Parents need to know that the mother of 15-year-old Mia dies 12 days after being diagnosed with cancer, and her father has a heart attack. Each chapter could stand alone with vivid descriptions of Mia's evolving grief, her relationships with her stodgy father and sharp-tongued older sister, and her challenges with boys, peers, and fitting in. There is some edgy material: Teens discuss sex and romance, sip wine, use profanity, and skip school; there is also reference to the Holocaust and aftermath for Mia's mother's family. But overall, Mia's progression through grief is real, and readers will appreciate that while there is no "sure-bet" cure, she is able to grow by leaning on family and friends.
Educational value:Could be used as a jumping off point to talk about grief and its various stages. See our "Families Can Talk About" section for some discussion ideas.
Positive messages:Mia's progression through grief is real, and while there is no "sure-bet" cure, she leans on family and friends to grow.
Positive role models:Mia's teen behaviors after her mother's death are spot-on, and readers
will find it easy to connect with her, even if they don't have similar
experiences.
Violence:Many passages describe scenes in hospitals. Some mentions of Holocaust concentration camps. Stories told of two suicides: one from ingesting pills, another by hanging.
Sex:Descriptions of kissing, fondling, heavy petting under skirts, virginities, fantasies, and wearing skimpy clothing to be sexy. Teen girl suspects her father is having sex with his girlfriend. Mia's mother may have been pursuing a former flame.
Language:"F--k" said amongst teens and by teens to their father.
Consumerism:Mention of Bloomingdales and other shops in NYC.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking:People smoke cigarettes and drink. Parents let teens sip wine at dinner. A person dies from ingesting pills.
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I got this book thinking i was going to learn how teenage daughters cope losing their mothers but i did not.What i learned was more about her family.
her edged sister her father who is very stonefaced and its all too easy yet confusing to follow.