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P.S. I Love You

(2007, Rated PG-13, Comedy, Starring Lisa Kudrow, Hilary Swank, Gerard Butler)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 14; suggested age 13.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    Romantic comedy is too tragic for all-out laughs.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 13–14

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    A woman sizes up men by their physical attributes (and talks loudly about it); friends fight and ignore each other or yell at each other on voicemail; a couple threatens to walk out on each other; a man's Tourette Syndrome is sometimes played for laughs. That said, in the end, the movie is about how friends and family members (dead or alive) support and love each other.
  • Violence:

    A couple fights loudly, slamming doors. Grief scenes are emotionally painful.
  • Sex:

    Couples kiss, sometimes while barely clothed in bed (though nothing but shoulders is glimpsed under the covers); men and women prance around in their underwear; one shot of a naked man's behind; close ups on abs; a woman discusses men's body parts candidly (and a man takes her to task for it); a woman propositions men in social situations.
  • Language:

    Language includes "s--t," "a--hole," "son of a bitch," "goddamn," and the like.
  • Consumerism:

    Some mention of specific products/brands, including eBay and Marc Jacobs (specifically, his shoes). Holly has a killer designer wardrobe that, in real life, she probably wouldn't be able to afford.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Some drinking in bars and at musical events, as well as at a funeral. A few times, Holly and her friends end up plastered.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About P.S. I Love You

Parents need to know that, contrary to what the ad campaign might have you believe, this is a somewhat sad movie that deals with loss and grief -- not a straightforward romantic comedy. Its messages -- tell the people you care about that you love them before it's too late, and live life to the fullest -- are admirable, and its characters are goodhearted. But there's a fair amount of strong language (no "f--k," though there's plenty of "s--t" and "goddamn"), some frank talk about sex, and partial nudity. The movie also seems obsessed with getting the main character, Holly, hooked up with another man, as if that's the only fix for the widowed heart.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about how this movie compares to other romantic comedies. How does the sad premise affect the overall tone? Can approaching grief with humor help make it easier to bear? Why or why not? Also, why do you think so many people expect Holly to fall in love with someone else? Do Hollywood movies perpetuate the idea that, to move on after a loss, you have to fall in love again? Is that realistic? Does the film's ending, especially the part about romance, surprise you? Why?

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    I rate this title on for age 14 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    P.S. I Love You :] :]

    P.S. I Love You is hands down, the best romantic movie I have seen during my lifetime of movie watching. After the death of her husband Gerry, Holly is devastated and feels like the whole world is crashing down on her but luckily, Gerry planned ahead in knowing that this would happen. To help Holly through her time of mourning, he writes a series of letters to be sent to her over the next year. Though each letter ties Holly back to her past with Gerry, it also pushes her to rediscover herself and continue to live her life to the fullest. In the end, everything that she has always dreamed of comes together and even though she misses Gerry, she realizes that his death was meant to be a new beginning in her life. This plot causes you to think everything is about to go down the drain but then, with the snap of a finger, everything seems to be looking back up and that is what I truly love about this movie! Throughout this film, the cast created great chemistry that allowed them to work together to provide spectacular entertainment for all audiences. I would honestly recommend this movie to anyone because it has different aspects that will appeal to any person.

  2. Teen Reviewer Age 17
    Lives in Oregon
    I rate this title on for age 15 and give it 5.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Negative role models

    • My highlights are:
    • Positive messages

    "Sweet" is exactly how I would describe this movie. It was a little slow in parts, but it had a great storyline and I loved the end!! There was quite a bit of language and they went a little overboard on the sexual content/humor (or lack of), in my opinion, but there was nothing absolutely horrible. The worst part is a shot of a man's naked rear, but he just got out of the shower, it's not sexual at all. The only other thing I didn't like was how one of the characters talks about men like they're merchandise. But, I'm definitely going to run out and buy this movie because I absolutely LOVED it. Sooo... I give this movie 2 thumbs up! PS-Make sure you have tissues handy!!

  3. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title on for age 10 and give it 5.0

    e.g. Perfect for older kids, but not for tweens

    This is probably one of the best movies ever. I love it so much.

  4. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Connecticut
    I rate this title off for age 13 and give it 4.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use

    You should think twice before going with your tween.

    This is an excellent movie, just not for tweens or young teens. The conccepts are just to complicated for them to really understand as an adult I stuggle with them myself. And it is REALLY sad.

  5. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in Pennsylvania
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 3.0

    Makes you cry!

    Thiss movie was very sad but touching. But it isn't as inocent as you think. there was a ton of sex in it! to much actually! at one point a man's behind is shown bare! Also in the beginging the main character is shown only in her bra. Parents whatch of for this one! 14+

  6. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    Lives in Michigan
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 2.0

    hmmm not my favorite

    I thought that this movie was very slow paced. It was depressing and was very hard to follow. There is alcohol, sex, and i believe some swearing, and some nudity. I don't recommend it for young teens ( 13 or even 14 year olds. You have to be patient and have a mature mind. Don't waste your time is my opinion. Lets just say its not on my top 10. I suggest this to couples either dating or married. ( I had a teen friend who is dating and she loved it)

  7. Teen Reviewer Age 13
    Lives in Texas
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 5.0

    Mixed Feelings Movie

    This movie had everything in it. The only thing was the SEX. There was a whole lot of it.

  8. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 5.0

    AMAZING

    This movie was really good. i thought that the way her dead husband sent hber letters was really cool. all throught he movie you were wondering how she got the letters and if they would ever stop coming. i think that people 12 and up would enjoy this movie. there are some swears, and the people in the movie drink a lot but other then that it is really good. i think that everyone should see this because it is a fantastic movie.

  9. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 5.0

    i blubbered like a baby!

    HA!!! they say its a comedy?! they're crazy! sure, there are some funny parts, but i cried through the whole thing! i think it was a very good movie, very well done. but in my opinion, for kids 13 and under should not see this due to heavy emotions of depression, and adult situations. but otherwise, it is a deffinate watch unless you are not fond of tear jerkers.

  10. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Michigan
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    a must see movie!!!

    i laughed, i cried. it was such a good movie. so sweet.

  11. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in New Mexico
    I rate this title iffy for age 11 and give it 4.0

    PS I LOVE THIS MOVIE

  12. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    I loved this movie!!!

    I don't care what nobody says, this movie was HEKKA good! I wanted to cry, I laughed, it was fun, a family movie, it was te best adventure, SO CUTE!

  13. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Utah
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    i cried!

  14. Teen Reviewer Age 17
    Lives in Pennsylvania
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 3.0

    yeahhhhh

    this movie was long and predictable butit was good

  15. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Missouri
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

    A GREAT Movie♥

    AMAZING movie sad but funny in most parts anyone 12+ would probally like it

  16. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0

    WOW!

    I certainly didn't think I would walk out of the theatre thinking what an awesome movie this was! The emotions, thoughts and comical intervals were perfectly played. This is a must see, especially for soulmates!! Me and mine loved it!! Will be a DVD purchase when it is released!!!

  17. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in Massachusetts
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 3.0

    More sad than funny

    This movie had some really funny parts but there were more sad parts. There was some language and very little nudity. over all good movie I think it would be od for kids 12+

  18. Teen Reviewer Age 15
    Lives in California
    I rate this title iffy for age 2 and give it 5.0

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