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Three Cups of Tea

(2009, Non-Fiction - Biography, Written by Greg Mortenson, Sarah Thomson, David Relin)
  • Is it age appropriate?

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 4, age appropriate for kids over 8; suggested age 9.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Uplifting true story adapted for younger readers.

Why We Rated This on for Ages 9 and Up

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Most of the behavior is inspirational, as Greg works to build schools in isolated, impoverished areas of Pakistan and Afghanistan. A corrupt man steals some of Greg's building materials and tries to make him build a school in his village. When Greg tries to push the workers building the school, his mentor tells him, "We may be uneducated. But we are not stupid. We have lived and survived here a long time." Greg says this taught him the most important lesson he ever learned: "Make building relationships as important as building projects ... I had more to learn from the people I work with than I could ever hope to teach them." A regional chief demands an unfair cut of profits and beats people who don't pay. He forces the village to pay half their wealth in exchange for his "permission" to build the school. Girls are forbidden to attend school in some areas and socially ostracized for pursuing their education even when schooling is available. An interview with Greg's daughter shows her to be an extremely articulate spokeswoman who urged her father to add playgrounds and free lunches to the schools. Some people (Americans) send Greg hate mail because they disagree with his politics.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Armed men kidnap Greg; he worries they'll murder him. Refugees escape a war zone; one girl dies on the way. Greg is in Pakistan on 9/11; his American companions worry about their safety there. Greg pushes an anti-violence message: "If we want a legacy of peace for our children," he says, "we need to understand that this is a war that will ultimately be won with books, not with bombs."
  • Sex:

    Greg kisses a woman he just met; they marry six days later.
  • Language:

    A regional chief calls Greg a "kafir" (infidel).
  • Consumerism:

    Greg sells all his possessions to fund his trip to Pakistan. In an interview, Greg's 12-year-old daughter says, "I think kids could totally care more. Instead of asking their mom for $20 to go buy this plastic kung fu ninja that came out, they could say, 'You know what, maybe I don't need this. Maybe I can buy nothing this time.' "
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Opium smugglers are mentioned.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Three Cups of Tea

Parents need to know this inspirational story offers a positive message about reining in consumption in a world where many have so little. The protagonist's life is in danger in a few tense situations; he also receives hate mail from people who disagree with his politics. Younger kids may be distressed that he leaves his own family for long periods, which upsets his children. While the publisher recommends the book for age 8 and up -- and there's not much inappropriate content -- younger readers may be bored by the mostly adult action and confused by the regional and international politics (even a glossary doesn't make things like "warlord" or "refugee" easy to understand). Middle-grade readers (age 10 and up) will likely find it more engaging.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about ways that kids can make a difference in the world (the book offers several avenues for involvement). Do you have to do as much as Greg to contribute? In an interview with Greg's 12-year-old daughter Amira, she says that compared to children in Pakistan, "we are spoiled ... We have so much more than them and we're still picky." After reading the book, do you agree? Are there ways to cut back on consumption?

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  1. I rate this title on for age 10 and give it 4.0
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    • Educational
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    I really love this book, but may be scary.

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    I rate this title on for age 9 and give it 1.0

  3. Kid Reviewer Age 10
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    I rate this title on for age 8 and give it 5.0

    What IS it like to live in Pakistan?

    I really enjoyed this book. It is about a man's mission to help the world by educating kids in Pakistan. I think this book is good for kids 8 and up to read to themselves if they are good readers or kids 7 to be read to.

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