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What Love Is

  • Is it age appropriate?

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 17, age appropriate for kids over 17; suggested age 17.
  • Is it any good?

    1.0
  • Common Sense says

    Graphic-yet-boring rom-com turns off teens and up.

Why We Rated This not for kids

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Male and female characters are written to type. The men are by turns macho, uncommunicative, and jaded. The women are uber-sensitive, lovesick, or manipulative. There's also lots of homophobic rhetoric. Underneath it all, though, everyone supposedly has a soft side.
  • Violence:

    Sal talks about flashing his gun to threaten romantic rivals and actually shows his weapon off when intimidating someone.
  • Sex:

    Includes a gratuitous stripping scene in which random female characters gyrate around a pole, but no actual sex acts are portrayed. That said, there are very detailed discussions of oral sex technique and male genitalia, and lots of talk about male and female libido. Sample dialogue: "I could not get this man to go down on me if we were on the Titanic!"
  • Language:

    Profanity galore -- from the mild ("damn") to the oh-so-colorful ("f--k"). Women are called "bitches" and "hos," and men are "dicks."
  • Consumerism:

    Obvious product placements and non-sequitur mentions of brands like LensCrafters, Makers Mark whiskey, Hallmark, etc.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Lots. In the first few minutes, Tom downs two shots -- which is only the tip of the drinking iceberg. No drugs, but plenty of cigarette smoking.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About What Love Is

Parents need to know that this mature romantic comedy is made up almost entirely of explicit conversations about sex and relationships. There are detailed analyses of sex acts, love-gone-wrong tales, and general complaints about couplehood. Women are referred to as "hos," men are sized up by their genitalia, and seductions are attempted. Though it aspires to confront stereotypes of men and women, the film winds up cementing them, which may be troubling even for older teens.

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about how men and women are portrayed in this movie. What gender stereotypes does it reinforce? Does it undermine any? Are men and women really as different as the characters say they are? Or are they much more similar than they appear? If so, how? Can you think of any movies that have portrayed men, women, and relationships more accurately? You can also talk about what happens when a couple breaks up. Do men and women handle it differently? How? And what roles do friends play when a couple separates?

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  1. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in New Mexico
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 5.0

    Matthew Lillard is Awesome in this movie!

    The movies is fast paced and funny. Matthew Lillard plays a great part as a cocky homophobic kind of guy. The conversations are interesting and it keeps the movie flowing. This whole movie is shot in one location so it's kind of like an on-stage performance that keeps you laughing. I liked it. Great actors/actress's. Something different.

  2. Kid Reviewer Age 12
    I rate this title on for age 2 and give it 5.0

  3. Adult Reviewer
    Lives in Virginia
    I rate this title on for age 17 and give it 5.0

    This is a fast worded clever film

    After seeing this clever and fast paced film it reminded me of films from the past. The dialogue driven "Glenngarry Glenn Ross"(1992) or "His Girl Friday"(1939)immediately come to mind when thinking of the pacing and impact from "What Love Is". Matthew Lillard is fantastic in the role of Sal and Cuba Gooding is quite good too. This is a film that will be appreciated when enough people see it and realize the power of the dialogue.

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