Safe social site appeals to girls' depth and intelligence.

What parents need to know

Positive messages

The site celebrates friendship, character, and creativity, shifting the focus off of fashion and beauty.

Violence & scariness
Not applicable
Sexy stuff
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Not applicable

Currently, there are no ads or sponsors.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking
Not applicable
Privacy & safety

Profiles can only be viewed by registered members. Girls can post comments on other users' profiles, but that function can be disabled.

A parent must activate a girl's account via email. (Of course, as with most sites, there's nothing that prevents a girl from entering her own email address.) The site also has some content specifically aimed at parents.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this safe, friendly social site encourages tweens to feel good about themselves -- not for being pretty, but for being smart, dedicated, and kind. There are lots of opportunities for girls to learn new things and express themselves creatively. All user-generated content is screened before it's published.

Is it any good?


The true spirit of "girl power" is alive and kicking on iTwixie, a cheerfully designed site that lets tweens get a taste of social networking in a safe, positive space. The site offers appealing activities -- like exchanging friendship bracelets with other iTwixie girls -- as well as a well-rounded range of posts about  nature, sports, puzzles, and more. Members are super friendly and make creative contributions to the site -- including poetry, narrative videos, and recipes. Unlike many tween-targeted sites, iTwixie treats girls as smart, capable young people -- not fashion-crazed consumers. 

Online interaction: Users can create a profile, make friends, and post comments. All content is either pre-scripted or reviewed before it's published. Interactions are friendly and positive.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the site's pledge that includes guidelines about safety and behavior on social sites. If someone says something that you don't agree with, how would you express your opinion in a respectful way?

  • Families can talk about creating and posting videos online. What sites are safe for posting videos, and what kind of videos are OK to upload?

Website details

Genre:Social Networking
Pricing structure:Free

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Parent of a 6 and 10 year old Written byjennimd May 23, 2010
age 2+

great for 1 year olds

i love it
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Too much consumerism
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Adult Written byTheMelMonster April 9, 2010
age 9+

Powerfully positive for tween girls

iTwixie is full of positive messages for girls from encouraging an active lifestyle to being creative. There are cool features too like the ability to personalize the site with your favorite background. This site reminds girls that true girl power is about being yourself. I wish there were more sites like this out there!
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