Parents' Guide to Along for the Ride

Along for the Ride book cover: Teen girl in pink, knee-length dress sitting backwards on handlebars of a red bike facing a teen boy in blue jeans and white t-shirt whose hands are resting on bike seat

Common Sense Media Review

By Debra Bogart , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Teen grows beyond dysfunctional family in romantic outing.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 13+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 6 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 26 kid reviews

Kids say the book presents a good plot with relatable themes of family dynamics and teen relationships, although some readers found it initially engaging but eventually boring. It generally appeals to mature younger readers and emphasizes character development, despite a few misconceptions regarding its themes and content.

  • relatable themes
  • engaging plot
  • character development
  • family dynamics
  • good for teens
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What's the Story?

In ALONG FOR THE RIDE by Sarah Dessen, gifted but lonely teen Auden tries to make the most of her last summer before college by resolving her issues with her dysfunctional family and hanging out with other teens at the beach. The teens in this town are into fashion, BMX biking, and lots of partying, things Auden stayed away from in high school. She came to the beach to escape her judgmental mother and bond with her father, but he avoids her in his office all day, while her stepmother struggles to calm her newborn baby sister's nonstop crying. Auden questions if it's possible for people to change for the better. She'll have to get out of her comfort zone if she's going to have a summer to remember.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 6 ):
Kids say ( 26 ):

This book has a pretty tame romance, with lessons about self-acceptance and accepting others. Along for the Ride asks whether people stay stuck in their negative patterns or whether they can change. Too many subplots slow things down, and teen readers may lose interest in the stepmom/new baby storyline. But they'll stay hooked as Dessen once again explores themes of emotionally abusive parents, the power of friendship, and teens who run away from their problems.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about whether people can really change. What does it take to make the characters of Along for the Ride, from Auden to her mother and father, change for the better?

  • What qualities do we associate with strong female characters? How do the women in this book, from Auden to Auden's mom, stepmother, and new friends, show those qualities? How does each express her individual strengths?

  • What qualities do we associate with strong male characters? How does Eli exemplify and/or subvert those qualities? Does your idea of "strength" change depending on the gender of the character you're talking about?

  • If you've read other Sarah Desssen books, how do you think this one compares? Why do you think her books are so popular?

  • What other books you've read or movies you've seen portray teens in a realistic way?

Book Details

  • Author : Sarah Dessen
  • Genre : Coming of Age
  • Topics : Friendship
  • Book type : Fiction
  • Publisher : Viking
  • Publication date : June 1, 2009
  • Publisher's recommended age(s) : 12 - 15
  • Number of pages : 383
  • Available on : Paperback, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
  • Last updated : October 9, 2025

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Along for the Ride book cover: Teen girl in pink, knee-length dress sitting backwards on handlebars of a red bike facing a teen boy in blue jeans and white t-shirt whose hands are resting on bike seat

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