Parents need to know that Ruby is an authentic character, and as such is obsessed with boys, uses words like "slut" and "hooters," and goes to Starbucks. In one scene, she has a pretty serious kissing session in a unoccupied school classroom.
Educational value:Teens who enjoy this book may want to check out the first two books in the series, or other books by E. Lockhart, such as The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks. See our "Families Can Talk About" section for some ideas for discussing this book.
Positive messages:Will make teens think about high school relationships, and why it's important to think about something more than romance. Also, teens can think about how boys and girls get different reputations based on their sexual experiences.
Positive role models:Ruby is a real teen girl. She makes mistakes, but in the end figures out what is important.
Sex:Ruby describes herself as a "crazy leg-wrapping slut" after making out with Noel. She also talks about how her best friend had sex with her older boyfriend when she was a sophomore.
Language:Lots of talk of "hooters" and "sluts" and stuff like a girl who "licks her lips like a porn star."
Consumerism:Some brands like Starbucks, Nordstrom, M&Ms, Birkenstocks.
I think that this should be for 14 and up because some stuff is innapropriout(sorry can't spell that word) for kids under that age. Like for instance she calls herself and her former friends sluts, but the book has a very good message. It is about a girl who has lost her friends, but is struggling to survive in her school's universe. I highly recommend this bokk, but remember that this is the third of the series. The first book is Th Boyfriend List and the second is The Boy Book. The author is E. Lockhart. Hope this helped!! (:
AMAZING book. I'm 15 (read this book when I was 14) and I couldn't put it down. These are my favorite books of all time and I have read them many times. My only concern as a teenager was that the characters made stupid mistakes (hence the negative role models) but in the end they realized that what they did was wrong, whatever it was that they did. I wouldn't say there's "sexual" behavior but there is definitely some material about inappropriate acts, although they are not in great detail. Overall, a book that your kids will enjoy -- take it from me, I am one!