Parents' Guide to The Graveyard Book

Book Neil Gaiman Horror 2008
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Common Sense Media Review

Carrie R. Wheadon By Carrie R. Wheadon , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 9+

Tale of boy raised by ghosts is both creepy and warmhearted.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 10+

Based on 26 parent reviews

Parents say this book is a captivating blend of fun and creepiness, featuring a young boy raised by ghosts who learns important life lessons through dangers he faces. While many reviewers appreciate its imaginative storytelling and positive themes of growth and family, they note that its darker elements, such as violence and intense moments, make it better suited for older children, generally recommending it for ages 10 and up.

  • imaginative storytelling
  • positive themes
  • darker content
  • suited for older children
  • captivating characters
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age 9+

Based on 37 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In THE GRAVEYARD BOOK, a toddler wanders away from his house without knowing that his family has all been killed. A man with a knife is still in pursuit when the boy reaches a graveyard. The dead inhabitants decide to take him in and provide him with the magical protection of the graveyard. They give him the name Nobody, Bod for short, a ghost couple adopts him, and a man named Silas who's able to move among the living agrees to be his guardian and get him food and clothes and other necessities from the outside world. Years pass and Bod grows up mostly in secret. The few times he ventures into the outside world, danger awaits. A man tries to steal a grave's treasure, and at school bullying kids seek their revenge. And somewhere out there, biding his time, is the man with the knife. Will Bod ever be free to experience the outside world?

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 26 ):
Kids say ( 37 ):

This graveyard-set, ghost-filled award-winner is more touching than scary, and just as much a coming-of-age story as it is a delightful and sumptuous horror-fantasy. We see Bod grow from toddler to 15-year-old ready for the world. He experiences all the growing pains of regular childhood along with some unique dangers like kidnappings through ghoul gates and barrows with cursed Anglo-Saxon treasure. He's got a stellar guardian in Silas, a towering undead character depicted by Dave McKean's expressive line drawings almost like he's hovering over the consecrated ground in long black robes. Silas would be truly scary if he wasn't full of wisdom and patience for Bod's many questions and concerns. Their many conversations are full of meaning, especially when Bod asks questions that most kids not raised in a graveyard wouldn't even think of at such a young age. When Silas explains to Bod about suicide, Bod asks, "Are they happier dead?" Silas' answer is, "Sometimes. Mostly, no. It's like the people who believe they'll be happy if they go and live somewhere else, who learn it doesn't work that way. Wherever you go, you take yourself with you."

On to the sumptuous horror-fantasy world of The Graveyard Book. Two chapters stand out as master classes in compelling fantasy writing: "The Hounds of God" and "Danse Macabre." "The Hounds of God" depicts Bod's most dangerous misadventure, traveling through a ghoul-gate with hungry ghouls. It's two parts creepy, one part ridiculous. The ghouls have names like the Duke of Westminster and the 33rd President of the United States, and they swing Bod around like hyper monkeys. Bod's rescue is satisfying and unexpected. In "Danse Macabre," Old Town and the graveyard are in a trance when rare flowers bloom. The living and the dead come together in a joyous way for just one night. The storytelling is all mystery and atmosphere and wonder. When fantasy is all those things it deserves to win all the great awards, just as The Graveyard Book has done.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about scares in The Graveyard Book. When Bod heads to the barrow with Scarlett, how do they handle the dark and the scary creature within? How does it speak to how Bod is raised, around beings that would normally frighten living people?

  • This book proves a story with ghosts and ghouls and the undead can also be extremely touching. And the connections that Bod has to a cranky witch and a strict Hound of God are some of the sweetest. What other characters in the story were you unexpectedly drawn to like? Can you think of other stories where characters you're sure you won't like end up being some of your favorites?

  • Have you read the graphic novel versions of The Graveyard Book as well? If so, which did you read first? Which version do you like better? What do graphic novels offer that a sparsely illustrated book doesn't? Is there anything taken away?

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