Parents' Guide to The Blind Side

Movie PG-13 2009 128 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 11+

Syrupy sports drama uplifts but glosses over deep issues.

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Why Age 11+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 10+

Based on 70 parent reviews

age 11+

Based on 225 kid reviews

Kids say this movie is an inspirational and heartwarming depiction of a true story that showcases themes of kindness, family bonds, and overcoming adversity. While the film carries positive messages and emotional depth, viewers should be aware of some inappropriate language and intense scenes, making it more suitable for older kids and teenagers.

  • true story
  • family bonds
  • heartwarming
  • positive messages
  • emotional depth
  • suitable for teens
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What's the Story?

THE BLIND SIDE is a biographical film about Michael Oher (Quinton Aaron), following him as he goes from being a misunderstood teen to becoming an All-American college football star and an offensive tackle for the Baltimore Ravens. While attending a Christian school in Memphis as an unhoused person with no family support, Michael is befriended by S.J. and Collins Tuohy (Jae Head and Lily Collins), the children of wealthy decorator Leigh Anne (Sandra Bullock) and her fast-food franchise owner husband, Sean Tuohy (Tim McGraw). Leigh Anne makes it her mission to care for Michael, inviting him to live in the Tuohys' home and, later, become an official member of the family. A real future for Michael appears on the horizon in the form of football. But first, he needs to get his grades up -- and his head in the game.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 70 ):
Kids say ( 225 ):

Based on a book about football strategy written by journalist Michael Lewis that included stories about Oher's experiences, this film intends to inspire but falls into stereotypes left and right. Bullock's winning effort paves the way in The Blind Side; her Leigh Anne disarms both Michael and audiences despite a level of sass that edges on caricature. Aaron's take on Michael is a little bit more textbook, but when he smiles, you forget for a moment that he's playing a role and really imagine him as the young Oher, quiet and thoughtful but not lost.

Director John Lee Hancock could have explored the challenges that Leigh Anne and Michael faced as they tried to meld their divergent backgrounds with more complexity. Did Oher have any doubts? Was everyone at the school really that embracing? Instead, Hancock goes for the superficial. He's in danger of too much sentimentality here -- that and condescension about racial prejudice and economic barriers. Even if you come in knowing nothing about Oher's real-world petition, which states that the Tuohys took advantage of him, the movie itself is a straightforward and entertaining film, if you can ignore its blind spots.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what motivates Leigh Anne to welcome Michael into her home in The Blind Side. Was it a purely selfless move? Why does she later say that he changed her life (and not the other way around)?

  • Why does Michael trust the Tuohys? What appeals to him about them? Does the movie adequately address the skepticism and prejudice that Michael and the Tuohys faced when they became a family?

  • The real Michael Oher has claimed that the Tuohys never intended to adopt him and instead just wanted to profit from him. Does this change how you see the film? Did the Tuohys "rescue" Michael, or did he change his own life?

  • What are some issues about how Black vs. White people are portrayed in the story? How are stereotypes damaging?

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