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Along for the Ride

(2009, Fiction - Coming of Age, Written by Sarah Dessen)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 14, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    More of the same from Dessen, plus lots of teen drinking.

Themes in this book include:   dating/crushes, family relationships, growing up

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 14–16

The good stuff

  • Educational value:

    Not an issue.
  • Messages:

    The main character, Auden, and other secondary characters are smart and goal-oriented. Most of the boys are sweet and not sexist. An underlying theme is about girls enjoying fashion, expressing individuality, and having goals; also, girls are presented as athletic as boys. Auden and her stepmother are financially savvy and like business. Most of the teens are headed for college. The only really bad message is that there are no consequences to teen drinking.

  • Role models:

    Some positive role models are present in the primary male teen: he has a good parental relationship, takes responsibility, and shows resiliency in dealing with his friend’s death. He and Auden form a positive romantic relationship based on friendship and respect. Auden’s stepmother is also a strong, smart young businesswoman who has pursued her own dreams. However, Auden’s parents are selfish, immature, jealous, and self-indulgent. Auden’s mother drinks and has affairs with grad students and treats Auden with contempt.  Auden’s brother is immature and dependent on his parents; he also treats women as objects. Auden herself makes some bad choices; she runs away from problems, is judgmental, and often selfish.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    An ex-girlfriend of Auden’s new crush threatens to beat her up.
  • Sex:

    Auden hooks up with a guy the first night they meet, makes out, and takes her shirt and bra off. Later there is a very non-graphic recall of losing her virginity with Eli. References to Auden's mother seducing and sleeping with grad students. Auden's father starts dating before his divorce; his girlfriend then becomes pregnant before they marry.
  • Language:

    Brief occasional use of swear words, most by female characters: "Jesus," "s--t," "hell," "bitch," "sucked," "pissed."

  • Consumerism:

    Snack foods such as Pringles, Twizzlers. Also, there's a big focus on fashion and brands in the local boutique owned by a main character. While the brand names are fictional, the emphasis on the "right" brands making you look or feel better is pervasive.

     

  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    All the teens (mostly 18-year-olds) drink almost nightly at keggers, parties, and clubs. Adults, mostly Auden’s mother, drink frequently; one offers Auden wine.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Along for the Ride

Parents need to know that this realistic portrayal of teen life includes drinking, romance, and some non-graphic sex. Although these teens are just out of high school, there is a lot of beer drinking done by all. The main character's parents divorce after much fighting; her mother seems notorious for drinking and seducing her grad students. On the plus side, all of the female characters are very intelligent and there's a subtheme that people can change for the better.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about if people can really change. What does it take to make Auden change?
  • If you were a celebrity sports figure, what would you do with your fame and fortune?
  • Is it important to care about fashion?
  • Why do you think Auden kept running away from people?

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Yet another great Sarah Dessen book

    All of Sarah Dessen's books are great. This book is a book any girl could relate to and feel touched by it. I do have to admit there is teen drinking, but I do not think many people would be influenced by that. A typical teen will love this.

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    couldnt put it down

    this book is brilliant i think that auden is very smart and i can undestand her really quite well. some points in this book are not exactly appropriate for yonger teens but mostly the book is quite tame. i couldnt put it down and stayed up into the early hours of the morning trying to finish this brilliant book. i belive that this book will be good for anyone that wants to read about a character they can relate to

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