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Reverent portrait of porn star has nudity, language, more.
  • Rated: R
  • Genre: Drama
  • Release Year: 2013
  • Running Time: 92 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages
The movie makes a strong case for standing up for yourself against bullies and abuse, even at the risk of safety and comfort. As part of the main character's recovery, she gets married and starts a family.
Positive role models
Though Linda Lovelace endures some hard times, performs in a porn movie, and is far from a saint, she eventually works hard to speak out against the porn industry and against the kind of spousal abuse that put her in that place to begin with.
Though the movie isn't constantly violent, the main character is the victim of spousal abuse. Her husband beats her and forces her to have sex with other men for money. Most of this is suggested, heard, or shown off screen, but that doesn't keep it from being disturbing and intense. In one scene, her husband throws her up against a wall. He carries a gun that he fires in anger from time to time. In a late scene, he's whipped with his belt.
Linda is shown topless for some photo shoots. There's strong innuendo and references to oral sex. The plot of the (real-life) porn movie Deep Throat is discussed. A married couple is shown in bed together, with suggested sex (both intercourse and oral), but little nudity is shown. The main character has many partners, though all of them unwilling. A man shows his bare bottom for a camera.
Language isn't constant, but "f--k" is heard in many forms, as well as "t-ts," "ass," "c--k," "p---y," "bitch," "clitoris," "balls," and "cum," plus "Jesus Christ" and "God" (as exclamations).
Not applicable
Drinking, drugs, & smoking
Drugs and drinking are prevalent in the world of 1970s porn. The main character smokes pot. Her mom and dad drink whisky at home. There's champagne at parties. Linda is seen taking pills. Linda's husband snorts huge amounts of cocaine in later scenes.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that Lovelace is a biopic about Linda Lovelace, star of the infamous 1970s porn movie Deep Throat. There's some female toplessness and plenty of sexual innuendo and sexual suggestion, but not much sex is actually shown for a film about porn. Spousal and sexual abuse are also intense parts of the plot, but the movie manages to keep most of it off screen or suggested, rather than shown. Language isn't frequent but is very strong and includes many sexual terms. And there's plenty of drinking and drug use. The movie is very sympathetic toward its heroine and celebrates her efforts to stand up against a dark and brutal world, but it's still not meant for kids.

What's the story?

After getting an abortion, young Linda Boreman (Amanda Seyfried) moves with her strict parents from New York to Florida in 1970. She tries to live a good life, but then she meets Chuck Traynor (Peter Sarsgaard) at a roller rink. He whisks her away from her stifling curfews, changes her name to "Linda Lovelace," and gets her a part in what will become the most famous porn movie of its time: Deep Throat. Linda's sudden fame becomes a blessing and a curse, and she finds it difficult to get away from the sex business once she's in it. Worse, Chuck turns out to be sexually and emotionally abusive. Years later, Linda writes a tell-all book, hoping her cautionary tale will help others in her situation.

Is it any good?

In LOVELACE, San Francisco-based filmmakers Rob Epstein and Jeffrey Friedman deliver a sympathetic portrayal of Linda Lovelace, asserting her innocence and good intentions. (It's based on her own 1980 biography, Ordeal.) But as far as biopics go, it's not great. It shies away from too much intense material, and it would have felt skimpy if not for the structure invented by screenwriter Andy Bellin. The first half of the movie is the typical rags-to-riches part, and the second half goes back to reveal the horrors going on behind the scenes.
This device has the effect of deepening the story and stripping away the façade. Seyfried is the perfect actress to play Linda; she's both charismatic and sexy but also squeaky clean -- she brings her own layers to the part. The rest of the cast is peopled with excellent character actors, but the real surprise is Sharon Stone as Linda's tormented mother, who realizes that her strictness did nothing to prevent Linda's fate and may, indeed, have contributed to it.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the sex industry. Does Lovelace make it look appealing in any way? 
  • How is sex portrayed in the movie? Is it loving or exploitative? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • In the movie, what was Linda's relationship with her parents like? Were they supportive? Caring? How well did they communicate?

  • Is Linda a role model? What makes her sympathetic despite the things she says and does?
  • Was Linda too young to be involved in this world?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:August 9, 2013
DVD/Streaming release date:November 5, 2013
Cast:Amanda Seyfried, Peter Sarsgaard, Sharon Stone
Directors:Jeffrey Friedman, Rob Epstein
Studio:Radius TWC
Run time:92 minutes
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:strong sexual content, nudity, language, drug use and some domestic violence

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Teen, 15 years old Written byJulia1998 November 13, 2013

Tragic tale done well

At 15, I have no problems with consensual sex being shown in movies or with any type of language, the part that made me uneasy was the spousal abuse, even if it was never shown, and finding out that all the sex scenes happened because of coercion, so that she was basically raped. Overall, she's a positive role model for managing to escape her abuser, but only kids who are ok and mature enough to watch a very tragic story should watch this.
What other families should know
Great messages
Great role models
Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much consumerism
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Teen, 16 years old Written byjm97 December 15, 2013


I watched this movie with really low expectations, and I ended up really loving it. Throughout the entire film I felt as though I was going through all of the ordeals that Linda went through. I liked the way the movie was structured, so that first all you see is the glamour and then the sparkle is peeled back and you see the pain and abuse that takes place. This again put the viewer in the perspective of Linda. Amanda Seyfried is PERFECT in this role and the rest of the cast is great too. Parents should very careful though. This is a movie about the porn industry, so you can expect it to be mature. This is a must see for 17+!
What other families should know
Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much consumerism
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Kid, 9 years old July 29, 2015

Oh why

The pornography is just a reason to destroy the TV
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking