13 Going on 30

  • Review Date: August 3, 2004
  • PG-13
  • Genre: Comedy
  • 2004
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Common Sense Media says

Touching and hilarious Jennifer Garner romcom.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that there's some sexual humor. Jenna is horrified to find a naked man in her apartment (the boyfriend of her grown-up self) and grossed-out by his advances. There are sexual references ("raunchy strip tease," "57 ways to have an orgasm," "jump your bones") and the 13-year-olds play a party game that is supposed to go a lot further than Spin the Bottle. Unlike the male take on this situation in Big, the main character doesn't take advantage of the adult persona to have sex. Characters use brief strong language and drinking is shown as part of the fun of being a grown-up.


What's the story?

A girl who suffers total humiliation at her 13th birthday party wishes she could be 30. The next morning, she's all grown up, living in a swanky Manhattan apartment with a gorgeous face and figure (played by Jennifer Garner). That part is pretty exciting. But the guy in the shower who seems to know her pretty well is pretty scary. And she can't find her parents. Jenna races out of the building and a woman who seems to know her tells her to get into a limo and is talking a mile a minute about some job she seems to have as editor of Poise magazine. Jenna will eventually realize that this is what she wished for, but she will also figure out that it was not really what she wanted. She tracks down her very best friend, Matt (Mark Ruffalo), now a photographer. When he tells her he hasn't seen her since high school, she begins to understand that in order to become what she wished for, she has lost some of the things that mattered most.

 

 


Is it any good?

 

OK, we knew all of that from not only every body-switching movie ever made but from every wishing story ever told. And yes, there are all the expected collisions between the lives of the 13 and 30-year-olds. Jenna raises her hand to be called on in a meeting and responds "Ew, gross!" to the advances of her boyfriend. And darned if she won't be the only one to come up with those save-the-day ideas for the magazine. But the script has some bright moments and there is also some nicely understated humor. The only possible environment where a 13-year-old's sense of appropriate hair and fashion might be considered acceptable for an adult is, of course, in the offices of a fashion magazine, where the more outrageous something is, the more everyone else will feel that they are the ones who are missing something for not having it themselves. Jenna writes her name at the top of the page at a meeting and keeps her office files in middle-school folders.

Ruffalo, as always, adds class and sweetness to the boyfriend role, and has impressive delicacy in providing romantic interest for someone who is, after all, emotionally just 13 years old. But what makes this one work is Garner, who is enormously touching and hilarious as the 13-year-old living in the body and life of a 30-year-old. Playing a child in an adult body gives her license to show every emotion without any pretense of sophistication. She is wonderfully open and vulnerable but she handles it lightly and with a lot of charm. And she captures it all perfectly, from her panic at not understanding what is going on to her rapture as she selects clothes and makeup for her grown-up self as though dressing a Barbie. Garner even gets the walk of a 13-year-old just right, from the shoulders, not the hips. And the look on her face as she does the dance to "Thriller" is so winning you won't just smile with her; you might just start to dance along a little.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about how being a grown-up may be different than it appears to a child. What was the biggest surprise for Jenna? Do you agree with what Jenna's mother said about mistakes? Families might also want to talk about the way middle-schoolers treat one another and how to make sure that you don't grow up with the kind of regrets that Jenna does. Is/was there a "6 Chicks"-type group in your school?


This review was written by Nell Minow
Teen, 14 years old
July 3, 2010
 
i luv this movie
it is iffy for the sexuall refrences

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Teen, 15 years old
November 13, 2009
 
Awesome romantic comedy!
This movie was very touching, and it made me tear up. There are sexual references (when they were playing a spin the bottle game & when Garner was going to play "games" with her boyfriend. There is also social drinking, but that is pretty much it.

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Adult
October 29, 2011
 
Lovely film, but not for anyone under 13 I think
not for kids. Some sex themes. Just because it mentions '13' going on 30. I would not let a 13 year old watch it. I saw the trailer for it when I was 13 and it shocked me. I only saw it when I was about 15. It's a touching tale, but unrealistic and I don't think it has a good moral as she is able to change her life back to before she made the wish. Instead of facing what she had done wrong.

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Teen, 17 years old
July 13, 2010
 
great chick flick for teens
love this movie!!!! its adorable and the characters are super funny! not so great for the younger crowd due to the bad language and sexual references

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Kid, 13 years old
December 29, 2009
 
do not show to kids who are sensitive to innapropriate things
I thought that this movie was very enjoyable ,but had parts that would be disturbing to children 12 and under. Examples: a young girl says that her brother can get her and her 13 year old friends beer, Jenna's boyfriend says that they can play "games" but he endds up dancing around in his whitey tidys, and garner kisses two men who are married (well, one has a fiance). i find this movie to be Quite disturbing to children 12 and younger.

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Teen, 16 years old
April 18, 2009
 
LOVE IT
This is an awesome movie and made me laugh and cry , it will the the best movie for any chick flick movie night!

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Kid, 12 years old
August 8, 2011
 
GREAT!!!!!
Oh how much I love this movie! All though there is some talk between teenagers about going to second base, one mild sexual scene were a man gets undressed in front of his girlfriend (he only gets to his underwear), and Jenna gets a little tipsy at a party, it has terrific messages! PERFECT slumber party movie!!!

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Teen, 15 years old
August 10, 2010
 
Cute characters and plot. It's a little inappropriate because of some of the sexual references but it's a really good movie

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Adult
July 12, 2010
 
Amazing movie!!!
I love this movie I saw it like 10 times and I love to watch it every time I feel like it. I think if you want to watch it just enjoy it.

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Kid, 13 years old
November 8, 2009
 
Off 9- Iffy 10-12 On 13+
I just saw it at a 13th Birthday sleepover! It was sort of funny, but slightly inappropriate.

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This review was written by Nell Minow
Topics:magic and fantasy, friendship
Studio:Columbia Tristar
Director:Gary Winick
Cast:Jennifer Garner, Judy Greer, Mark Ruffalo
Genre:Comedy
Run time:98 minutes
Theatrical release date:April 23, 2004
DVD release date:August 3, 2004
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:some sexual content and brief drug references

This review was written by Nell Minow
 

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