Diary of a Mad Black Woman

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Syrupy drama -- not much here for kids.
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie includes painful confrontations, violence (including shooting and assault), drinking, drug use, and sexual references. One strength of the movie is its unabashed portrayal of religious conviction as a mainstay for believers. Another is its depiction of the careful consideration and commitment that should be involved in deciding when to become sexually involved. The movie also benefits from its portrayal of strong and devoted women and African-American characters

  • Some violence, including a shooting, domestic violence.
  • Sexual references and situations, adultery, out of wedlock children.
  • Some tough and mean language.

What's the story?

Helen (Kimberly Elise) understands that her wealthy husband Charles (Steve Harris) is all about surfaces; she is less aware of that quality in herself. He wins a prestigious attorney-of-the-year award and thanks her from the podium. When they are alone, however, he is cruel, rejecting her offer of a romantic evening and reminding her that he owns everything and she has nothing. Charles has cut her off from everyone and kept her inside the ostentatiously luxurious mansion like a princess in a tower. Charles hires a truck to load Helen's things and move her out of the house so that his mistress and their children can move in. Helen has nowhere to go. The handsome and sympathetic truck driver, Orlando (Shemar Moore), tries to help, but Helen is so angry and terrified she cannot accept it. Finally, she goes to her outspoken but generous-hearted grandmother, Madea, played by writer/producer Tyler Perry. Perry also plays Madea's salty brother-in-law and Helen's saintly cousin Brian.


Is it any good?

 

Helen has to deconstruct her life and rebuild from the inside out. She gets a job as a waitress and visits her mother (Cecily Tyson) in a nursing home. She is at first angry with Orlando, then too proud to accept his help and unable to believe that any man could be good to her, but finally ready to give and accept love. Then Charles comes back into her life. This time he needs her. Helen has to decide what she wants and who she is. But DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOMAN never decides what it wants and what it is. It tries to have it both ways, asking us to root for Helen when she is a pious victim and a, well, "mad black woman." It teeters unsteadily between crude humor and soulful faith.

Elise is a lovely actress who looks exquisite as she suffers and she makes the most of the soapy melodrama. Moore is an appealing knight in shining armor and Tyson, as always, adds some class. Perry's wild caricature of a drag performance as Madea seems to be from an entirely different movie. If the movie had been written by white people, the portrayal would have been called racist, sexist, and just plain embarrassing. Perry's old man is a one-joke dud, but his role as Brian shows some presence and conviction. One-note characters like the crack addict and the drug dealer probably worked better on stage but just seem cardboard-y on screen. Helen's next diary entry just might be to wish for a better script.


What families can talk about

Families can talk about why Helen was willing to give up so much of herself for Charles.


This review was written by Nell Minow
Kid, 13 years old
September 4, 2010
 
I love this movie. Tyler Perry is good at drama and comedy. Madea is a funny character that sometimes has bad messages and sometimes good. The only bad things are a man kicks a woman out of their house, some sexual references and drug references. 9+ even though I watched it when I was 6

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Teen, 14 years old
November 20, 2009
 
GREAT MOVIE!
This is a brilliant movie!! Dont listen to that review. IT IS DEFINETELY NOT FOR JUST 15+! There is just some drug use. Good for 12+. Best Tyler Perry movie.

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Kid, 12 years old
March 12, 2011
 
YAWN
I don't like Tyler Perrys!!

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Adult
April 9, 2008
 
TYLER PERRY'S DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOMAN- ****
I have just watched 'Tyler Perry's Diary of a Mad Black Woman' over my friends house and I must say, it was very enjoyable. Kimberly Elise was tremendous the the title's Mad Black Woman- Helen, and Mr. Perry is hilarious as Madea. I would recommend this hilarious and heartbreaking film to mature teens and most adults. *pc795

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Teen, 16 years old
April 9, 2008
 
Had it's Ups and Down
Rating: Pause for 14 and up. This movie starts out with the picture perfect couple, but as it says, looks can be decieving. The husband has been cheating on the wife and litterally throws her out. She goes to stay with a family relative, Madea. Then, also still dealing with drama and serious topics, it starts to become a comedy. This continues for a while, and then tapers back into a drama. The movie features, strong women, and mainly African-Americans. They use sexuality for humor and for serious dramatic parts, too. Such as: (Comedy)Madea: "You had sex with him whenever he wanted. Was it good?" Helen: "No." Madea: "Major deduction." Also, drugs are a serious topic, and there is someone smoking in almost every scene. The violence is 'iffy'. The husband abuses Helen, and so on. Overall, this movie was good, but maybe when the kids are in bed!

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Kid, 12 years old
January 31, 2012
 
diary of a mad black women
i think its a really good and funny movie by tyler perry all his movies are good i especially love madea

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This review was written by Nell Minow
Studio:Lionsgate
Director:Darren Grant
Cast:Kimberly Elise, Shemar Moore, Tyler Perry
Genre:Drama
Run time:98 minutes
Theatrical release date:February 25, 2005
DVD release date:June 28, 2005
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:drug content, thematic elements, crude sexual references and some violence

This review was written by Nell Minow
 

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