The Blind Side (PG-13, 2009)

common sense media says

Syrupy sports drama uplifts but glosses over deep issues.


parents & educators say
  • 77% say there are positive messages
  • 72% say there are positive role models

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this formulaic but uplifting family sports drama -- which is based on the true story of football player Michael Oher -- centers on messages about inclusion, the benefits of hard work, and the importance of family. That said, it sometimes feels as if it glosses over many of the challenges that Oher and his "rescuer" (socialite Leigh Anne Tuohy, played by Sandra Bullock) must have faced. And while it alludes to the prejudice that exists in certain situations, aside from a scene or two, it skirts the topic instead of truly tackling it, and some scenes depict characters who are blatantly racist. Still, Oher’s life story in inarguably encouraging. While language and sexual content are quite mild, you can expect a couple of brief violent scenes, references to drug use, and social drinking.

Positive messages: The movie's message is one of inclusion -- that no barrier, including race or income, should get in the way of doing right by others. But there’s a hint of condescension in its approach to the topic. Another lesson: Hard work does pay off.
Positive role models: Leigh Anne sets a good examle as an affluent socialite who lends a helping hand to a child and doesn’t let go (her entire family is helpful, as are the teachers). Michael is also a lesson in fortitude, rarely giving in to the aggression he must feel from having been neglected as a child. But on the downside, nearly all of the movie's African-American characters are portrayed as either impoverished, drug-addicted, or both, which reinforces certain stereotypes. And some characters freely indulge in racism.
Violence: A fight in a drug den nearly leads to gunfire. A gun is brandished, and another character alludes to “packing” a weapon. Some jaw-breaking action on the football field. Flashback scenes show children being wrested from their mother without her consent, which is mildly traumatic to watch.
Sex: A husband and wife lovingly kiss and make out; references to “tapping that.” Some ogling.
Language: Relatively few uses of words like "ass" (which a woman points out as being inappropriate), "hell," "damn," "tits," and "oh my God."
Consumerism: BMW logo is visible; one character owns a number of Taco Bell franchises, and that company and other fast-food restaurants are mentioned by name.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Some beer drinking in a social context. One scene has an adult offering a teenager beer; he takes one sip. Drug paraphernalia is clearly visible, and a woman’s drug habit is discussed.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about what motivates Leigh Ann to welcome Michael into her home. Was it a purely selfless move? Why does she later say that he changed her life (and not the other way around)?

  • Why does Michael trust the Tuohys? What appeals to him about them? Does the movie adequately address the skepticism and prejudice that Michael and the Tuohys faced when they became a family?

  • How accurate do you think the movie is? Why might filmmakers have changed certain parts of the story?

What's the story?

What's the story?

Before he became an All-American college football star and an offensive tackle for the Baltimore Ravens, Michael Oher (Quinton Aaron) was a brawny-but-tender teen attending a Christian school in Memphis with no roof over his head or family to support him. In THE BLIND SIDE, he's soon befriended by S.J. and Collins Tuohy (Jae Head and Lily Collins), children of wealthy fast-food franchise owner Sean Tuohy (Tim McGraw) and his decorator wife Leigh Anne (Sandra Bullock). Leigh Anne makes it her mission to remake Michael's life, inviting him into the Tuohys' home and, later, into the family itself. A real future for Michael appears on the horizon in the form of football, a sport for which his build and protective instincts seem perfectly suited. But first he needs to get his grades up -- and his head in the game.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Based on a book by journalist Michael Lewis chronicling the real Oher’s experiences, The Blind Side manages to inspire despite its broad-strokes approach to characterization. Bullock’s winning effort paves the way; her Leigh Anne disarms both Oher and audiences despite a sassiness that edges on caricature -- there's real vulnerability behind Leigh Anne’s type-A façade. Aaron’s take on Oher is a little bit more textbook, but when he smiles, you forget for a moment that he’s playing a role and really imagine him as the young Oher, abandoned but not lost.

Director John Lee Hancock could have explored the challenges that Leigh Anne and Michael faced as they tried to meld their divergent backgrounds with more complexity. Did Oher have any doubts? Was everyone at the school really that embracing? Instead, Hancock goes for the superficial. But the film has plenty of heart, something Hancock appears to have a knack for (he also helmed The Rookie, an even more heartwarming drama based on a real-life athlete). Still, he’s in danger of too much sentimentality here -- that and condescension. The result is a straightforward and entertaining film, if you can ignore, yes, the blind spots.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Warner Bros.
Director: John Lee Hancock
Cast: Quinton Aaron, Sandra Bullock, Tim McGraw
Genre: Drama
Run time: 128 minutes
Theatrical release: November 20, 2009
DVD release: March 23, 2010
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: one scene involving brief violence, drug and sexual references
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What parents & educators say

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Based on 61 parent & educator reviews:
  • 77% say there are positive messages
  • 72% say there are positive role models
  • 26% say language is an issue

Most useful reviews by all members

The Golden Cat
teen, 13 years old
 
An Inspiring Movie
The Blind Side was a very touching movie filled with good messages and good role models, and the main character was truly inspiring. I would very much recommend this movie, though there is language and a scene of drug use, which might be inappropriate fr younger viewers. As a teen movie, for kids 11+, this movie rocks!

ZEBSMOM
parent of 7 , 9 , and 11 year old
 
Educational and powerful.
Okay, so going into this movie you should know that it is about REAL people and that their lives weren't easy - so that's where the warning for bad language, bad role models, sexual (very lightly) implied, and violence come from. I went into this film explaining to my child that some people actually live like this, and that this is their reality. I also hi-lighted the positive role models in Micheal Oher's story who "choose" to help him and therefore probably change the whole course of his life for the better. Positive message that one person can make a difference and by doing so make things better.

Rob79
parent of 12 year old
 
Inspirational story gets them to think
You have to make your own decision regarding what you child is ready to watch and there are scenes here that are tricky in terms of language and threats. But this is a great movie for getting kids to think about what they have compared to others who have less and how someone can make really a difference in another's life by doing the right thing. Parents should be aware that at the end of the movie, Leighanne makes a joking, but nonetheless verbally graphic, threat to Michael if he gets a girl pregnant in college that might be a little much for younger kids.

Spalko
teen, 14 years old
 
Maybe a little too heartwarming?
Inappropriate references in this movie that I noticed that you haven't put down. The family is a great role model though!

Volleyball9
kid, 12 years old
 
GREAT Review for a GREAT Movie
Love it, it is a movie that you just can't miss. This is a great story and the cast was perfect for the job. I think that the movie scent a great message that people from the Projects are just like people from the city, and anyone can accomplish anything! Exceptional Job, 2 thumbs up!

mngirl
teen, 14 years old
 
THE BEST MOVIE EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!
This movie really is THE BEST! No- its better than the best! Who is rating these movies? WHO???? ITS FIVE STARS! I loved it. I actually did cry and I laughed and it made me smile. But the people who rated this three stars ONLY, they have no heart! BEST MOVIE EVER! Thats a fact. There was a drug scene and lots of language, but it was amazing! An AWESOME family movie for parents who have tweens and teens. It's my favorite movie ever!

hagrid21
kid, 13 years old
 
An Emotional Football Film
I never got a chance to see The Blind Side in theater, and watched it On Demand. It was amazing. Leigh Ann teaches pre-teens and teens some lessons, and there is an abundance of good role models in this movie. However, there are some not-so-good people in this movie. Michael's mom is a crack addict...which would go way over kids' heads. There is some violence at a gang hang-out, involving guns and fistfights. Michael's flashbacks may be scary for some kids, too. There are some sexual references that some kids would not understand. There is language, too, that includes a-words, b-words, d and h words. Michael gets into a car crash with S.J. and they show S.J. with blood on his shirt who makes a funny comment about it. This is an inspirational movie that all of the family should see.

Tanya Fox
parent of 6 and 11 year old
 
Good for the whole family
We watched this as a family with my 6-year-old daughter and 10-year-old son. Yes there were minimal disturbing scenes, but overall it was a great family film (very good messages). As far as the cussing, my kids know the words and know not to use them. That is not a huge issue for us. I thought the (very short) scene of Michael going back to hang with his old friends and acquaintances in a gang den was a good way to show what can happen when people choose the wrong friends. Things can get ugly & violent fast with people of low character. Kids need to know this. Whether you show them in a movie now or later is up to you. So for our family, it was a good discussion to have. The only reason Michael got out alive was he was so HUGE to overpower the people (armed with guns) in the room. And the couple kissing each other were the married couple (not the end of the world). Overall, great film, but you have to decide for yourself what your kids threshold is.

sunshinecircle123
teen, 14 years old
 
Moving!
im not bothered by the drinking, violence and language-in fact that is what makes the drama and emotions so amazing!! although some kids might be scared, it sort of depends on what your parents want you exposed to, not really age. it was very moving and such great actors! tim mcgraw and sandra bullock were amazing as parents! leigh anne and michael (big mike) are the main focus of the movie. there is some racist content, but in a way that people can learn from. its very, very good. my family bought it right away!! thumbs up from me, along with the country! great for all families :)

Did_Cavemen_ha ...
teen, 15 years old
 
Awesome Movie!
This movie was great! I loved it. Nothing negative; the violence was either self-defense or football. Michael was wanting to remain passive, so he was a good role model in my eyes, plus he was honest. The positive message was about Michael's success with all his scholarships he got. Language isn't so much an issue; bad words are talked about as bad in the actual movie too, and just about everyone 10 and older most likely knows what us males have between our legs, so it's not very innapropriate. I liked the movie alot even though I quit football a few years ago since i had thought it was violent (even though i laughed at some of my injuries to make my teammates feel better if they knocked me over), but just because i don't love football doesnt mean I did not love the movie. It was great for just about everyone.

Moviefreak124
teen, 16 years old
 
Best movie of 09 Sandra Bullock Deserved the oscar win
This was the probaly the best movie of 09 with the likes of Mr,fantastic Fox.It is trulay a sad movie.One last point Sandra Bullock deserved the oscar win.

Aio
adult
 
very nice movie
has very positive message, teaching kids good values, recommend the movie for kids instead of them watching nonsense shows like "Hannah Montana"

Peter Dragon
parent of and 4 , 9 , 12 year old
 
Great movie with great discussion topics
I took my 11 and 7 year old girls to see this. Our family's well off in many ways and I often tell my children how lucky they are to have all the gifts that they have. This movie helped them to see the other side of life - about poverty, racism, life as a minority, etc, but also about the qualities of perseverance, hard work and sacrifice. My 7 year old found it intense in a couple places and there were some things that went over her head, but she really liked it. Knowing it was a true story made it even better.

angel6757
teen, 14 years old
 
The was a lot better and more entertaining than i thought it was going to be. The movie wasn't slow at all and was a mild but very powerful PG-13. The Blind Side delivers a pack of good messages like helping others in need, not giving up, forgiving, and the most important one is let go of the past and move onto the future. Besides this there some iffy content involving: some rough play on the football field (which may incoradge this kind of behavior to young boys as appropreate or cool.) , There is also a very tense scene where someone almost gets shot and there is lots of yelling and fighting (which kids under the age of 11 really shouldent see,) , On top of that there is some iffy language and some mild sexual and drug refrences. But even with all this the blind is a wonderful inspiring film for kids ages 12 and up.

1coolbob
teen, 14 years old
 
tweens and above
I loved this movie. its like the best story ever. but there is a little cursing and some mild talk about "sex". there is also many gangs show. there is always some kind of alcohol in their hands. this looks like a boring movie but don't judge. its great. little ones probably shouldn't go to this one.

Meow314159
teen, 15 years old
 
Great Messages and Role Models
Really Good Movie. It's about a lady who does what she thinks is right by taking care of a boy who doesn't have an education or a place to live, no matter what people think. She adopts him and he joins her family. This is an amazing movie and it shows the good that people can do.

kidsaredominat ...
teen, 14 years old
 
Great movie some violence but otherwise its great.
I saw this with my dad and LOVED it. It is a great movie and dosent have too much violence. However it has some swearing and slight sexual content and violence such as someone being rammed into a wall in football. But the main character always does the right things. P.S SJ was hilarious!

mnmwagoner
parent of 7 and 11 year old
 
Great example of doing the right thing
Although there were concerns, as there are in any movie based upon a true story, my wife and I absolutely enjoyed this movie. It was a heart-warming reminder that in a world of racism, injustice, and government led poverty, there are still people out there who love others in spite of their own views, socio-economic background, or race. Of course, this movie had some really good football shots which touched my Neanderthal side. There's just nothing like football! The major concern I have is with stereotypes. In this movie any person of affluence is white. To my knowledge there were only two persons of color in any position of positive influence. My hope is that this is to better represent the world Michael Oher found himself in with "White Walls." No movie can touch on every subject and do it justice. This was a good representation, and hopefully quite accurate, of a kid with a need that was met by a person willing to think outside the box of her own upbringing and influences.

readyourheartout
teen, 14 years old
 
Great movie, A must watch
When i saw the preview, the first thing that popped out of my head was "watch the movie asap" and i did. i have to say that it has loads of suspense, and it was very touching. i just love it

 
One of the Finest Films I Have Ever Seen
This is a gorgeous movie. The acting, the story, and the direction, can be summed up in just four syllables: unmissable. Every actor was terrific and the story played out very well. I must be honest, I am not usually into these uplifting dramas (when I want to be cheered up, I usually go for a heartfelt comedy), but my friends really wanted me to see this, so I did, and I am glad I did. This is a remarkable film. PARENTS: there are some scenes of intense violence, including a car crash, a fight including gunfire, and football action. there are also both sexual and drug references, and plenty of language, ranging from mild to racially strong. I am surprised at the MPAA for its lack of film rating description. If I were to rate it, I would put PG-13 for some Violence, Language, Sexual and Drug References. Anyway, I absolutely recommend this uplifting film (P.S., it's not a football movie; it has football, but it's not a football movie). Thanks for reading - Movie Man

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