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In the Bedroom

(2001, Rated R, Drama, Starring Sissy Spacek, Marisa Tomei, Tom Wilkinson)
  • Is it age appropriate?

    About our ratings

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    Not age appropriate for kids under 15, age appropriate for kids over 16; suggested age 16.
  • Is it any good?

    4.0
  • Common Sense says

    Tragic masterwork is too intense for many teens.

Why We Rated This on for Ages 16 and Up

What to watch out for

  • Messages:

    Characters resort to violence as revenge. Family members use extremely abusive and cruel language as main means of communication. A young college boy is involved with an older, separated-but-still-married mother of two children.
  • Violence:

    Most violence occurs off-screen, although the resulting wounds can be explicit, including, most graphically, a close-up of a face after it is shot.
  • Sex:

    No visible encounters, but off-screen sexual activity clearly implied.
  • Language:

    Strong language in several scenes.
  • Consumerism:

    Not an issue.
  • Drinking, drugs, & smoking:

    Sissy Spacek's character smokes constantly. Some references to possibility of alcoholism.
 

What Parents Need to Know

About In the Bedroom

Parents need to know that this complex and troubling film will be too intense for many teens. The movie's few violent scenes are graphic and wrenching. Family communication is minimal and searing. The film depicts domestic violence and implies, while not actually showing, that children witness the abuse. The characters' practically palpable grief will be too much for some young viewers, particularly those who may have lost a close relative or friend.

Read our full review by Chloe Mead

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Families Can Talk About

  • Families can talk about the intersection of family, love and violence. Does the movie condone or condemn violence, or both? Families can also discuss the breakdown and seeming failure of family communication. Another interesting discussion topic would be exploring how the characters' occupational fields (medicine, music instruction, architecture, canning industry) illuminate or contradict their personalities.

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    I rate this title iffy for age 17 and give it 1.0

    I was bored - no reason for a children to see it

    Quite honestly I don't see why this film received so much acclaim. It does to a good job of showing how one family deals with the loss of a child, but it's not the message you want any children under 20 to see. Also, it's boring.

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