Parents need to know that there isn't much to worry about in this sweet book. There's a little talk about boys and crushes ("If he's your boyfriend, you have to kiss him," Julie writes to Lydia). There's also some minor discussion about the girls' family structures (Lydia's parents are divorced whereas Julie lives with her two dads). The girls feel bad when they make mistakes, and learn valuable lessons, most importantly that it's better to do the things you love -- with the people that you like -- than it is to be popular.
Positive messages:The girls learn that they should worry less about being popular and instead "do what makes you happy" and "hang out with other people who make you happy."
Positive role models:Lydia and Julie are both nice girls who learn from their mistakes. In the end, they even learn that the popular girl they considered the most stuck up is "actually not that bad."
Sex:There is some age-appropriate stuff about flirting with boys and crushes. An exchange student writes a poem expressing his feelings for Julie, which the class ends up performing in song. Julie lives with her two dads, but the specifics of the situation are not explored.
I completely disagree with the review. It is written/drawn to APPEAL to kids under 10. But no 10 year old I know is interested in it. The 2nd graders DO want to read it. And a later book does indeed have one of the primary characters smoking. She doesn't like it, but she tries it in order to get back at her mother. The other character hides the shoplifting behaviors of her friends from her guardians, and worries that they will send her back to the orphanage. I find this a very sketchy book. It is one of those books that makes disturbing behaviors look cute and the adults are foolish and unapproachable. Secrets are kept without consequence from friends and parents. And there are some great opportunities to talk through difficult feelings that are completely ignored. I will not even give this book to the thrift store. Its going in the trash.
this is the best book YET about stupid popularity. they actually realize that, and i quote, "your friends are the coolest people you know". hows THAT for a positive message?! FYI: popular means WELL-LIKED and ADORED. not hated and doted on by toadies. um, YEAH. {:->