Parental Control

 
No one's in control here; for mature teens only.

What parents need to know

Positive messages

No-holds-barred rudeness at its worst. Lippy young adults and their boyfriends or girlfriends diss parents, prospective dates, and their current mates. Parents encourage their kids to go out with new dates before breaking off their current relationship.

Violence

No gunplay, but the word wars are stinging.

Sex

Yikes! Innuendoes and suggestive talk abound, and from all sources.

Language

Angry words fly, including plenty of bleeped language.

Consumerism

Materialistic mates drop brand names and make demands.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Minors don't drink on screen, but there's talk of "partying" and other behaviors.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this MTV dating series is based on the assumption of an all-out war between parents and their child's current boyfriend or girlfriend. Young adults are rude to parents, and vice versa. Verbal battles sting with nastiness (some exchanges are peppered with insults), and it's clear that no love is lost among all participants.

What's the story?

PARENTAL CONTROL operates under the assumption that the parents in each episode hate the person their child is currently dating. So the parents seek out alternatives, each picking a possible replacement. Then, accompanied by their child's current beloved, parents (via a remote cam) watch their son or daughter go on dates with the two new candidates. This is a situation that can only -- and so far, has only -- bring out the worst in everyone. In the end, the child returns and has to decide whether to stay with the original love interest or choose one of the parents' choices.

Is it any good?

QUALITY
 

It's almost expected that parents will object to whomever their children date; in fact, it's a cliché that's already been played out in many a movie and TV show. Parental Control plays up this loaded situation, resulting in an obnoxious series in which no one, not even Mom and Dad, is in control. Reality shows are fun to watch when viewers care about participants' "rewards" and have a "hero" they feel invested enough in to cheer to victory. But in this show, it's not clear what the rewards are, and everyone comes off badly. In one episode, a father slams his son's current girlfriend fiercely, taunting her as she watches her boyfriend make a pass at another woman. To which she responds, "Eat me." (One word: Eeew.) In another episode, a dad flashes the "L" for loser to his child's sweetie.

It's also strangely discomfiting to watch Mom and Dad ogle their child on a date, cheering them on when they make out with someone else. What child wants that? Besides, many of the featured kids don't seem like the biggest prizes themselves (one guy rejects a candidate by saying that she seems so into her studies that she won't have enough time to cater to him, a crime so egregious -- in his eyes -- that it makes her bad girlfriend material). A little self-discipline -- and an overhaul -- would go a long way toward making Parental Control more palatable. Perhaps, instead of pitting parents against their children's partners, they could pack everyone off to therapy and let them hash their issues out. Maybe then there would be a happy ending. Or at least a livable one.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the tensions that arise when kids date people their parents don't like. How should the situation be handled? How can the girlfriend or boyfriend relate to the parents? What's at stake, and who loses out with dirty fighting? Is it right for parents to encourage their children to break up with people they don't like? Is there another way out of this type of situation?

TV details

Network:MTV
Genre:Reality TV
TV rating:TV-PG

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Kid, 10 years old August 10, 2009
age 10+
 

WHO GIVES A CARE!?!!?!

soo what if its off for ten!i watch it and iam ten!its an awsome some.there is not that much content that it says there is!gosh this site needs to get its facts right!!
Kid, 12 years old August 14, 2012
age 13+
 

Love it!!!!!!!!!!

Love it! One of my favorite shows and its funny NOT for children under 13 but maybe a mature 10, 11, or 12 year old. No lower than that.
What other families should know
Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Teen, 14 years old Written bymrbookworm01 May 21, 2012
age 12+
 

Really good, but not for younger kids

I've seen some episodes of this show this morning and I think CSM is overreacting. The show's really good and, while a lot of times parents are mean to their kid's dates and vice versa, the show still haves a good message about making the right choices in relationships. But it is a little bad when the parents don't like their child's boyfriend/girlfriend because of petty things (Ex. One set of parents doesn't like their son's girlfriend because she snorts when she laughs.) Plus, it's a little weird that the kids would go out with people they haven't met before in their lives right away. But the show's still really good and is appropriate for kids 12+. Violence: A lot of arguing, but no physical violence. Sex: A lot of flirting, and some kissing and hugging. Some episodes show tthe kids taking their tops off. But nothing really graphic. Language: Frequent swearing, including "d**n" and "a**", but stronger language is censored out. Consumerism: Some mentioning of products, like McDonalds, but nothing excessive. Drinking: No drug use is shown, but some mentioning of partying and similar behaviors occur.
What other families should know
Great messages
Great role models
Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much consumerism
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking

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