This is perfect for older teens that love Adam Sandler. I have always loved him and this is just one of the many movies that he's good in. It gives a positive message about not wasting away life and to spend your life being with family and to cherish moments. Even though this is no surprise, this being an Adam Sandler movie, there's lots of sexual humor, a couple sexual scenes, and this movie has really bad language. I put that messages aren't positive and that they are because Michael (Adam Sandler) is very self absorbed and doesn't care about spending time with his family. He doesn't have any respect for the children next door, and is constantly throughout the movie making fun of them. The kids are mean to his kids, but it isn't a positive message. Even though at the end of the movie he realizes how much you should cherish life, which is a positive message. The role models aren't good either.