As a father of 7 kids, I watch these types of shows to see how others do it. While I don't have any multiples, I do have the majority of my kids 10 and under. I often feel bad for the Dad, Jon, because Kate generally takes her frustrations out on him. I can't think of a single time she has apologized to him for it. Apart from her grouchiness, she clearly has OCD, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. We learned long ago to not get all wrapped up in trying to kill every germ in the world. If you want to see her at her best with OCD, watch the episode where she attempts to hire a maid. All that aside, we do love the show and enjoy watching and waiting to see how Kate reacts to things around her. If my kids were to watch, I would just make sure they understood that parents make mistakes too and also need to apologize when they are out of line.