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The King and I

(1956, Rated NR, Musical, Starring Rita Moreno, Yul Brynner, Deborah Kerr)
  • Is it age appropriate?

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 6, age appropriate for kids over 8; suggested age 8.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    A boisterous, big-costumed classic musical.

Why We Rated This on for Ages 8 and Up

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    There's a lot of fun made of the king for his poor grasp of English; he's made into a fool. While the film is set in what is modern-day Thailand, none of the primary characters are Asian. The king is also sexist, thinking women more "lowly" than men in general, and certainly much lower than him. Many of the songs teach life lessons, like how to deal with fear and how to learn about a new culture.
  • Violence & scariness:

    The king threatens to whip a slave girl who tries to escape to be with her lover. Talk of someone drowning.
  • Sexy stuff:

    Some close dancing, but no kissing or sexual behavior. There's a lot of talk, however, about women being "made to please men" and the king has multiple wives. When the Thai ladies are dressed up in European gowns, they "wear practically no undergarments," prompting them, in a moment of shock, to hike their dresses and flash English men. But nothing is seen on screen.
  • Language:

    Not an issue.
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    The king passes out cigars, though no one smokes on-screen.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About The King and I

Parents need to know that this film characterizes the ancient Asian culture of Siam (now Thailand) as somewhat backwards and sexist. The king has dozens of wives and hundreds of children, which may bewilder kids. Also confusing, the roles of the main Thai characters are played by white and Latino Americans. But the story's music and enchanting characters are perfect for kids, who are likely to see the king's poor grasp of English as endearing and fun. But older children and adults may find the portrayal of the king rather racist.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about Thai history and culture. Were the clothes, dance styles, and culture in the movie true to the culture? What do you think about movies that don't cast Asian actors in Asian roles? Can you think of other examples of that happening? Do you think you could play the role of someone of a different race fairly? Do you think the actors in this film were fair?

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  1. I rate this title on for age 8 and give it 5.0
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    Enjoyable for ages 8+

    Hi, I'm ten years old, I think the king and I is a great Enjoyable film! It's about a Proper Lady from Europe comes to teach the King of Siam's children. She teaches him and them how to be kind and fair. In the beginning a young women is given as a present, but she really wants to be with her true love,she sneaks out and meets him but then they get caught he dies and she gets threated. At the end the king dies.

  2. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 9 and give it 5.0

    Good for everyone who likes singing!

    One of the best musicals Ive ever seen!

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in New York
    I rate this title on for age 7 and give it 5.0

    Great Movie For All Ages

    This movie is very good for everyone! Children that are used to watching family guy will find that this is much more amusing! One of my favorite movies of all time!

  4. I rate this title on for age 6 and give it 3.0

    A Decent Old-Fashoined Musical...

    THE KING AND I isn't as grand as I remembered it. In fact, some parts make you want to fast forward very quickly. Some parts are rude (casting whites in Thai roles) and some parts are corny (the song between Tup-Tim and the slave guy), but it's impossible to give such a good-natured movie a bad rating. Some of the music is very good, like "Getting to Know You", "Shall We Dance" and "Hello Young Lovers". I wasn't impressed by Yul Brynner, but Gertrude Lawrence is very good. There is really no objectionable material at all. Kids may be saddened at (SPOILER) the king's death at the end of the film. The movie raises moral questions about slavery and the like, and the King is poised to whip a slave girl (he doesn't).

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