Ira Says Goodbye - Bernard Waber
Best for children dealing with moves.
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- Author:Bernard Waber
- # of pages: 38
- Publisher:Houghton Mifflin Children's Books
- Original Publication Date: 01/01/1988
- Genre: Fiction - Friendship
- Paperback: $5.95
- Publisher's Recommended Reading Level: Ages 4-8
- Read Aloud: 4+
- Read Alone: 6+
Parents need to know
Families can talk about farewells. Have you ever had to say goodbye to a friend because one of you was moving? If so, were you able to keep in touch? What helps soothe you when you say farewell to teachers, friends, or visitors?
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What's the story?
Reviewed by Amy Brotman
Then, Ira gets an even worse surprise: Reggie suddenly seems to reject all the things they have in common and goes on endlessly about the wonders of his new community, Greendale. To Ira, it's "as if Reggie had already moved away," and he begins to convince himself that he will be glad to see Reggie leave.
Reggie's true feelings come out only on moving day, when he and Ira renew their friendship. Supportive parents, the telephone, and the fact that Reggie is still close enough for weekend visits provide a comforting resolution to a difficult experience.
Is it any good?
Much of the charm of Waber's earlier book, Ira Sleeps Over, remains. Ira is a memorable character--funny, reflective, and smart in some ways and clueless in others. The illustrations reinforce the down-to-earth quality of the story and the everyday lives of the characters.
There's still plenty of humor, too. Even the picture of Reggie clutching the turtle tank and sobbing will raise a little smile, as the trio of adults behind him, with mouths in big O's, show concern.
The more serious subject, of course, makes IRA SAYS GOODBYE a less fun read than Ira Sleeps Over. This is a welcome book for adults wanting to ease children through a separation from friends, an increasingly common scenario in our mobile society. However, the treatment of the situation seems formulaic, and the plot, which has Reggie moving only about an hour away, seems to raise some unrealistic expectations.
There are a number of books for kids about moving--both fiction, as in Judith Viorst's Alexander, Who's Not (Do You Hear Me? I Mean It!) Going to Move, and nonfiction, as in The Moving Book: A Kids Survival Guide, by Gabriel Davis. For a slightly different take on the effect of having a friend move away try Carolyn Crimi's Don't Need Friends.
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