Parents' Guide to Of Boys and Men

Movie PG-13 2011 86 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Joly Herman By Joly Herman , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Emotional exploration of manhood and loss of a parent.

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age 9+

Based on 2 parent reviews

What's the Story?

Z Cole (Dante Boens) and his family suffer an extremely painful loss, and everything seems to fall apart at once. His father (Robert Townsend) is trying to be strong for the family, but the cracks around the edges begin to show. Luckily, Z's Aunt Janay (Victoria Rowell) is there to anchor the home with her indomitable female presence. But Z is still forced to make some very difficult choices concerning his friendships and his future as a man.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say : Not yet rated

Tearjerker alert: This is a two-hanky movie that attempts to do a lot in the time allotted. You could say that the family's personal struggle would be enough to engross the audience without having to get involved in child abuse issues happening in other homes. And there are some real moments of honesty and strength between a grieving father and his tender kids here. But there are also cliches that mar the purity of the emotion.

This tribute to Chicago's West Side would have benefited from a little giddy-up in its pacing. Some dialogue drags and distracts from what's interesting. And there's a sense that the producers are giving Chicago a mini-tribute, much as Baltimore was romanced in The Wire. But this tribute feels a little bit forced, even though some of the neighborhood scenes feel real. Not a movie for young or sensitive viewers, as there are some references to sexual abuse that are vague enough to cause confusion.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about respect. What is it? What isn't it? Is Z being disrespectful when he speaks his mind to his father? Where's the line?

  • Talk about the drugs and alcohol in the movie. What role do these substances play in the story? Teens: Do the kids' experiences with drugs resonate with you?

  • Z's father talks on a cell phone when he's driving. Got tips for him? How about having the driver pull over when he or she needs to make a call?

Movie Details

  • On DVD or streaming : January 25, 2011
  • Cast : Angela Bassett , Robert Townsend , Victoria Rowell
  • Director : Carl Seaton
  • Inclusion Information : Black Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s) , Black Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Warner Home Video
  • Genre : Drama
  • Run time : 86 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : thematic material and brief drug use
  • Last updated : March 14, 2020

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