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In the Land of Women

(2007, Rated PG-13, Drama, Starring Meg Ryan, Adam Brody, Kristen Stewart)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 13, age appropriate for kids over 15; suggested age 13.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    Touching-but-treacly chick flick for moms and teens.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 13–15

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Carter spends time with his ailing grandmother and encourages Lucy to take a closer look at her mother. Sarah and Lucy repair their damaged mother-daughter relationship. Sarah deals valiantly with her illness.
  • Violence:

    Lucy's ex-boyfriend clocks Carter in the face; another teen defends him by punching the ex.
  • Sex:

    Carter passionately kisses three different characters. In flashbacks, viewers see a montage of Carter and Sofia's relationship, including discreet glimpses of them making love in bed. Carter writes soft-core porn scripts and discusses a couple of scenes on the phone. Lucy confesses she had a pre-pubescent sexual episode. An extramarital affair is discussed in two pivotal scenes.
  • Language:

    Regular PG-13 curse words: "s--t," ""assh--e," "screw," "hell," and a few sexual comments about orgasms, seduction, and pornography.
  • Consumerism:

    Less than expected for a film marketed to teen girls: iPod, iMac, Mazda, Dairy Queen.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Carter and Lucy smoke cigarettes. Underage drinking is evident at a high-school party.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About In the Land of Women

Parents need to know that while it's been marketed as a teen-centric romance, the movie includes some heavy subject matter. Teen girls will want to see this drama thanks to star Adam Brody -- aka Seth from The O.C. -- but his character here isn't a teenager; instead, he's a man with women issues. A central character has cancer, and its onset affects her entire family. Plus, a teenage girl smokes, drinks, and has a combative relationship with her mother, and a sometimes-senile grandmother believes she's on the verge of death. There are a few passionate kisses, and the protagonist's job as an erotic-film writer is mentioned throughout the film.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about women's roles and mother-child relationships. Does being a stay-at-home mom make a woman worthless, without anything to show for her life? Why does Lucy perceive her mom as a failure and a fake, and how does Carter challenge Lucy to change her perspective? How does the media depict housewives? Is this film an accurate portrayal? Families can also discuss the difference between Sarah's relationship with her two daughters and how Carter helps the women around him feel better about themselves.

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Arkansas
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 5.0

    a great over all story alot of people can relate to

  2. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in New Jersey
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 1.0

    For Parents from Kid's point of view

    I am suprised at today's media. This movie was revolved around a porn writer and his surroundings after he moves in with his grandmother. This story's plot was weak. It was just a love triangle- mother and daughter loved the same man. I caution parents to let their children see this. It encourages some behavior that shouldn't be encouraged- cheating on spouse, love with a minor, and love with a married woman.

  3. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 5.0

    It was a good movie

    It was a great movie. I loved it. A great script, and a great cast. Just excellent.

  4. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 4.0

    hi

    its a good film, my daughters favorate

  5. Kid Reviewer Age 10
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 5.0

    a very sad movie a litte bit funny sad and aromantic condy loved it ages 14 and up

  6. Kid Reviewer Age 6
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    this movie rocked my barbie world

    It was rockin. Since I love the oc it was even better. Adam Brody is a hecka hottie....

  7. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 5.0

    Great Movie, Stupid Not To Let Kids See

    This movie was absouloutly great. I can not believe that some parents would not let their kids see it. So he talks about "sex" and he writes "erotic stories" to clue all of you in, EVERY CHILD THAT IS OVER 9 knows about that kind of stuff. "Romantic KISSING" is no big deal, your kids will be kissing by the time they are 11, so you need to get used to it. You dont have to talk to your kid about sex until your ready but just to clue you in, they probably already know. The movie was great. Let um' see it.

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