The Year My Sister Got Lucky

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Common Sense Media says

A standard plot strengthened by sisterly bonds.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this book features a rather old-fashioned plot, with teen sex serving as a "shocking" secret; smoking is portrayed as a rebellious act. Despite the suggestive title, the sex is pretty tame; Nothing is explicit, they're in a committed relationship, and they use birth control.

  • Some of the ballet dancers are so thin that when they walk by, mothers whisper, "eating disorder." A teacher makes inappropriate comments to students. Katie's parents keep secrets from her, and Michaela lies to her parents. Katie snoops through her sister's IM log.
  • Not applicable.
  • Michaela (17) has sex with her boyfriend using birth control -- not explicitly described. A friend sends her an email: "Congratulations on no longer being a virgin." Katie asks how sex feels and Michaela says, "Kind of weird and scary at first, but then better. It can be special, if you make good decisions." She also offers to educate Katie about condoms: "If I'm not going to give it to you straight, who will?"
  • Very mild: "pissed off," "bitch."
  • Many mentions of brand names in fashion, food, perfume, stores, coffee and drink shops, Web sites, electronics, and magazines.
  • Michaela jokes about spiking hot chocolate with whiskey; before she realizes her sister is kidding, Katie is thrilled by the forbidden but worried about their parents finding out. Michaela starts smoking cigarettes because her friends do; this is presented as rebellious because dancers shouldn't smoke. Their ballet instructor smokes and says "but I'm old."

What's the story?

Katie, 14, and her 17-year-old sister Michaela thrive in the fast pace of New York City, where they attend a prestigious ballet school. Then their mom's new job requires a sudden move to a rural town. This leaves fashion-plate Katie warily facing a dragonfly (she attempts to annihilate it with bug spray), a deer in her front yard, and a cute boy in her homeroom class. Michaela, in contrast, embraces their new surroundings, befriending the popular crowd and dating the school's hot quarterback. Katie, accustomed to sharing everything with her big sis, feels left out and homesick -- especially when she discovers Michaela is hiding some major secrets.


Is it any good?

 

Readers who prefer the mall to a park may find Katie's small-town travails humorous (she is horrified by the very idea of camping) but for many, her whining will grow tedious. Indeed, a friend tells her, "Your princess act does get a little old after a while." (In a genuine moment, Katie spits back, "It's not an act. This is how I am . . . I don't wear flannel.")

When Katie (the first-person narrator) stops complaining long enough to actually do something, the book zips along more pleasantly. The plot is standard-issue (a teen asserts her independence, a fish out of water realizes her new home isn't so bad after all, a little sister discovers the big sister she worships isn't perfect), but the sisterly bond is appealing. Michaela offers advice and big-sister sighs as she strives to create her own life, setting boundaries for both her nosy sister and their controlling mother.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about why Katie and Michaela's family keeps so many secrets. Katie's parents withhold important information from her, supposedly so she won't get upset. How do all these lies and secrets affect their relationships? Families can also discuss how and why a passion (such as Michaela's dancing, or other sports or hobbies) can stop being fun, and what parents can do to help teens feel less pressured.


This review was written by Stephanie Dunnewind
Teen, 16 years old
March 31, 2011
 
Perfect for 11 or more years old.
I loved this book!!! :D

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Teen, 16 years old
May 21, 2010
 
Good for girls with sisters just a few years younger than themselves.
Michaela has sex with her boyfriend, and Katie later finds out after reading her sister's email. Their are very mild uses of cussing, but otherwise fine. An older women and some teens smoke cigarettes almost constantly. The strength of the sisters' bond is tested by many different things that happen in the book.

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Teen, 18 years old
November 2, 2009
 
I think its good for teens and older. No less though.
It was good, but it should have been a little more interesting, it was interesting just not enough for me to constantly keep turning the pages everyday.

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Teen, 14 years old
August 12, 2010
 
GREAT book
love it! sex isnt anything anyone older than 10 or 11 doesnt know about! when i was 10, i was mildly curious about the subject,and because my parents didnt want to talk about it, i turned to books. and now, at age 13, im not a virgin, and im very grateful to all the books i read about it in. these kind of books really help ppl understand that sex isnt bad, it just isnt wise to do while youre young. and she used a condom and was on birth control,and shes 17,so she made smart descisions. great role models, great book. - Katherine

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Parent of 14 year old
April 10, 2011
 
Hate It
This book isnt appropriate for a 14 year old more like 17/18 + kids should not be reading about sex and drugs !!!

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Teen, 15 years old
December 31, 2009
 
Favorite Book!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love this book so much, it is my favorite book of all time!

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Adult
May 11, 2010
 
life lessons
I like it because it gives kids a life lesson its a little iffy

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Teen, 14 years old
February 19, 2012
 
Love it
Great book it isnt too inapropriet but is jucy enought to keep you reading

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Teen, 15 years old
February 5, 2012
 
Sister LOVE
Great overall story and its really relatble if you have sisters. Helped me relise what a good relationshp i had with my sister. Also is fun and exiting and gines anather great point of view. You should really read it if havnt alredy.

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This review was written by Stephanie Dunnewind
Author:Aimee Friedman
Book type:Fiction
Genre:Family Life
Publisher:Point
Publication date:January 25, 2008
Number of pages:370
Hardcover price:$16.99
Publisher's recommended age(s):12 - 14

This review was written by Stephanie Dunnewind
 

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