This site is safe, appropiate, you have privacy. There is no bad language if so yoursphere instantly and automatically marks it out. And if someone is not your friend on yoursphere they cannot see your profile. You can always cancel your child's account. I found this site to be a mix of pinterest and facebook but, appropiate and safe for kids. There is no negative language only postive, your child can choose to chat, play games, add friends, blog, post photos, or updates, they also can create and join spheres, and earn credits to shop. I personally love it!