In my opinion, this game is fantastic - it does not promote bad messages, whoever said it does they're wrong because sex and all the other bits are natural and your kids are going to have to learn about it sooner or later, so it might as well be in game form. Plus, they go under the covers so you honestly don't see any of it. Also, it promotes good messages, kids will learn to make the links: if you don't treat people nicely then they won't be nice to you etc. and so they learn to be responsable and nice even though its in a game form. Thinking about it its a brilliant game for any kids.