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The Sims 3

(2009, Video Games - Simulation, Rated T, Play it on: Mac/Windows)
  • Is it age appropriate?

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 14, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 15.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Mature life sim with more personality than ever.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 15–16

The good stuff

  • Educational value:

    Not an issue.
 

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Sims can be as noble or as nasty as the player chooses. Possible character trades include coward, evil, dislikes children, kleptomaniac, mean-spirited, mooch, neurotic, and snob. Sims with certain traits will be inclined to steal, cheat on their spouses, say rude things, and get into fights. "Criminal" is a possible career path, and Sims can aspire to be a master thief or gold digger, among other things. It's possible to get arrested and spend the day in jail. The game offers a wider range of different body types than ever before, from skinny to hefty or muscular, but Sims react with dismay if you puff their bodies up to the maximum weight.
  • Violence:

    Sims can taunt, argue, and get into physical fights with each other. Sims with nasty personality traits may actually feel better after beating up another Sim.
  • Sex:

    Like previous Sims games, courtship and romance play a big part. Sims with the Romance trait will aspire to a life of having as many lovers and make-out sessions as possible, and if married, will be inclined to cheat on their spouses. Sims can have both heterosexual and same-sex relationships and can be seen jumping under the sheets in bed to make "woohoo" (which is accompanied by groans and giggles).
  • Language:

    Not an issue.
  • Consumerism:

    You can buy a range of items for your Sim's house. The game encourages the pursuit of "nics stuff," because inferior quality products will negatively affect your Sim's mood – such as sleeping in a cheap bed or cooking on a cheap stove.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Not an issue.
 

What Parents Need to Know

This review of The Sims 3 was written by Erin Bell

Parents need to know that this is a life simulation game where you can create your own Sim and then control its life. Players can make Sims' personalities nuanced and life-like by assigning body characteristics and traits that include romantic, artistic, brave, kleptomaniac, neurotic, snob, and even "evil," which can influence desires, behavior, and job opportunities. Sims can enter into both heterosexual and same-sex relationships; and they can die.

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  • Families can talk about what personality traits they chose for their Sim. Did they make their Sim exactly like them, or experiment with a very different persona? Was it fun to play a nasty Sim, or did you feel guilty about making the other Sims feel bad? Of all the various life aspirations available in The Sims, which ones do you consider the most important?
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What’s the Story?

THE SIMS 3, the latest game in EA's blockbuster Sims franchise, is a life simulation game where you create and control your own person, affectionately call a Sim. This version takes character customization to a new level of nuance and detail. Not only are players afforded more options in body shape and clothing style and color than ever before, but they can also select five traits out of three dozen for their Sim, such as coward, absent-minded, athletic, and vegetarian, which affect everything from how the Sim behaves and interacts with other Sims to career choice and life aspirations.

The game's setting, the sprawling Sunset Valley, affords dozens of interesting locations to visit and hundreds of actions and reactions based on each Sim's personality. They can pursue a career or relationship, start a family, chill at the beach or pool, play chess in the park, or even rummage through the neighbor's garbage. You decide whether to be kind or mean-spirited. If you chose a path of evil doing, your Sim will actually derive pleasure from causing as much strife as possible. Likewise, romantic Sims will favor casual relationships with no long-term commitments.

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Is It Any Good?

As with previous Sims titles, The Sims 3 isn't suitable for younger players. The game is a balanced and honest portrayal of peoples' foibles as well as their strengths. Characters can be dishonest, nasty, lustful, mean, and materialistic. Characters can die and turn into ghosts, although it's also possible to control and even halt the aging process.

The game is a nice blend of familar gameplay for those who have played the earlier versions, and interesting new gameplay. For example, the game offers a new detailed building tool that lets you drag walls to change the size of rooms in your house, or rotate items 45 degrees to place them on an angle, and a new family inventory that lets players store items without actually selling them. The game is still a bit cumbersome to control, and it's a shame you can't multi-task (like brushing your teeth while waiting for your morning waffles to cook), but overall the new features and refinements help to make The Sims 3 extremely engaging while giving it almost limitless replay value.
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Publisher’s Details

Released on 6/2/2009, price $49.99, not online enabled
ESRB rating: T (for Crude Humor, Sexual Themes, Violence)

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  1. Parent Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    perfect for ages 10 and up

    this game is perfect for ages 10 and up. It is not that inappropriate sex relationship wise, but yes it can be a little violent at times.

  2. I rate this title iffy for age 17 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Educational

    ow

    i love it cause this is the most funnest game ever

  3. I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 4.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Easy to play

    I love this game, with the variety it gives you while playing. Just watch out for some of the options, they can get to be a little sketchy for the younger age groups. It is a fun game, and there are many things that you can do including building homes, and creating sims that look like people that you know.

  4. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Good role models
    • Easy to play

    Great game for 12 and up

    This game is AWESOME! I play it alot. There is some sexual behavior but you can never see anything and it depends on what YOU do. It might be a little difficult for kids under 11 because it gets frustrating if your sims keep dying.

  5. Kid Reviewer Age 11
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 4.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Good role models
    • Easy to play

    it is a good game but not the best,

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