Sex Tape

 
Mature, raunchy, but hilarious comedy filled with profanity.
  • Review Date: July 18, 2014
  • Rated: R
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Release Year: 2014
  • Running Time: 90 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

Amid all the over-the-top shenanigans is the message that marriage is teamwork, and couples need to be on the same team for a family to be happy. Also, sometimes catastrophes happen, but they lead you to a better place.

Positive role models

Annie and Jay are committed to each other, they share the same goals about family and life, and they watch out for each other, even if they may not always show their appreciation.

Violence

A man meets his match in a vicious dog that attacks him. He hits the dog, shoves it up against a wall, and falls off a balcony with it. One of the characters rams his SUV into a garage door in an attempt to break in. A young boy tries to blackmail an adult, and they have an argument in which both of them curse each other out. Two people attack a bank of computers with baseball bats.

Sex

Lots of scenes featuring a couple in various sexual positions. No sensitive body parts are shown, though the pair's backsides are visible, and there's plenty of skin. The couple makes their own porn film, and their efforts to do so are a big part of the plot. Much of it is played for laughs. A different couple steams up a car having sex, though there's nothing to see except a pair of feet. Photos of topless women are briefly seen when a porn website is shown on a computer screen.

Language

Frequent use of everything from "damn" and "bitch" to "d--k," "a--hole," "f--k," and "c--t."

Consumerism

Just about everyone has an iPhone or a Mac laptop or some other Apple product. iPads are a prominent part of the plot. One character even comments on how resilient the casing is and how it protects the device from breakage.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

A woman does a line of cocaine with her boss. A couple does tequila shots, to the point of oblivion.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that Sex Tape -- a raunchy but funny comedy about a couple trying to rekindle the passion in their marriage -- is definitely too mature for young teens and tweens. First off, there's the subject matter: sex, and the creation of a sex tape, and the problems and hilarity that ensue from that decision. There's also the exploration of a marriage's failings, which may go over the head of younger viewers. Given the plot, there's plenty of nudity (though no genitals are shown) and salty language (including "f--k" and "c--t"). Consumerism is rampant: Just about everyone has an iPhone or a Mac laptop or some other Apple product. Drugs and alcohol are used, and there's some violence played for laughs (a man hits a vicious dog, shoves it up against a wall, and falls off a balcony with it).

What's the story?

Married 10 years, Annie (Cameron Diaz), a mom blogger, and Jay (Jason Segel), a music exec, are still in love but can hardly fit in private time for each other because of the fatigue that comes with raising kids and juggling work. To celebrate the pending sale of Annie's blog to a Fortune 500 firm, they ask Grandma to take the kids and carve out some time for each other. Eager to rekindle their passion, they decide to make a sex tape. But when Jay forgets to erase it and it's accidentally uploaded onto the cloud, which anyone that Jake has gifted an iPad to can access (and there are many, since he cycles through iPads with regularity), the couple must use all available means to retrieve it before their reputations -- and Annie's blog sale -- are wrecked.

 

Is it any good?

QUALITY
 

For a movie that's ostensibly about sex, Sex Tape has a lot of heart. Diaz and Segel make a fine team, imbuing their roles -- larger-than-life characters though they may be -- with warmth and accessibility. Diaz is especially good in this film; her timing is great, and she's so likable, even when her character veers toward extremes. It's remarkable, too, how Annie and Jay are drawn as true equals instead of the standard-issue opposites-attract trope that Hollywood trots out in nearly every romcom. Bravo.

Nonetheless, by the time it's two-thirds along, the movie feels like it's flogged the same joke to death. Plenty of references are made to the embarrassment of having the mailman view the tape, and yet we never see him (or her), making all those allusions superfluous. A new complication thrown in toward the end feels unnecessary, and the ending is unsurprising, to say the least. And yet -- and this is the film's biggest appeal -- you feel good about Annie and Jay in the end. The premise may be tired, but they're not.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about what Annie and Jay ultimately learn -- not just about sex, but about marriage.

  • Because Sex Tape is about sex, you can also discuss the role of sex in movies. What is the movie's take on sex within a long-term marriage?

  • An iPad figures heavily into the film's plot. Is this just storytelling or in-your-face product placement?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:July 18, 2014
DVD release date:October 21, 2014
Cast:Cameron Diaz, Jason Segel, Jack Black
Director:Jake Kasdan
Studio:Columbia Pictures
Genre:Comedy
Run time:90 minutes
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:strong sexual content, nudity, language and some drug use

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Written byAnonymous September 25, 2014
age 16+
 

Dumb raunchy comedy has sexy humor + profanity over the top

My rating:R for sexual content,drug use and language throughout
Educator and Parent of a 14 year old Written bybeanhead July 18, 2014
age 18+
 

WHY??

Why does Hollywood think that this would appeal to anyone??? Don't bother, it is a total waste of money.
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Adult Written byYa Mom December 13, 2014
age 2+
 
What other families should know
Great messages
Great role models
Kid, 12 years old December 4, 2014
age 18+
 

Wow...

It is full of sex and language, so I'll start there. This movie, as the title states, is about a couple who make a sex tape, then accidentally send it to their friends. To stop it from going viral, they go on a wild chase to take it off of the cloud. Sex: 5/5 This movie, as the title states, is about a couple who make a sex tape, then accidentally send it to their friends. The main couple (Cameron Diaz, Jason Segel) make a sex tape. There are multiple scenes with topless women, most of which are seen on a pornography site. Diaz walks around naked at times, flaunting her bare rear end. Language: 5/5 There is a lot of language; f---, s---, d---, and pretty much any cuss word you can think of. Hold off until kids are 16-17
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking

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