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The Carrie Diaries (by Candace Bushnell)

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Sex and the City prequel is OK for mature teens.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that, as you might expect, this  young adult-targeted Sex and the City prequel of sorts is a mature book with sex, drinking, swearing, and adult themes. While Carrie is a virgin during her senior year, many of her friends are having sex, and Carrie's boyfriend pressures her saying, "But you can't expect me to wait much longer." Another boy pressures her to perform oral sex earlier in the book. She also catches a male friend kissing his secret boyfriend, and goes with another friend to help her get birth control pills -- while she's there, she sees a girl crying after having an abortion. Characters drink and smoke cigarettes and even marijuana. Carrie and her friends go to bars and get drunk. (Before Carrie liked Cosmos, she apparently drank Singapore Slings.) The book can be deep, too, and Carrie learns some important lessons along the way, both about how to be a good writer and about what it means to be a good friend, girlfriend, and feminist -- all stuff she can put to use in Sex and the City.

 

Educational value: This may be a summer beach book, but it IS reading, and may lead to some good discussions among girlfriends -- or even mother and daughters -- over questions such as what should you expect a high school boyfriend to act like? Or what does it mean to be feminist in today's society?
Positive messages: Carrie learns some important lessons along the way, both about how to be a good writer, and about what it means to be a good friend, girlfriend, and feminist -- all stuff she can put to use in Sex and the City.
Positive role models: Readers will relate to Carrie as she struggles to figure out who her true friends are -- and how to act in a relationship. She ultimately is able to grow up enough to stand up on her own, and confront people who were mean to her. Her friend Mouse also provides a good role model -- she is smart and is in love with a boy who is kind and respectful. Even her emotional friend Maggie imparts a powerful lesson when she tells Carrie that she should expect her boyfriend to stand up for her, the way a friend does. 
Violence: Carrie's mother dies.
Sex: Carrie's friends have sex, and a boyfriend pressures her to have sex saying that, "But you can't expect me to wait much longer." Carrie is pressured to have oral sex earlier in the book. She also catches a male friend kissing his secret boyfriend, and goes with another friend to help her get birth control pills (while she's there, she also sees a girl crying after having an abortion).    
Language: Some swear words, including the biggies. Carrie tells her boyfriend "F--k you!" after catching him dancing with another girl.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Characters drink and smoke cigarettes and even marijuana. Carrie and her friends go to bars and get drunk. Before Carrie liked Cosmos, she apparently drank Singapore Slings. 

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Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about the decision to publish this book. Who is this book for? Can you see this book being popular with both teen readers and their mothers, who might be fans of the show? If you were a publisher, how would you market this book to make sure that both audiences know that this book has been published? If you were the author, how would write it to make sure that both audiences want to read it? 

  • Carrie discusses the death of her mother, whom she calls a feminist, even though she was a mother and always very ladylike. How has the definition -- and public perception -- of feminism changed over the years? How do you define the word now? Is it something to strive to be? Are women's rights issues still important -- or talked about between teens and their friends? 

  • Parents could use this book to open up all kinds of conversations about dating expectations: Carrie's friend Maggie tells her that she should expect her boyfriend to defend her, just like a friend would. Also, later in the book, Carrie is both pressured to have sex -- and admits to acting dumb around her boyfriend. What makes a good high school boyfriend or girlfriend? What are some ways that your friends act when they are dating someone that surprise you?  

What's the story?

What's the story?

Carrie Bradshaw was once a virginal high school senior, living in New Jersey and trying to figure out how to navigate high school romance and friendships -- and dreaming of a writer's life in New York City. Even then, she burned pretty bright: She has a spark that lands her singing on stage with one of her favorite bands and a fashion sensibility that helps her transform her mother's ruined handbag into a fashion statement with a little hot pink nail polish. She even gets the whole school buzzing by writing a series of provoking articles under the name Pinky Weatherton. But she has her share of problems too -- most importantly, she suspects one of her best friends is cheating on her with her boyfriend. That and the school's queen bee is out to sting her.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Bushnell certainly packs this book full of plot points -- Carrie discovers a friend is gay, that another may be pregnant, and that one of her best friends is cheating with her boyfriend. Her mother's death has caused them all pain, and one of her sisters is becoming a criminal. To top it off, she has angered the most popular girl at school (and is causing more controversy with articles she is writing about cliques and popularity for the school paper).  It's a lot, but mostly well done. The only major device that simply doesn't work here is Carrie's boyfriend Sebastian. Readers may understand the initial sparks, but he is so controlling and smarmy that it's hard to understand Carrie's burning desire. 

But considering that teen girls -- and their mothers -- would have picked up this book even if it was just a list of Carrie's favorite high school outfits and '80s cassette tapes, this book has remarkable substance. Readers will not only find it believable that lively high school Carrie will grow up to be the funny, stylish city-dwelling sex columnist we know so well, they will also be left thinking about all kinds of important questions, such as what should you expect a high school boyfriend to act like? Or what does it mean to be feminist in today's society? These are the types of questions that often framed episodes of the popular TV show and kept fans debating between episodes. Ideally, this book will get parents and teens chatting in much the same way.

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Book Details
Author: Candace Bushnell
Publisher: HarperTeen
Publication date: April 27, 2010
Number of pages: 389
Hardcover price: $18.99
Read Aloud: 15
Read Alone: 15

This review was written by Kate Pavao
 
 

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kayleearns
teen, 15 years old
 
Chill, out, parents. Jeeeesh.
I'm fifteen years old, and I thought it was a good book. Come on parents, its not like your fifteen year old daughter, or thirteen or fourteen, doesn't know what pot, sex, and getting drunk means. They know a lot more than you think they know, and this isn't some book straight out of hell trying to corrupt your child.

KatherineLovesJake
teen, 14 years old
 
AHHHHHMAZZZIIINNNGGG!!
PARENTS, SEX ISNT ANYTHING A TEN OR ELEVEN YR OLD DOESNT KNOW ABOUT.AND AT 13, IM NOT A VIRGIN. BOOKS LIKE THESE ARE A HUGE INFLUENCE ON KIDS AND TEENS. THEY REALLY HELP TELL THEM THAT SEX ISNT BAD, BUT IT ISNT SAFE AND IT HAS CONSEQUENCES. GREAT BOOK!

NatIsBest
kid, 13 years old
 
Perfect for all ages

I love James
teen, 15 years old
 
GOOD 4 TEENS
i love it ANd it gives KIDS AND IT GIVES VERY GOOD MESSAGES 2 KIDS

lindsey678
parent of 3 , 4 , 7 , and 11 year old
 
BAD PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IF YOU LET A KID 14 AND UNDER READ THIS BOOK THEN YOU ARE A BAD PARENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

melissab95
teen, 16 years old
 

bailee-
parent of 14 year old
 

barbiegirl825
teen, 14 years old
 
Mature "preteens"
BEST BOOK EVER! it is amazing. although the subject matter is a little older. You just need a mature teen

BabyBri84
teen, 16 years old
 
Very Important
Hmm it was wonderful, i read it 2ce in one day!!! Anyway... This book is really not 4 kids. To much smoke and drug use. But thats really the only issue. People have sex( And watch porn), but reading about it in a book is not the best way to find out about what it is and how to do it. Carrie and the other teens rebel alot, which could influence younger kids. But otherwise i feel in love with this book. And i think if younger kids read about Homosexuality, they might experement with that. Which can be a good thing or a bad thing.

Cynthiia
kid, 11 years old
 
katherine you're not a virgin?

balletcorbyn
teen, 16 years old
 
A great girly coming of age book. Carrie is very different from the tv show and movies; Sex&The City. A great beach read for any girl looking for a book about a girl figuring out what she wants to do in life

harajukugirl
teen, 15 years old
 
OK I adored this book I completely agree with Katherine about the virginity issue.At thirteen I was most certainly not a virgin but I was popular and a perfectionist and no one knew and it never came back to bite me or whatever.But I would be a heck of a lot happier if I had waited for a WAY nicer guy.And theres a phobia about it.Dude read the book it rocks.

dressagehorse
teen, 13 years old
 
Inappropriate but fun
This book is a very fun read. It is fine for teenagers who are probably already experiencing the same things that Carrie does in high school at a younger age than her. Parents should keep younger readers away from this book, but older kids should be fine, even with all the drinking and smoking. And it's a really good book.

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