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"We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" (CD Single)

Music review by
Stephanie Bruzzese, Common Sense Media
"We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" (CD Single) Music Poster Image
Swift draws a hard relationship line in strong, clean track.
Popular with kids

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 3 reviews

Kids say

age 9+
Based on 18 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this music.

Positive Messages

After some relationship melodrama, Swift makes the positive decision to end a relationship that just isn't right.

Positive Role Models & Representations

The song encourages listeners to get out of a bad relationship.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" is a clean song about a girl who finally cuts the cord on a dysfunctional romance. There's no profanity or graphic references to sex, substances, or violence -- making this another completely acceptable Taylor Swift song for impressionable young tweens and teens who are learning the relationship ropes.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent Written byCooldee October 2, 2012

You can be in a relationship with someone that will treat you right and well!

"We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" tells women and girls that they should not stay in a bad relationship with a man. Women and girls can be in... Continue reading
Adult Written bycdsfan September 10, 2012

stuck in my head

i am a guy and i cant help but sing along to this song i love it sooo mutch and i think it may be a good message to tween or teen girls or guys even about when... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written byJaniceluv1D September 20, 2012

We are never ever getting back together

The boy is shown in a bar talking to a girl on the phone + breaking up with them also!
Teen, 15 years old Written byrebma97 September 3, 2012

Catchy single from TS

This song is a different sound from Taylor Swift (it's like pop/R&B, not country) and the music/lyrics can get repetitive. But I really like it. It... Continue reading

What's the story?

"WE ARE NEVER EVER GETTING BACK TOGETHER" is the lead track from the hotly anticipated fourth full-length album by pop-country superstar Taylor Swift. In this song, Swift revisits a familiar topic -- turbulent romantic relationships -- and, using strong yet clean lyrics, boots a guy who has toyed with her emotions one too many times. With a string of notorious exes, including Joe Jonas, John Mayer, and Jake Gyllenhaal, the real inspiration behind the tune is anyone's guess.

Is it any good?

Swift shows a fire on this track that boosts her vocal performance beyond her normally acceptable standard. Joined in the chorus by several other young women, the single sounds like a cute, self-confident anthem for never settling for second best in relationships.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about why some people stick with relationships that bring them down and lower their self-esteem. Why is it so hard to break free?

  • Swift is known for singing songs about her famous exes; who do you think this one's about? Why do you think she includes details or clues about her personal life in her songs?

  • Why do you think Swift continues to be so popular? Is it her voice, lyrics, or something else?

Music details

For kids who love powerful female vocalists

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