Parents need to know that this realistic portrayal of teen life includes drinking, romance, and some non-graphic sex. Although these teens are just out of high school, there is a lot of beer drinking done by all. The main character's parents divorce after much fighting; her mother seems notorious for drinking and seducing her grad students. On the plus side, all of the female characters are very intelligent and there's a subtheme that people can change for the better.
Positive messages:The main character, Auden, and other secondary characters are smart and goal-oriented. Most of the boys are sweet and not sexist. An underlying theme is about girls enjoying fashion, expressing individuality, and having goals; also, girls are presented as athletic as boys. Auden and her stepmother are financially savvy and like business. Most of the teens are headed for college. The only really bad message is that there are no consequences to teen drinking.
Positive role models:Some positive role models are present in the primary male teen: he has a good parental relationship, takes responsibility, and shows resiliency in dealing with his friend’s death. He and Auden form a positive romantic relationship based on friendship and respect. Auden’s stepmother is also a strong, smart young businesswoman who has pursued her own dreams. However, Auden’s parents are selfish, immature, jealous, and self-indulgent. Auden’s mother drinks and has affairs with grad students and treats Auden with contempt. Auden’s brother is immature and dependent on his parents; he also treats women as objects. Auden herself makes some bad choices; she runs away from problems, is judgmental, and often selfish.
Violence:An ex-girlfriend of Auden’s new crush threatens to beat her up.
Sex:Auden hooks up with a guy the first night they meet, makes out, and takes her shirt and bra off. Later there is a very non-graphic recall of losing her virginity with Eli. References to Auden's mother seducing and sleeping with grad students. Auden's father starts dating before his divorce; his girlfriend then becomes pregnant before they marry.
Language:Brief occasional use of swear words, most by female characters: "Jesus," "s--t," "hell," "bitch," "sucked," "pissed."
Consumerism:Snack foods such as Pringles, Twizzlers. Also, there's a big focus on fashion and brands in the local boutique owned by a main character. While the brand names are fictional, the emphasis on the "right" brands making you look or feel better is pervasive.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking:All the teens (mostly 18-year-olds) drink almost nightly at keggers, parties, and clubs. Adults, mostly Auden’s mother, drink frequently; one offers Auden wine.
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This book is a good one for people who are aloof and mostly self centered ones. I do not think that this book would be inappropriate for teens even if it contains some parts with teens drinking because first of all, the main goal of this book is to encourage teens to change for the better.HOW WOULD TEENS RELATE IF THE MAIN CHARACTERS WOULD BE ADULTS?
Some people might complain about some "iffy" things. I don't understand why. This book, like all of Sarah Dessen's was a very good coming of age novel. Some people say that she loses her virginity in the novel, not true. Some people say there is heavy drinking, I only remember reading a couple of drinking scenes that were minor at most. The kids in the novel at 18 and over and are done with high school. Most high schoolers have drank a beer or two, I'm sure. Of course my kid are very young, but I recommended it to my nieces (11 & 12) and they loved it, so did their mother
I think "Along for The Ride" is a great book for middle schoolers. Some parents may think it's a little mature for elementary schoolers but I read books like it in the 4th and 5th grade, so I think it would be fine for 4th and 5th grade but no younger. It is a little mature, has a little non-graphic sex, and drinking, but most of the drinking is just wine, and most kids' parents drink wine around them anyway. And if kids didn't already know what non-graphic sex is like (i.e. how it is described) they may not even realize it's non-graphic sex.
this book is brilliant i think that auden is very smart and i can undestand her really quite well. some points in this book are not exactly appropriate for yonger teens but mostly the book is quite tame. i couldnt put it down and stayed up into the early hours of the morning trying to finish this brilliant book. i belive that this book will be good for anyone that wants to read about a character they can relate to
This is Sarah Dessen's best book so far. I think Common Sense is a little bit overprotective, any 13-year-old could read this. No big deal. No younger than a mature twelve, though.
I think that this is a good book. It just shows a girl who didn't have a child hood re-creating her one with a friend. Sure, she makes a few mistakes; but doesn't everyone?
An incredible book, I find myself re-reading chapters again and again. I don't think any of the issues mentioned above really apply, and I have to mention the misconception of Auden losing her virginity in the book. Never happened. This is a definite must read.
Great book! this is a heart warming story about Auden a teen who has a life that is far from perfect. What happens when she spends some time with her dad. step mother, and new step sister... read to find out!!
I loved this book and while there might be a few things going on in the book that are considered bad, the overall message is good. Plus the books elements help develope the character, because no one wants to read a book where there aren't any problems. Lets face it kids see all this happening in the world around them anyways so why shouldn't they read a book that shows them why it wrong and how it can hurt them.
I've literally read this book at least ten times, and I have never recalled at all that Auden loses her virginity to Eli, that is completely false information. There is drinking it, I'm not going to lie, but in no way does it encourage drinking and Dessen is writing the TRUTH of teenage life right out of high school, to not write about kids drinking would be completely false for a lot of kids that age. I wouldn't recommend a ten year old read this book, but it is appropriate completely for any teenager as is all of her other novels.
I liked this book a lot! The plot was good and I thought that it gave a stong, good message, as this is how many families are: divorced parents,new step-mom, new half-brother sister, etc. I think it was one of Sarah Dessen's better books! Chuck Norris helped me approve this novel :P
A fairly well written book, but contains little real emotion.
Auden has grown up somewhat self-centered due to her uptight mother. Auden's mother puts down everything and is never impressed or seems happy. Then her father, on the other hand, is way too obsessed with his work and, in a way, refuses to take care of Auden or Thisbe (his newborn daughter) properly. Which leaves Auden's stepmom Heidi to raise a somewhat colicky baby by herself. Auden begins to relax a little after meeting and falling in love with Eli. Eli seems to be different from everyone else with his love for BMX and a tragic past.