(500) Days of Summer (PG-13, 2009)

common sense media says

Smart, fresh romcom is best for older teens.


parents & educators say
  • 53% say there are positive messages
  • 47% say language is an issue

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the content in this smart romantic dramedy is age-appropriate for teens and up, but its thoughtful exploration of relationships may speak more to those in college and older. It has a sweet-yet-realistic view of relationships that’s refreshing given the usual formulaic dreck in this genre. Do expect some frank talk about sex (as well as some kissing and an implied shower sex scene), drinking (sometimes to excess), and swearing (including one "f--k").

Positive messages: Love doesn't conquer all in this romantic dramedy, but no matter how complicated or troublesome, it’s portrayed as being absolutely necessary. It has the power to change and serves a source of wisdom. The movie also realistically shows that love alone isn't necessarily enough to keep a relationship going -- it’s only one of a number of elements that need to exist.
Positive role models: In a pleasantly surprising role reversal from most romantic movies, the main male character is eager to embrace love in all its prickly splendor, and the woman is unafraid to question its necessity. And both characters are complex, rather than caricatures of their gender.
Violence: Loud arguing among couples. Some plate-breaking. A man punches another at a bar.
Sex: More talk than action -- there's some kissing and hugging, and one scene shows a couple supposedly trying to have sex in the shower (although all viewers see is rustling behind the shower curtain). There's also some frank discussion among friends about sex, including references to topics like hand jobs and anal sex. A young teenager counsels her older brother on how to navigate relationships.
Language: Fairly frequent use of words like “bitch,” “screw,” “skank,” and “s--t,” plus one instance of "f--k." Other words include "hell," "damn," "goddamn," "ass," etc.
Consumerism: Logos for Twinkies, Tennessee whisky, and AT&T.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Social drinking. A few characters (of legal drinking age) get quite drunk at a karaoke bar.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about relationships. What makes them work or fail? How does the movie handle this topic? What makes Tom and Summer's relationship more realistic than other movie pairings?
  • Do Tom's career issues also seem realistic? Is his struggle typical of college grads these days? Why does he continue to write greeting cards when that’s not his calling?
  • How does the movie portray sex and drinking? What role do they play in the story and the characters' lives?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Young architect Tom (Joseph Gordon-Levitt) doesn’t spend his days making buildings; instead, he’s got a job designing pithy emotional appeals for a greeting card company. The arrival of new office assistant Summer (Zooey Deschanel) jolts him out of his routine, plunging him into the confusing, exciting morass known as “falling in love.” Their relationship lasts for 500 up-and-down days that unfold in a dizzying array. Over its course, Tom and Summer discover that love is never enough but, at the same time, bewilderingly worth all the trouble.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

For those who feel that the romantic comedy genre is irrevocably broken and that nothing original will ever surface: Dump the cynicism. (500) DAYS OF SUMMER is the kind of movie that will make believers have faith again -- both in Hollywood and in love. Director Marc Webb’s glee in making the film is apparent; he approaches storytelling loosely, letting the movie breathe. He plays with time and memories, much as the mind does when recalling the moments that make or break relationships. The stellar soundtrack only heightens the pleasure.

And the plot: It follows some typical conventions, but only just. Rather than simply recounting how boy meets girl and following along for the roller-coaster ride that follows (as does nearly every film in this genre), it attempts to answer a very complicated question that we’ve all asked at some juncture in our romantic histories: What's the point of falling deeply, madly in love with someone who may not be "the one"? The movie's stars are up to the challenge of tackling this heartfelt question (though the supporting cast could have used some shuffling): Deschanel is perfect as Summer -- elusive but earthy, substantive, vulnerable, compelling. In short, the kind of girl to confound. And Gordon-Levitt: All hail the generous-hearted, deep-thinking, cute guy. Finally, he's here.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Fox Searchlight
Director: Marc Webb
Cast: Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Matthew Gray Gubler, Zooey Deschanel
Genre: Romance
Run time: 96 minutes
Theatrical release: July 17, 2009
DVD release: December 22, 2009
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: sexual material and language
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What parents & educators say

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Based on 19 parent & educator reviews:
  • 53% say there are positive messages
  • 47% say language is an issue
  • 42% say sexual content is an issue
  • 26% say there are positive role models

Most useful reviews by all members

4Spice
adult
 
okay good points for teens 11 and over
the truth is this is one of those movies that are kind of boring if you want any action has some good points. the movie was okay very little sex 11 and over

aka Tinkerbell
teen, 15 years old
 
It is not a love story but it is a story of love. Some people may find it boring and some may find it romantic. I personally found it really funny and romantic but I have to come up and admit that the ending is a bit disappointing.

mama fischer
parent of and 5 , 7 , 10 , 14 , 16 , 17 year old
 
good dose of truth about relationships.
I like the realism & perspective that a movie like this gives to teenagers who are often so dramatic about their relationships. The need to stay open to life's possibilities is a clear message.

 
Watch it if you want an indie comedy with a bittersweet ending...
This is not a love story so if you have movies that don't have perfect mushy endings don't watch it. It's fabulous with amazing music and fantastic acting.

fishycanswim
teen, 15 years old
 
(500) Days of AWESOME!
SO GOOD! This is my favourite movie, It is so great! I have seen it so many time, and you should too!!

themoviefan101
kid, 12 years old
 
(500) days of summer
the best romantic comedy of all time. and possibly my favorite movie of all time.

ironkid21
kid, 13 years old
 
I love this movie. It is a great romantic comedy. There was one kissing scene and one part when there in the shower. And the ending is dissapointing but realistic. 9+

Doodelium
kid, 13 years old
 
Funny
This movie is probably one of my Top 10 favorite movies! It is very funny! Watch it!!!

 
Good Movie bad ending

hyungteo
teen, 16 years old
 
Go deeper into this movie, discover something great.
I love this movie. Summer is a terrible role model, but also incredibly captivating in the way that she inspires one to follow their own path. To live their own life. Yet she cuts herself off from emotions, doesn't believe in love. It's full of great quotes, but don't mistake it for a love story. Really.

Manila Mom
parent of 11 and 14 year old
 

rj2112
parent of 16 year old
 
17 and older movie
Did not feel comfortable watching this with my 15 year old. This is certainly not a movie that portrays how I would want her to act and the sex and talk is why too loose.

mgpezz
parent of 8 and 13 year old
 
There is some bad language but the message is a good one, about love and when expectations don't meet rality

chillded banana
kid, 13 years old
 
supri
funny and heart warming comedy witch stands out. Highly recomended

movies make me :)
kid, 13 years old
 
amazing and fun!!

masonlackey
teen, 14 years old
 
suprisingly good
this movie is romantic funny and unique it was a heartwarming movie and i enjoyed it very much highly recomended.

EmilyB123
teen, 15 years old
 
Cute Love story

 
cute movie.
If you like love stories this is the movie for you.It was cute but not to sappy.The ending was very cute. I recommend it.

 
Fine for teens
A realistic movie about romance. There is a bit of language and sexual references/promiscuity (among adults). But it has good messages - male and female characters aren't stereotyped, characters learn that love sometimes doesn't work out.

shanno15
teen, 16 years old
 
the perfect mixture of comedy, love, and drama
This movie is phenomenal. I watched it with my mother and she adored it too, the movie is not just about a couples relationship but what one can learn from a breakup. The message of the movie shines throughout it

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