into arguments with her. She never really explains why she doesn't want me to have a phone though it's always just "because I said so" and I'm curious as to why so if anyone has any ideas why please let me know.

I am 12 years old and in the 7th grade, but my parents won't give me a cellphone!! I have the money to buy one, but they say that I am too young!! Everyone else in my grade has a cellphone, except me!!!! I deserve a cell phone! I have never done anything bad in my life!! THey just don't trust my brother, so they think that I can't be trusted too!

I think that kids should get basic phones when they have valid reasons to have a phone (example, after school commitments), but when they are in high school, a smartphone, like the iPhone 6, is acceptable. This is my opinion because the world is changing, and this is a good idea, because you get children with iPhone 7's and their parents have iPhone 6's (experience).

i am a 16 year old and i dont have a phone but i think there shouldnt be an age on when a kid should get a phone the only factor in my house is if i can pay for at least half of the bill and when i am able to do that i can get a phone and i already can pay for half the bill and i am starting to get to the point where i need one just hear me out i ref hockey and i have had a few of my ref partners not show up for the game and i didnt have a phone to allow me to call my assigner to get another ref to help me out so i had to ref a peewee tear 1 so pretty high level by MYSELF!!!! and the parents and coaches were getting mad at me for not making a call they saw but i didnt because im only one person and i cant see everything

My mum said that when i go to secondary school next year, that i can have a cheap smartphone (under £70) and that i cant have a sim deal over 10 pounds unless i want to pay for it my self. I think that if (unless you know that they wont look after it) that any child should get a cheap smartphone for their 11th birthday/just before high school/secondary school. If they want an upgrade they can pay for it them self.

Honestly I only got a phone bc I had all A's and B's but tbh you don't really need a phone unless your parents are divorced and you need a way to communicate with them, or if you are in certain grade levels that your parents get worried etc.

I have 3 kids and believe that it is a must for your child and you for them to have a smartphone. These days phones are used for everything from being social to education and saftey.Kids get bullied for not having a phone and feel left out. Their are so many benefits of having a phone and I think it is stupid that some parents don't understand that their kids should get a phone. It is not as safe today as it was when us parents were growing up. Your child will need a phone when they get their first job, and do extra after school activities. By the age of 13 most kids are responsible enough and can benefit from a smart phone, it's better safe then sorry.

First phone idea - We got our son a "gizmo" at about age 8 (through Verizon) It's worn like a watch and limits calls to four phone numbers that you choose. We love the GPS feature that tells us exactly where he or the phone/watch is. When ever we go skiing, theme park etc, we make sure this is on his wrist. He's 10 now. I don't feel the need to upgrade to a smartphone yet, knowing he has the "gizmo" to reach us if he needs to.

I am 14 years old I have been asking my parents for a phone for about a year now. I know it seems silly to be so invested in just a phone but I feel left out around friends because I don't have one. I have been saving up for 8 months for a phone and still don't have enough money. It's hard to try and save up for something when you can't get a job. I'm going into high school this year and it seems like everyone has already had a phone forever. I feel I am mature enough to handle it and I keep trying to explain to my parents that times have change and a phone could really benefit me. I'm actually on this website to get thoughts and facts on why I should get a phone so I can write an essay explaining to my parents the reasons I want a phone. I think the fact I willing to pay and write an essay even though there is no reason I have to sort of show I am mature enough to handle my own phone.

I got a phone when I was 12, in seventh grade. I actually got my first phone when I was 8 or 9, but it was just an old flip-phone. I got a smartphone at 12 because I was heavily involved in extra-curricular activities, such as orchestra practice, martial arts and I had a job working at a grocery store. I think 12-13 is a good age to receive a smartphone. Children under that age are just too immature. I remember when I was 10, I wanted a phone so badly. I asked my parents for one almost 24/7, but they refused. At the time, I was angry. But now I can clearly see why kids under 12-13 have no business owning expensive smartphones. If they need communication so badly, get them a $5 flip phone.

I am 14 but my parents don't want me to us a cell phone. They think l will use my phone to watch bad stuffs, and l want use it for studies. this is really bothering me because,i use my phone to play games, and i don't use it for bad stuffs

Hi as a 13 year old who does not have a phone i have asked my parents for a phone since i was 11 they said no but i think it was okay then but now when i am going 8 th grade i don't think its fair not having a phone but when i go shopping i see 8 yr olds with iphones while i dont have a phone it hurts a lot but i think 13 is the age to start.

I'm 20 soon to be 21 end of next month and I got my first cellphone on my 18th birthday. I think kids should not get a cellphone until they are 18 cause of all the sexting I hear teens do and creating child pornography. I'm sure not all teens do that but alot do. At least only get 17- kids a flip phone with only texting/calling and no data so they can't send inappropriate content. At least they can stay in touch with their parents.

I got an iPhone 7 a few days ago. I am so happy to finally get one because everyone around me has one. I was the only person in 4th grade who didn't have a phone, so I think a person 10 or older can get a phone and use it responsibly.

I'm going into 8th grade and I don't have a phone. I'm not allowed to have any social media or communicate with my friends without parent supervision. I get really annoyed by not having a phone and I am very involved and our school is completely ran by phones and it's RIDICULOUS! Kids want to able to be on them at lunch, teachers post homework on instagram, and teachers allow kids to have their phones out for classwork giving them full access to the internet. My little cousins have phones and my 8 year old sister has friends with phones. It can be very embarrassing when somebody says, hey what's your instagram, Snapchat, or phone number and you have to come up with some excuse like oops I forgot it. I beg my parents for a phone and I tell them that basically everyone has a phone and they say that some don't. I get good grades and am responsible I have received citizenship awards and participate and volunteer at our school but my parents still won't budge. It now is a learning tool and I think that it is important to have a phone. think that 13 is a good age to get a smartphone if they are responsible and mature.

If you have a child under 18, you should have a reason why you're giving them a phone. Make sure they are responsible if they break or lose their phone. And I also reccomend an app or a phone that can protect your child from predators, bad apps, and bad websites. Always check their phone too once in awhile.

I say ages 11-12. Really middle school, because many kids walk/bike to school on a daily basis. Some children may need to wait another year, but most can handle following the school rules on cell phones. Most middle schoolers have them now, some teachers even allow kids to use them for certain educational projects because they know most kids have a smartphone. It's never fun to feel left out. That's why I think the start of middle school a good age to consider a smartphone for your child.

The only reason I want a phone is so I can have wifi all the time. But I see like 5 year olds with phones and I think. What the heck! Lots of people say 11 is the age where kids become mature enough for a phone and social. But being so small and having a phone is just wrong.

I think it is extremely annoying how there are kids younger than me that have phones. I only have an iPod touch and almost all of my friends have phones. I am writing a paper on this in English and I think that there should be an age restriction to own a smart phone. Having phones at a low age can be dangerous to them. They can look up inappropriate things that can be harmful to them. Also child abusers could ask them for pictures of themselves.

I'm 11 and I've got a phone. It isn't the iPhone 7 or anything, but it's a Nokia which is fairly tech savvy. I got it today and I'm more than happy with it. I can call, text and use Bluetooth. I recently shifted house, and I live in a gated community. So if my parents are at home and I'm on the other side of the community, in the playground or a at a friends place, I can use it to tell them I'm coming home or they can do vice versa. I think a kid should gat a phone at ages 9-12, maybe a bit later, but it depends on maturity and responsibility. If you think your kid is ready, then go for it. But don't give them a flagship smartphone. It can be quite dangerous. It's just my opinion. Thanks for taking your precious time to read this. Bye.