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Return to Me

(2000, Rated PG, Drama, Starring Minnie Driver, David Duchovny, Bonnie Hunt)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 9, age appropriate for kids over 10; suggested age 10.
  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    An unbelievable premise, but sweet and romantic.

Why We Rated This on for Ages 10 and Up

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Inter-racial cast
  • Violence:

    Sad death of character, issue of heart transplants
  • Sex:

    Mild
  • Language:

    Brief mild language, including children using bad words
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    A lot of social drinking, some smoking
 

What Parents Need to Know

About Return to Me

Parents need to know that although the movie is rated PG, there are a few strong words, including some used by children, and some mild sexual references.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about how people decide how much of themselves to share, about how people cope with loss that seems devastatingly overwhelming, and about Grace's grandfather's comment that "It is the character that's the strongest that God gives the most challenges to." Families can also talk about how couples make decisions about the risks of physical intimacy as well as emotional. And families can also talk about the loving way the people in this movie care for each other and enjoy each other.

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  1. Teen Reviewer Age 16
    I rate this title iffy for age 12 and give it 3.0
    My concerns are:
    • Inappropriate sexual content
    • Inappropriate language
    • Drinking, smoking, or drug use
    • Negative role models

    If only they had left the bad language and sexual dialogue out...

    The story is sweet, but there is alot of explicit sexual dialogue and alot of bad language. As a result, quite a few scenes should be fast forwarded for children, such as as strange scene of Grace naked in the bathtub.

  2. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Utah
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 4.0

    Feel good movie; very funny

    A touching film with lots of humor throughout. Good performances from the cast and it's well written. Sexuality is minimal, a couple scenes with some language (for comedic effect). Probably more for teens and up because of the subject matter. I don't think most younger kids would enjoy the story all that much.

  3. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in California
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 3.0

    Better for Older kids

    I think this movie is better suited for older kids 13+ mostly due to sexual references. A mention of not being a virgin before marriage by a character; a warning about not shaving you legs so you don't go to far on a FIRST date; and a comment about the girl not spending the night even though they had been dating a year - as if that were wrong. All fine for adults, but not great examples for the younger audiences. Lot's of swearing by kids/adults may also put some off. A very sad beginning may be upsetting to a sensitive kid (when the wife is killed in a accident). I was surprised bu the ON for 10+ rating.

  4. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in New Jersey
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 4.0

    Cried/Laugh

    A tender love story about two women who are linked by their heart and the man who loves them. Interesting story and good performances by David D. and Minnie Driver.

  5. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Iowa
    I rate this title iffy for age 11 and give it 4.0

    A great film

    Sensuality: Comments a breif comment about having a sex dream but she syas no you misunderstood me and some other hard to cathc mild references. Violence: A violent scene with alot of blood after a car accident and some news abuta hear trans-plant. Language: requent especialy when you here the father say it then the kds repeat it. Overall: Great movie with feelings and will make you happy.

  6. Adult Reviewer
    I rate this title on for age 11 and give it 5.0

    Best romantic comedy ever

    Loved it! What a cute, enjoyable, clean movie full of laughs and romance. Great performances by top-notch actors! A must see.

  7. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Florida
    I rate this title off for age 17 and give it 0.0

    simple minded atheist will like it

    Halfway into the movie, the Lord's name was used in vain for the 2nd time. It was used by a small child so I stopped the movie. Has hollywood lost their minds?

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