Ways to Live Forever

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Common Sense Media says

Touching but not maudlin story about a dying child.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this book, while funny and often uplifting, may trouble young readers. The young protagonist struggles to answer many questions, including the one most important to him: Why do kids have to die?

  • Felix and Sam watch an R-rated movie (The Exorcist) when they know they are not supposed to. They try to use a Ouija board. Sam's grandmother believes his grandfather talked to her after he died and sometimes hears his footsteps down the hallway. Felix torments the hospital staff by sneaking out of his room or pretending to be covered in blood.
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What's the story?

Here are some ways to live forever, according to Sam, an 11-year-old boy with leukemia: Make a Philosopher's stone. Become a vampire. He shares these and other ideas in his journal, dotted with scrapbook pictures and random lists (such as true facts about coffins). When Sam lists all the things he wants to do, he and his best friend, Felix, set out to accomplish them. That means riding in a blimp -- and kissing a girl.


Is it any good?

 

While some well-known books (A Bridge to Terabithia being the most obvious) touch on childhood loss, most follow the perspective of those left behind. WAYS TO LIVE FOREVER offers a fictional 11-year-old's first-person take on dying. Sam is a sweet, believable boy who is never saintly -- "I want to do my things!" he insists, tired of visitors and being "nice to aunts and uncles all day." Despite the sad premise of terminal illness, Sam finds plenty of joy in life, whether goofing off with his friend or trying to call up Marie Antoinette's ghost on a Ouija board (and who should show up but MARIAN TWANET).

Nicholls, a first-time novelist, finds true emotion in Sam's relationships with his family and friends, including his heart-breakingly real interaction with his father, who deals with his illness by pretending it doesn't exist. As much as readers will want to fight it, the novel stays true to Sam to the end.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about any of Sam's tough questions: Why does God make kids get ill? Where do you go after you die? Family members can discuss what things they would like to do during their life and make a list.


This review was written by Stephanie Dunnewind
Kid, 13 years old
December 11, 2009
 
Immense...
Fantastic book, one that i think everyone over 10 should read. Totally touching story

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Teen, 15 years old
August 24, 2011
 
Just Loved it !!
I was 12 when I read this first and I don't read often but when I read this book I could not but it down at all. It was the first book I really got in to and wanted to read. It gives really good messages and I have read it about 4 times now and it always makes me laugh and cry at time. Its just great !!

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Teen, 14 years old
April 30, 2010
 
great for everyone
its awsome

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Parent of 6 year old
September 30, 2009
 
Must-read.
Grown-ups and older kids should definitely read this book at least once. I loved it -- laughed, cried, couldn't put it down, and won't ever forget it.

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Kid, 12 years old
June 11, 2009
 
amazing book!
this book is amazing, touching, and inspirational. i cried! haha. i think it is a must read for kids. just amazing. STANDING OVATION!

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Teen, 14 years old
October 21, 2011
 
good not great
This was a pretty good book. I've read better books, but still very good. The kids in the book actually smoke and drink when their 11 and 13. They also try to get people to bring them beers or cigarettes. Other than that it is a very good book.

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Kid, 13 years old
November 17, 2010
 
(13+

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Kid, 12 years old
October 12, 2010
 
11 and up for sure!
It was okay. One message it carries out: How beautiful life is, so don't waste it. Live as if you'll die tomorrow! I don't know if he died at the end.

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This review was written by Stephanie Dunnewind
Author:Sally Nicholls
Book type:Fiction
Genre:Family Life
Publisher:Arthur A. Levine
Publication date:September 1, 2008
Number of pages:212
Hardcover price:$16.99
Publisher's recommended age(s):9 - 12
Read aloud:10
Read alone:11

This review was written by Stephanie Dunnewind
 

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