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(500) Days of Summer

  • Is it age appropriate?

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 14; suggested age 14.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Smart, fresh romcom takes realistic look at relationships.

Themes in this movie include:   dating/crushes

Why We Rated This on for Ages 14 and Up

The good stuff

  • Messages:

    Love doesn't conquer all in this romantic dramedy, but no matter how complicated or troublesome, it’s portrayed as being absolutely necessary. It has the power to change and serves a source of wisdom. The movie also realistically shows that love alone isn't necessarily enough to keep a relationship going -- it’s only one of a number of elements that need to exist.
  • Role models:

    In a pleasantly surprising role reversal from most romantic movies, the main male character is eager to embrace love in all its prickly splendor, and the woman is unafraid to question its necessity. And both characters are complex, rather than caricatures of their gender.
 

What to watch out for

  • Violence:

    Loud arguing among couples. Some plate-breaking. A man punches another at a bar.
  • Sex:

    More talk than action -- there's some kissing and hugging, and one scene shows a couple supposedly trying to have sex in the shower (although all viewers see is rustling behind the shower curtain). There's also some frank discussion among friends about sex, including references to topics like hand jobs and anal sex. A young teenager counsels her older brother on how to navigate relationships.
  • Language:

    Fairly frequent use of words like “bitch,” “screw,” “skank,” and “s--t,” plus one instance of "f--k." Other words include "hell," "damn," "goddamn," "ass," etc.
  • Consumerism:

    Logos for Twinkies, Tennessee whisky, and AT&T.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Social drinking. A few characters (of legal drinking age) get quite drunk at a karaoke bar.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About (500) Days of Summer

Parents need to know that the content in this smart romantic dramedy is age-appropriate for teens and up, but its thoughtful exploration of relationships may speak more to those in college and older. It has a sweet-yet-realistic view of relationships that’s refreshing given the usual formulaic dreck in this genre. Do expect some frank talk about sex (as well as some kissing and an implied shower sex scene), drinking (sometimes to excess), and swearing (including one "f--k").

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about relationships. What makes them work or fail? How does the movie handle this topic? What makes Tom and Summer's relationship more realistic than other movie pairings?
  • Do Tom's career issues also seem realistic? Is his struggle typical of college grads these days? Why does he continue to write greeting cards when that’s not his calling?
  • How does the movie portray sex and drinking? What role do they play in the story and the characters' lives?

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 3.0

    okay good points for teens 11 and over

    the truth is this is one of those movies that are kind of boring if you want any action has some good points. the movie was okay very little sex 11 and over

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Perfect for older kids, not for teens, especially the ones who are into the whole relationship idea.

    I think it was a great movie. Though there were a lot of of kissing and the whole taking a shower together wasn't a good idea although it didnt show. It brings a good message about love. Love is not always real. Real love is when you know when it is and youru feelings are always positive.

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0

    Fantastic!

    I loved this movie! It's really cute and it'll make you laugh. The ending was VERY unexpected, but I liked it. It's not your typical fairytale-like love story, which adds interest and uniqueness to it. It's a really great movie and the way it's told can be confusing at first, but actually makes more sense in a way. Great movie!

  4. I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

    There is some bad language but the message is a good one, about love and when expectations don't meet rality

  5. I rate this title on for age 16 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Sunny with some clouds - a charming, realistic fable for older teens.

    This is a charming story about the complexities of love.... Ideally it is 'on' for older teens, who can understand those sorts of complexities! It doesn't idealize love, which is what makes it ultimately positive in message - it's realistic, yet hopeful. Believable characters, and some clever flourishes, sets this apart from typical rom-coms. See my review on YouTube: "Gab reviews 500 Days of Summer"!

  6. Parent Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    Love this movie!

    I personally loved this movie. I think that it portrays an honest look at love and relationships, and how it doesn't always turn out the way we think it will in the beginning.

  7. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    • My highlights are:
    • Good role models

    Fantastic Film!

    This is one of the best written movies of the year. All middle schoolers should watch it. There is some sex, a few instances of bad language, but overall, it is a typical PG-13. 10+(red), 12+(yellow), 14+(green)

  8. I rate this title on for age 16 and give it 5.0
    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    Loved it!

    A very cute and sweet movie about love, with a romantic, fresh male character and a quirky girl who isn't sure that she ever wants to be part of a couple.

  9. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

    Funny movie perfect for tweens

    It was a really good movie, funny and sweet.

  10. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 3.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    Great movie. I am a pretty strict parent and I would recommend this movie to any 12 year old. I do think though, that for young boys 13 or 14 would be a more appropriate age. Anyhow, wonderful drama. 12 year old loved it. I saw it days later and didn't regret a thing. The only thing that concerned me was violence but on a scale of 1-10, it would be a 4.5 in my opinion.

  11. I rate this title on for age 12 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate language

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    Tweens (12+)

    Wonderful movie i think all kids 12+ should definitely see. I don't think it is a need for parents to attend this movie with their kids. (I did only because I wasn't sure.) Think of it as the same sexual material as 17 Again. My niece's favorite movie. Message is good and I would definitely see it again.

  12. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Alabama
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages
    • Good role models

    teen wild

    i think ny teenager will have fun playing on this website because it might be fun.

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