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She Hate Me

(2004, Rated R, Drama, Starring Ellen Barkin, Kerry Washington, Anthony Mackie)

  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 17, age appropriate for kids over 17; suggested age 17.

  • Is it any good?

    2.0

  • Common Sense says

    This extremely graphic movie is not for kids.

Why We Rated This not for kids

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    A theme of the movie relates to being paid for sex and the parallels to selling one's soul.

  • Violence:

    Tense scenes, suicide with grisly injuries.

  • Sex:

    Nudity, frequent and explicit sexual references and situations.

  • Language:

    Very strong language.

  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.

  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Drinking, smoking.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About She Hate Me

Parents need to know that this movie isn't for kids of any age. It contains extremely mature material with nudity, graphic scenes of childbirth, and many explicit sexual encounters, straight and gay. Characters drink, smoke, and use very strong language. A character commits suicide by jumping out of a window. He falls on another man, and they're both killed. A theme of the movie relates to being paid for sex and the parallels to selling one's soul.

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