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Story of a Girl (by Sara Zarr)

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Coming-of-age story about girl who had sex at 13.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this is a book about a teen who had sex when she was 13. There are no descriptions of sex, but many sexual references. Teens also smoke, including marijuana. There is quite a lot of profanity, including "f--k."

Positive messages: This book has coming-of-age themes, plus forgiveness is something all the characters confront in one way or another. 
Positive role models: Deanna learns to deal with a past decision -- and move on with her own life. Her friends are caring, even when she deliberately hurts them.
Violence: Deanna knocks down a boy for grabbing her crotch. Her brother beats up another boy.
Sex: The story revolves around a girl who, when she was 13, was having sex with a 17-year-old; and her older teen brother, who got a girl pregnant. Nothing is described, but there are many references, as well as to "boobs," sexual harassment, condoms, "the pill," kissing, petting, homosexuality, and oral sex (very obliquely).
Language: Some swearing, including "s--t" and "f--k," and the finger.
Consumerism: Many stores and fast food restaurants mentioned.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Teen characters smoke (tobacco and marijuana) and drink.

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Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about the role of forgiveness in the story. Who needs to forgive -- and who needs to be forgiven? 

  • This book deals with a teen who has sex at a young age. Why does she decide to make that choice? Do the repercussions she faces feel authentic? Parents may want to use this opportunity to discuss their own attitudes about teen relationships and sex. Common Sense Media's Too Sexy Too Soon offers advice for how to help girls develop a healthy self-image.

What's the story?

What's the story?

When she was 13, Deanna had a sexual relationship with a 17-year-old boy, Tommy, which was ended by her father who caught them in the act. Now it's the summer between her sophomore and junior years, and she is still dealing with the repercussions: Her father can't look at her and seems to hate her, and Tommy's stories have made most of the high schoolers in her small town think she is nothing but a slut.

Hoping to make enough money to move out, Deanna takes a job at a local pizza place, even though Tommy works there too. Meanwhile she is dealing with her brother, who has become a teen father; his girlfriend, who takes off, leaving them with the baby; and her changing feelings about her only two remaining friends.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

The feelings and motivations of all of the characters, but especially of Deanna, are subtle and complex here in a way that most young adult novels aren't. For instance, Deanna is repelled by Tommy, angry at him, contemptuous, a bit frightened, and yet still attracted to him. Tommy himself is a lout, but not evil, and with complex feelings of his own. Every character and every relationship gives the reader much to recognize and think about.

The theme of forgiveness is similarly subtle and complex here -- this is not an author to hit the reader over the head with The Point. Forgiveness is something all the characters confront in one way or another, and those who can manage it do it for themselves more than for others. It becomes an act of survival, not sainthood.

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Book Details
Author: Sara Zarr
Publisher: Little, Brown and Company
Publication date: January 10, 2007
Number of pages: 192
Hardcover price: $16.99
Read Aloud: 14
Read Alone: 14

This review was written by Matt Berman
 
 

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GoGetit
adult
 
This boook was amazing and had such a strong message. Most people don't understand what most young girls go through and are exposed too. EVERYONE talks about sex even elementary kids. I don't know if anyone agrees but it sounded like Stacey was doing something illegal on her little "trip". This book is outstanding and i encourage parents and teens to read the book. It has a very gripping, on edge climax. Hope you enjoy!

xx1214babyyxx
teen, 18 years old
 
I am 16 years old right now, but i was 13 when i read the book, and i LOVE it. What you need to know is, this book is NOT just about some girl that had sex when she was 13. Its about more than that. The story takes place when she was 16, and she has to live with all the bad decisions she has made, and tries to figure out how to make her life better, and i think that she succeeded very much. This book is very emotional and is and will always be one of my very favorites.

poohbear1994
teen, 17 years old
 
Know Your Child
this book was really good. but i'm 14. so i wouldn't recommend this book for an 11 year old unless they know what they are talking about or they will be really lost. i thought it was a really good book b/c it was told from a girl who was having sex at 13 and she was called names all throughout high school. it shows teens that waiting to have sex is really a good thing.

silly_samsters
teen, 17 years old
 
Good
This book is all about this girl who had sex when she was 13 and people found out that she did that and called her really bad names! So this book is telling you that you should wait to have sex otherwise you might just get called bad names.(i know i did)

unforgettable
parent of 2 year old
 
perfect for young adults
this book can show children how life sometimes works out. it can show them that nooones life is perfect nor is it anywhere near perfect. lives have ups and downs and everyone has their own stories. noone is perfect and that everyone makes mistakes that they must live with. i love this book because these things do happen everyday to millions of young adults, and it makes them feel alone. i believe this can help change a young adult mind, to help them prevent a big mistake, and if not preventable it can show them that they are not alone.

***ROCKSTAR***
teen, 16 years old
 
AWESOME!!!
i think it was a good book because one day you will find about this and you will also have to read a book like this. other than that it was so INTERESTING!!! but if you look at schools today kids know a lot because of other kids especially not from these books

CSM Screen ...
teen, 18 years old
 
perfect for just teens 13-19 READ IT!!!!!!
i love it because this can happen to any girl/boy and its teaching you that if you forgive nothing bad will happen just postive things.I wish that they make more books that are like this one i LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!=]

 
Great book for kids over age 15
Loved it! I read it in my senior high of high school and did my report on it. Definitely didn't want to put this book down.

bieber_fever55
teen, 18 years old
 
A Must-Read For Teens.
I thought this book was pretty good, and it didn't go into detail of sexual encounters. Another thing I'm sick of is this site saying there was drug refrences... there was one minor one, and same with the cursing. It is only used a few times. Although ONE flaw of the book is it is kind of depressing. The whole middle of the story was really sad and Deanna is kind of in a slump.

erinl_2008
teen, 16 years old
 
Terrible.
I really, really did not like this book. I started reading it, thinking it would get better, but it didn't. I just wanted it to end, Deanna isn't a very enjoyable character, and it was just flat out boring. Nothing excited happens, I just really did not like it.

calmreader
teen, 17 years old
 
Know when to stop
This book is about a girl that had sex when she was thirteen. This is an inapropiate book for an eleven year old. They can get confused while reading it. I was a situation like deanna, but i knew when to stop. This book is like a model of my life, and what i should've done.


kid, 12 years old
 
its good for kids over 12 and over
it was educational and actually gave a message to the readers about how alot of things that are possible for a youonge girl/boy can be doing.And how it can end up lossing someones trust.


teen, 14 years old
 
its good for kids over 12 and over
it was educational and actually gave a message to the readers about how alot of things that are possible for a youonge girl/boy can be doing.And how it can end up lossing someones trust.


kid, 11 years old
 
its good for kids over 12 and over
it was educational and actually gave a message to the readers about how alot of things that are possible for a youonge girl/boy can be doing.And how it can end up lossing someones trust.

carter112456
teen, 18 years old
 
loove it!!
i would let anykid who could understand the book read it because if they know about it there less curios and go have sex

Nida Sundrani
teen, 16 years old
 

LocknKey
teen, 15 years old
 
help you in different stages of life.
it's awsome. this book is about a story. a different type of story. you will love it! it should exactly what the girl was going through. this book tell you anything is possible if your heart and mind is there.

sweettonya7
teen, 15 years old
 
well the amin idea of this book is sex. a girl has a affair and now is know as a very bad person. so the girl is jus trying to deal with it. the sex is not very bad but has some bad sexuaL REFRENCES. the language was kind abad

Ciiiiiara.
teen, 16 years old
 
good examples on what not to do when your a teen.
I liked it, it was very breif and to the point about most things but i thought by having that it showed exactly what she was going through and how she got through it or how she's trying to get through. The whole sex and drugs thing i think isn't a bad idea as long as you know what your doing and if you don't get caught doing it, and you use some sort of protection. I loved this book.

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