"Rude" (CD single)

 
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Love prevails over dad's objections in fun reggae-pop song.

What parents need to know

Positive messages

The message of the song is that everyone should be allowed to love and marry whom they want, regardless of parental approval. 

Positive role models

The lyrics are sweet and tell a heartwarming story about a man who will not be deterred from marrying the woman he loves -- even in the face of her disgruntled, disapproving father. 

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Sex

"Rude" is about love and commitment, but there is no sexual content in the song.

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Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that "Rude" is a heartwarming, good-vibes summer jam about asking a girl's father for her hand in marriage, being denied his blessing, and running off to "marry her anyway." The tune is catchy, the lyrics are cute and clean, and the accompanying music video illustrates this story of persistent courtship.

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What's the story?

RUDE is the debut single from Canadian rock/reggae-fusion outfit Magic!. The song is about a man asking his girlfriend's father for his daughter's hand in marriage, only to be rejected, leading singer Nasri to lament, "Why you gotta be so rude? Don't you know I'm human, too?" However, the denial doesn't seem to dissuade him, since he resolves "I'm gonna marry her anyway."

Is it any good?

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The story is sweet and simple, the island vibes are infectious and well executed, and the hook is dangerously catchy. Fans of pop-rock, ska, and watered-down reggae will love the clean, crisp bounce of the guitars and steel drums, while lead singer Nasri's voice is warm and engaging. The lyrics aren't especially profound or poignant, but anyone who has ever felt the sting of a lover's disapproving family can relate to the time-tested trope.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the concept of seeking parental approval before marriage. In the modern age, should parents have the right or responsibility to dictate whom their children should or shouldn't choose as a life partner?

  • Every few years, there seems to be a reggae-infused pop hit, usually in the summertime. Why do you think there's always a market for this type of song, while reggae in general is more of a niche genre?

Music details

Artist:Magic!
Release date:May 20, 2014
Type:Single
Label:Sony Music
Genre:Reggae
Parental advisory:No
Edited version available:No

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Kid, 8 years old July 10, 2015
 

Go for it!

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Kid, 8 years old July 2, 2015
 

Clean, fun song is awesome.

Teen, 13 years old Written byILikeReviewingThings March 27, 2015
 

Appropiate Song And Video

Rude is a good song about a husband rejecting the marriage of the singer and his girlfriend (I don't think that's sexual) The video is the same with no sex, violence, or anything that could possibly be innapropiate for kids. It's a great song but its on the radio a lot which makes it a bit annoying for me. Anyway 4 stars since I kind of still like it.
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