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Stepmom

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 12, age appropriate for kids over 13; suggested age 12.

  • Is it any good?

    3.0
  • Common Sense says

    Contrived yet effective family weepie.

Why We Rated This iffy for Ages 12–13

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Two characters are shown living together without being married.
  • Violence:

    A family member dies of cancer.
  • Sex:

    Not an issue.
  • Language:

    An authority figure counsels a 12-year-old girl to call a boy at school "limp d---." There are a few other curses, as well.
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Adults smoke cigarettes and drink cocktails, though not to the point of drunkenness. Susan Sarandon's character smokes marijuana to deal with her chemotherapy.

What Parents Need to Know

This review of Stepmom was written by Joyce Slaton

Parents need to know that this film tackles some very grim topics: divorce and death. Though the characters are shown grappling realistically with real problems and doing the best they can in bad situations, the mere fact that the mother in the movie is dying will be too much for younger and very sensitive children. There is some light swearing, drinking, and a character smokes pot to deal with chemotherapy.

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What’s the Story?

Jackie Harrison (Susan Sarandon) is unhappily divorced from Luke (Ed Harris), who's now shacking up with fashion photog Isabel (Julia Roberts), with the two kids shuttled in between the two homes. At first Isabel and Jackie are bitter rivals, and the kids side with Mom. But when Jackie develops fatal cancer, Isabel has to start taking up the slack in the Mommy role.

Is It Any Good?

At every step of Stepmom, audiences feel director Chris Columbus pulling the strings. The plot twists are as contrived as the swelling strings that fill the soundtrack, engineered in some Hollywood lab to jerk the tears right out of you. And yet it works, mostly due to the stellar acting on display.

Julia Roberts is predictably glowing, Susan Sarandon is confident and real, and the little nippers (Jena Malone and Liam Aiken) are so genuine that it's easy to forget that you're being pulled this way and that by the filmmakers, like a puppet on a string. It's manipulative. But there's enough polish on the film that it works. Ultimately, this is depressing but entertaining, a solid choice for a rainy night when no one feels like laughing.

Movie Details

Studio: Tristar Pictures, Director: Chris Columbus
Run time: 124 minutes
Theatrical release: 12/15/1998, DVD release: 10/01/1999
MPAA Rating: PG-13 for language and thematic elements

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Most Recent Reviews

  1. Teen Reviewer Age 14
    Lives in Georgia
    I rate this title on for age 13 and give it 5.0
    • My concerns are:
    • Excessive violence

    A sweet, sad chick flick!

    This movie was sooooo good. It brings up the matter of children coping with divorce. The movie is extremely sad, but it also is very sweet. Definitely a chick flick, though!

  2. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Ohio
    I rate this title off for age 0 and give it 1.0

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