Gone with the Wind (NR, 1939)

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Still one of Hollywood's best sweeping epics.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this epic drama, which is widely considered one of the top movies of all time, would never be rated G by today's standards. The film centers around the Civil War-torn South and includes several scenes of war-related violence, such as wounded soldiers dying, and Scarlett O'Hara shooting a Union deserter. The sexuality isn't as overt as in contemporary movies, but it's still pervasive, as Scarlett is clearly a bold, sexually attractive woman who manipulates men with her looks. Additionally, there are several kisses (a few very passionate ones), a scene that implies a husband has forced his wife to go to bed with him, and even the inclusion of a minor character who is a good-hearted "lady of the night." The alcohol and cigar use is also frequent, although mostly because there are so many parties in the movie. Parents should be aware that the depiction of African Americans is problematic and stereotypical -- the slaves seem to actually enjoy their lot and are either superficial and ignorant or fussy and smothering. It may concern some parents that the Confederate South is portrayed as having been a place of gentility and charm.

Positive messages: The movie suggests that the genteel, slave-holding, plantation-owning way of life that is "gone with the wind" is worth romanticizing. Yes, Hattie McDaniel won an Oscar for her portrayal, but the African Americans in the movie are all slaves and act stereotypically and as if they actually enjoyed their servitude. Scarlett can be manipulative and at times acts in a way many would find wrong (marrying for convenience, kissing a married man).
Positive role models: Scarlett is fierce, determined, and ambitious, but she's also vain, selfish, manipulative, and unkind. The real role model in the film is Melanie, who is the epitome of selflessness and grace, even after it's clear Scarlett is in love with her husband.
Violence: The movie revolves around the Civil War, and there is a great deal of overt and implied violence, although sans the gratuitous depictions common in contemporary movies. Wounded soliders are screaming, needing amputations, and dying in tent hospitals. Union officers cruelly light fire to Atlanta. Scarlett shoots a bloodied Union deserter and then drags his body away. Scarlett falls down the stairs and loses a pregnancy. A child dies after a horseback-riding accident. Rhett handles Scarlett roughly and makes a comment about wanting to tear her apart. Men try to steal Scarlett's carriage, causing her to almost falls off a bridge.
Sex: Scarlett uses her sexual attractiveness ALL of the time to get her way, and flirts with many men, even married ones like Ashley. She often dresses in what was considered provacatively at the time (cleavage-bearing dresses with a supertight corset). There are a few kisses, and one scene that implies a husband has forced himself on his wife; it will go over kids' heads, but a drunk Rhett roughly carries Scarlett to her bedroom, and the next morning she is extremely happy and relaxed. Bell is a "lady of the night," in other words, one of the original "hookers with a heart of gold."
Language: Probably the most famous "damn" in all of movie history.
Consumerism: Not applicable.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Adults drink often, although usually at parties (wine, champagne, and brandy). Scarlett and her father drink whiskey. Rhett gets drunk on occasion, and in one scene three men pretend they're drunk to avoid confrontation. Rhett and other Southern gentleman smoke cigars throughout the movie.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about how the Civil War is portrayed via the character of Scarlett O'Hara. How does the war affect her way of life? Does living through war change her personality, or does she remain the same throughout?
  • Scarlett is married several times for different reasons. Was marriage her only option at the time? What is different about her marriages to Charles, Frank, and then Rhett? Which of her marriages means the most to her and why?
  • Melanie is Scarlett's opposite in most ways. How do their personalities, values, and behavior differ? Why does Melanie forgive Scarlett over and over again?
  • How are African Americans depicted in the movie? Would the portrayal of Civil War-era slavery be different if this 1939 movie were remade today?

What's the story?

What's the story?
GONE WITH THE WIND is an epic melodarama  that chronicles the Civil War from the point of view of a Scarlett O'Hara (Vivien Leigh), a glamourous, unstoppable Southern belle. Just before the outbreak of war, the pampered and beautiful Scarlett, whose family plantation is called Tara, attends a ball where she discovers her object of affection Ashley Wilkes (Leslie Howard) is engaged to his cousin Melanie (Olivia de Havilland). In a fit of jealousy, Scarlett accepts a proposal from Melanie's brother but not before she meets the dashing Rhett Butler (Clark Gable), who can't keep his eyes off of her. Widowed shortly after the War begins, a "mourning" Scarlett once again meets Rhett at a dance but goes on to marry a businessman she doesn't love in order to keep Tara. As the war takes a heavy toll, Scarlett and Melanie must deal with the near-destruction of everything and everyone around them, including Tara. Scarlett eventually marries Rhett, who fears she continues to harbor not-so-secret feelings for Ashley, and they have a daughter together. Tragedies continue to befall the Butlers, and their marriage is tested again and again.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Victor Fleming could have retired after 1939 and he'd still be lauded for having directed (or at least finished directing) two of the most important movies of the 20th century -- Gone With the Wind and The Wizard of Oz, both of which turned 70 in 2009. Both films are considered among the best of the best, ranking in the top 10 in Greatest of All Time lists, and both films are a pleasure to see multiple times, preferably at various points in a person's life, to truly appreciate. A tween taking in all four (!) hours of Leigh and Gable might focus on the costumes and war and tune out the sexism and slavery of the time period depicted, while an older teen might hone in on the swoon-inducing romance (even current movie gods like Clooney and Pitt have nothing on Gable), whereas a parent might be less sympathetic to Scarlett and favor Melanie's quiet strength instead. There's a reason the Hollywood adaptation of a Southern saga won 9 Academy Awards and is still commemorated seen decades later -- it's got it all: drama, violence, intrigue, romance (even sex, although it takes grown-up eyes to spot it), historical importance, a timeless score, and an amazing cast.

If you can forgive the stereotypical depiction of slaves, and the general romanticizing of the antebellum South, the two main reasons to keep watching Gone With the Wind are Leigh and Gable. Actors who want a master class in chemistry should be forced to study how their scenes together. Leigh, an Englishwoman, is effortless in her portrayal of a gorgeous, manipulative Atlanta socialite, and Gable, with the briefest of smoldering looks, could level an entire theater-full of women. The supporting cast is also remarkable, as is the cinematography and the costume design (the unforgettable  green-velvet dress made from curtains). It's difficult to imagine families sitting down for a four-hour film -- especially one without hobbits, Transformers, or wizards -- but Gone With the Wind is worth the long evening in, especially the 2009 four-disc, Blu-Ray collectors' edition, which includes nearly 20 hours worth of extras, celebrating everything from Hollywood's golden year 1939 to a first-person interview with de Havilland about working on the film opposite film legends. 

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Warner Bros.
Director: Victor Fleming
Cast: Clark Gable, Hattie McDaniel, Vivien Leigh
Genre: Classic
Run time: 238 minutes
Theatrical release: December 15, 1939
DVD release: November 17, 2009
MPAA Rating: NR

This review was written by Sandie Angulo Chen
 
 

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jwrakosy
parent of 12 year old
 
Excellent movie! I saw it when I was 10, 39 years ago, but didn't get some parts like the 'ladies of the night'. I think is not appropiate for kids under 13 for that reason. On other matters, such as Rhett going to the bar and drinking, it is something that parents could talk to their kids. In addition, I remember the Scarlet's maid being happy, so I couldn't understand why the North was interfering with the South. Again, I was only 10 and grew up in SouthAmerica so didn't know about the USA history. It was a long movie, 4 hours, but that didn't bother me; however, being a girl I expected a happy ending.

 
Great movie
I love this epic movie. I think, honestly, it will put most kids to sleep. The hospital scene with wounded soldiers might make it a bit much for younger/more sensitive kids, but it's historically significant and very well acted. Scarlett is a pretty bad character in a lot of ways, but that plays into the historical aspect, so you might want to touch on those issues after viewing.

 

BestPicture1996
teen, 16 years old
 
Couldn't find a better old movie except "Rebecca"
I literally looked for things I didn't like about "Wind," but I COULD NOT FIND ANYTHING WRONG. All the characters are brilliantly portrayed, and you start to feel their pain after a while. Everything's over-the-top drama, but that's what makes it unique, and it's plot and length (nearly 4 hrs.) make it totally unrepeatable.

kitty-yellow12
kid, 13 years old
 
i do like this make me feel go to sleep becaues very bad do watch it is so bad

Jennybug
teen, 17 years old
 
Its a classic and everyone knows it!
Gone with the Wind is amazing! I would definiatly recommend this for anyone over the age of 8. But I would also explain to smaller children what is happening and relate the movie to other historical information. This movie is a classic and one of its time. I personally Love Gone with the Wind and hope you do too!

ccbluebonnet
teen, 15 years old
 
perfect for teens and tweens alike
I love this movie. I think that the message of the characters for slavery is the only bad message throughout the movie and book. I think the scene where they were saying they were going to cut the guys legs off and then the man screaming was kind of...well...ugg. But overall the movie was a fantastic classic I can watch over and over again.

PYEsinc
teen, 14 years old
 
The Greatest Classic Ever, But I Recommend It Be For Teens And Above
There is a lot of kissing, and it shows Scarlett cutting a newborn's umbilical cord with scissors, which is pretty disgusting. The whole movie is about war, and in one scene, Scarlett shoots a man in the face. He falls down the stairs, and you cannot see his facial features because of all the blood. Also, some may not like it because it is split into two parts, and it is exactly 3 hours, 59 minutes long. NOTE: It is rated G, but if they had PG-13 back then, it would definitely be rated PG-13.

babegirl16
teen, 17 years old
 
it's a good movie...younger childeren may not need to see it. It gives them an idea about sex,kissing, and drugs. Mabey alittle older though!! other than that..GREAT!!

MovieFan777
teen, 16 years old
 
The Most Magnificent Motion Picture Ever!!!
Gone With the Wind is a beautiful piece of film history that is truly a pleasure to watch. Everything about it is just so grand! Plus, personally I love the length of the film, because the film is so superb you want to enjoy it as long as possible! But there is quite a bit of violence in it, this should be expected sense it is an epic war drama.

Smarty1999
kid, 13 years old
 
A MUST SEE
i first wathced this movie when i was 8 and i fell in love with the story. Now i'm begging my mom to get me the book! The main character is a brat who thinks that she loves Ashley (boy) but in the end she finds out that she really loves Red Butler. It gives a good background on the Confederate point of view on the war and the descruction and cuelity the Civil War was. I love this classic.

brisbane123
kid, 13 years old
 
I Love GWTW!
I love it! I stayed up when I was eight years old with mum to watch it, and cried my eyes out when Bonnie died. I watch it ow with my two sisters, and it is all o ours favorite movie!

LB2010
parent of 7 year old
 
A favorite through the decades
This 61 year old movie has lived through some major societal changes. Not to mention that if Scarlett and Rhett were alive today, their attitudes towards women and African Americans would be received with scorn and contempt by most Americans. That said, this movie still portrays attitudes towards African Americans in a very stereotypical and negative manner. Even Hattie McDaniel (who played Mammy) thanked the Academy when she won the 1939 Oscar by saying "I sincerely hope I shall always be a credit to my race." The distinction between the races was definitely a product of both the 1930s and Civil War times, but fast-forward 60 years and it is painful to watch, hard to swallow down. I watched this movie when I was 12. What I most remember was that I immediately developed a huge crush on Clark Gable. I loved the pageantry and the drama of this Old South movie. In my foolish 12-yr-old way I wished we could all still wear hoop skirts and corsets because they were so princessy. It took me 20 years before I started to see the movie differently. For years I never realized that the scene where Rhett forcefully carries Scarlett upstairs implied he raped her, and that it was ghastly to imply she loved it. For years I never realized that the movie showed that Honorable Ashley and the gang went out as the KKK to "clean out the woods" where Scarlett had been attacked. The opening scene I used to find so dreamy I now find obnoxious: "Here was the last ever to be seen of ...Master and of Slave. Look for it only in books, for it is no more than a dream remembered, a Civilization gone with the wind." It's an incredible book and a beautiful movie, though flawed by today's standards. I would probably wait until my daughter is 12 before she watches it. I appreciate the "family discussion questions" that this website suggests.

Tsion
parent of 15 year old
 
An Amazing, Fulfilling Film Epic...A True Masterpiece!
GONE WITH THE WIND is most famously known as a love story between Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh. What you might not know is that Leigh's character, Scarlett O'Hara, has three husbands over the course of the movie. Now her passion with Gable doesn't sound so "true love"-like, does it? What the film is really about is a Southern belle coming of age and learning of life during the tribulating times of the Civil War. She learns that she can use her sexuality to manipulate men, and she uses her charms and quick intellect to claw her way through the War and its aftermath. However, she also learns by the end of the movie that manipulative people don't get true love (hence: "Frankly my dear, I just don't give a d@mn"). The "G" rating is misleading, as it was given in 1939. The film is quite violent. While only one scene is graphic (a Yankee deserter being shot in the face. There's a brief explosion of blood.), there are many tense scenes revolving around the loss of loved ones and the dashing of dreams by reality. Some images (such as the burning of Atlanta) may be frightening for young kids. There is no actual sexual content, but some discussions revolve around that topic without mentioning it (they had to meet 30's decency standards). Through all of her husbands, Scarlett really only loves one man who always eludes her, and at one point she kisses him passionately, though he's married. After having her first child, Scarlett decides she doesn't want to get pregnant any more (to keep her waist as small as can be), so she informs her husband that she will be locking her bedroom door. This infuriates him, so, one night, he carries her up to his room (presumably for sex). The next morning, she is happy that he did. It may seem to some viewers that Rhett's controlling nature towards Scarlett is abusive. While such behavior would be deemed unacceptable today, kids should know that males were usually the dominant partner in old relationships, and while such attitude is sexist and wrong, Rhett would never hurt Scarlett.

Lindsayphoto
teen, 18 years old
 
I LOVE this movie! It's so beautiful and full of color. It's about 4 hours long and my sisters didn't want to watch this because they thought that it look boring and that it was too long. And about the sexual parts, it will just go over the kids head. And there not as much violence in this movie.(The violences in this movie is much more mild then some of todays movies.) :D:D

Andrew2011
kid, 12 years old
 
A Classic, Long, Epic.
This film, like said, would absolutely never be rated G by today's standards. It is very romantic in some parts. Any film that's about a love story in the midst of the Civil War would never be G now. That said, it is a masterpiece that most older kids would actually be O.K. with watching, as long as they were patient (considering the nearly four-hour length).

ALGLTG09
kid, 13 years old
 
any age!
It's very long, so young kids will probably fall asleep. you know, every little thing in the movie they put down. it's fine! your kids won't even think about it!

 
Great Adult Movie - Okay for Some Kids
It's an awesome movie that I've loved since I was a kid. It has everything love, action, suspense ect... It's an adult movie so it may be a bit heavy for some children who haven't been exposed to any sort of violence.

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