Parent of 3, 5, and 11 year old
August 3, 2009
A great mother/daughter movie - opens the path to communication and discussions
As with many movies of this nature, my daughter and I watched it together. In doing this, we are able to discuss any situation or concept that appears which in-turn opens the lines of communication to what might be otherwise difficult for my daughter to ask. We both loved this movie and felt that the characters were great role models, not only in their emotions and lives, but in their desire to make their families happy, as well as themselves. We still watch it time and again and continue to discuss different ideas and concepts as my daughter grows older and has new questions. We still quote many lines from this movie, that would have otherwise been uncomfortable for my daughter; however, we were able to discuss them and now we joke about them!
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A wonderful, funny and profound movie for everyone.
Good story, feel good movie with subtle points. Should appeal to all ethnic groups. Clever and solid characters.
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Parent of 11 and 13 year old
March 16, 2009
Uplifting and engaging
This is a wonderful coming of age movie with interesting cultural aspects. It is well acted and is an excellent choice for young teen girls even if they don't play sports. Cast includes Kira Knightly.
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Kid, 10 years old
April 9, 2008
This is a great movie for soccer players and everyone else!
This movie about a girl named Jess who loves soccer. The only problem is, her parents don't want her to! She sneaks out of the house in order to practice with her friend Jewel's team. Unfortunately, Jess's parents find out and Jess is banned from playing soccer! Then after watching Jess suffer, her dad finally lets her play in her big game on her sister's wedding day! She scores the winning goal and then gets an offer to play on the women's soccer team and go to college at Santa Clara. Jess gets really excited and goes to college there with her friend Jewels. To find out more about her adventures, go see this great movie!
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Kid, 11 years old
April 12, 2010
great movie about a girl that struggles to pursue her dreams
This is my FAVOURITE movie of all time
very good, but it makes me want to play soccer everytime i see it.
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An Indian "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" but with a much richer story
I loved this movie in so many ways! It was funny and playful and yet deep and thought provoking. It was a great Dad and daughter movie - a real departure from the stereotype of the rigid Indian father. It deals with the divided loyalties that 1st generation immigrant kids often face in wanting to be of two worlds - respectful of their cultural heritage but determined to make lives that are uniquely their own and different from their parents. The light touch that the Director uses in dealing with cultural and gender differences is wonderful. I took my 9 year old soccer-loving daughter to see it. I must admit there were moments in the film (kissing scene at a nightclub, a brief groping makeout scene in a car) when I squirmed because it felt a bit too mature for her, but all in all I'm glad we went.
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Teen, 14 years old
March 8, 2010
Bend it like Beckham is a wonderful story about a teenage indian girl whos dream is to play soccer. And when she plays soccer she wants to be and feel as good as Beckham a famouse soccer star. When her mother sees that her daughter is still playing soccer even though it is against there religion she bands her from playing soccer. Now this indian girl must find a way to live her dream without her mom finding out........ The movie was overall very good there was some very brief sexy content and talks about sex and homosexuals (lesbians). Also some people get drunk there also is some yelling and some strong themes. Also on top of that there is some pritty iffy language here and there. At the beggining the indian girl lyes to get her way and gets herself into trouble and unhappiness. But in the end she learns lying never solves problems and its not the way to make your dreams come true. I give this movie 4 stars and say that it is a bit iffy for 10 for some strong themes, language, and some sexy stuff that may be stretching the limit for some 10 year olds.
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Teen, 14 years old
June 11, 2010
Great movie for the whole family!! And I mean GREAT!!
I just watched this movie with my family, including my parents and my 11 year old sister, and it was a HIT! It was a fabulous tale with spunky and positive female role models, enough sports and amazing soccer for any guy to like, and positive messages and feel good lines thrown in along the way. Jess is such an amazing character with a real passion for soccer, but is intelligent as well. While her parents want her to follow a traditional Indian path and go to school, and then get married and fatten up a husband and children, Jess wants to play soccer, or football as they call it in Britain. And when her parents crack down on her to go to university, Jess is offered the oppurtunity to play on a girls soccer team, the first time she's played besides at the park. The ending is great, maybe not very realistic, but heart-warming and touching, and really makes you think about parenting, passions, and doing the right thing. An amazing movie!
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Teen, 14 years old
October 23, 2009
Tons of fun!
I'd be the first to admit that this movie isn't the best, but personally, it's one of my favorites. I love the Indian culture, I love England and I love soccer/football, and the combination of all three makes this a score for me. The movie sets the parameters as a not particularly deep but heartwarming comedy, and sticks to them all the way through. And the acting was surprisingly good. All in all, an offbeat but excellent movie! I'd say that the inappropriate content would probably go over most kids' heads, but that it's more enjoyable if you're 12 or so.
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Clever Punjabi comedy set in London
Why are Punjabis so funny? After Monsoon Wedding, here is another wonderful comedy about a girl soccer player who fights heer parents to succeed. Hilarious at times, there are also a lot of pointed jokes at everyone's expense. Highly recommended, though probably for teenagers and not below unless my perceptions are out of line with today's kids.
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Teen, 13 years old
April 9, 2008
a real fun and nice movie, I liked it a lot
It was very funny, and I liked the girls who played soccer a lot. They were good examples.
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Kid, 10 years old
May 2, 2009
Great 8+ Family Movie
The scene where Jess is drunk, kissing Joe, the coach, is slightly mature, and Pinky and her fiance have an 'extreme kissing' scene. There's also some strong insulting language. And there's some talk about homosexuality. Other than that it's fine. The only fights are verbal arguments about whether or not Jess should play soccer.
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Parent of 4 and 9 year old
April 9, 2008
Fun to watch with teen boys and girls
I watched with my neices and nephews, and it was interesting to discuss afterward how young adult life differs by gender, culture and class. This movie provided lots of food for thought, and was lots of fun.
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Teen, 15 years old
April 9, 2008
This wonderful movie is definitely a goody to watch again and again!
This fantasic movie really makes you want to go out on the soccer field. I think that kids over the age of 7 should be allowed to see this one, but if the kids have any questions about the movie or even if the don't, explain the movie to them so they get it. This movie has a few insults about the Indian culture but it's not so bad. I recommend seeing this movie!
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Teen, 13 years old
June 6, 2009
A must see
This is a great movie that I saw ith my cousin and we loved it!!
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Teen, 14 years old
May 23, 2010
Great movie!!
I think it was very insperational for kids, because I know when I watched it I got inspired and started doing soccer. I am enjoying it very much!
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Teen, 13 years old
May 15, 2011
Soccer Star!
I think it is a very good movie. It's all about an Indian girl who sneaks behinds her parent's backs. In the end, she gets her way because she just loves soccer and her family sees it's important to her. The messages are good, but there are a few iffy parts. Such as the soccer team gets drunk at a party in Germany. It shows one scene where the main character's older sister is having a bit of fun with her fiancee in their car. At the end of the movie Jess, the main character, shares a long and interesting kiss with her ex-soccer coach. All in all it is one of my favorite soccer movies.
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Kid, 12 years old
December 28, 2011
Good message, iffy language
I thought this movie had a nice message about doing what makes you happy. Although some of the characters use innapropriate language, it doesn't go too far (in my opinion) and they don't use it too often. There are also some iffy scenes with Jess's sister and her fiance, and some part might be a little too sexy for some kids.
The main character often sneaks out of her home to attend her football practice against her parent's will and constantly lies about it. I would pause if your child might pick up on this behavior.
There is some mild talk concerning breasts, so I would not suggest letting your child watch this movie if they are uncomfortable with that subject. There is also talk of lesbians, and it didn't bother me at all, but if you don't support that then I don't recommend watching this.
Overall, this movie has strong female role models (which we all know most movies need) and a very good message, but some language and scenes might disturb some audiences.
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