The Heartbreak Kid (2007) (R, 2007)

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Hard-R Farrelly bros. remake offers crude laughs.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this hard-R comedy about a man who pursues another woman three days into his marriage (and doesn't seem to see a problem in that) will appeal to teens who love the Farrelly brothers and Ben Stiller, but the material is decidedly adult. There's enough sexual banter and outright nudity to make anyone blush: A couple is shown a number of times in non-traditional positions, with the woman shouting out orders about what the man should do to pleasure her; a man is said to have placed a married woman's hand on his genitals; a septuagenarian is shown in a hot tub with a much younger woman, with her massively implanted breasts bobbing in the water; etc.. Plus, there's profanity galore (from the usual suspects like "f--k" and "s--t" to some pretty imaginative combinations of those two and lots of their buddies), lots of drinking, and a pot-smoking scene.

Positive messages: A married man cheats on his wife within days of the wedding; his bride, on the other hand, appears to morph into a horrid version of herself within the same amount of time (it turns out that she's been somewhat misrepresenting the truth); characters do drugs, act dopey, hit each other, threaten bodily harm, etc.
Violence: A man bludgeons another man's legs with a baseball bat; some slapping during sex; some police brutality -- but it's all played for laughs.
Sex: Lots of innuendoes and discussions about sex (one character calls sex "crushing p---y"); a few scenes in which bare breasts are flashed during sex, with a couple shown in awkward positions; in one envelope-pushing scene, a woman urinates on a man, and her private parts (or what looks like them) are shown in close-up.
Language: Strong and frequent. Words include: "damn," "c--t," "a--hole," "s--t" and "f--k," and various combos of them all.
Consumerism: Signs of touristy things to do at the Mexican resort; characters sing recognizable lyrics to songs loudly as they drive in the car; some liquor bottles are prominently displayed, as is the cover of a porno movie.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Much vacation drinking (tequila shots, champagne, cocktails) and one scene in which a couple shares marijuana.

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Talk to your kids
Families can talk about why comedies like this one seem to target younger viewers (particularly teens), even though much of the subject matter skews older. Teens: Why do you want to see this movie? What makes these "over the top" comedies funny? (Or, if you're not a fan, what makes them unfunny?) Are the extreme sight gags necessary? Or have we become used to them and therefore immune to their impact? Is that good or bad? Families can also discuss who exactly the movie is making fun of -- is it just Ben Stiller's character, or men in general? What of the women -- do they fare any better in the gender wars?

What's the story?

What's the story?
In the Farrelly brothers' remake of Elaine May's 1972 film, San Francisco sporting-goods-store owner Eddie Cantrow (Ben Stiller) is 40 and single and desperately lonely. After attending his ex-fiancée's wedding, he's goaded into throwing caution into the wind and marries Lila (Malin Akerman), a stunning environmentalist he meets while trying to stop a mugger who steals her purse. But while on their honeymoon in Mexico, Eddie realizes that Lila may not be the dream girl he envisioned her to be -- an epiphany that's made more complicated by his growing attraction to Miranda (Michelle Monaghan), a fellow vacationer who may in fact be the true woman of his dreams.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
On its own merits, The Heartbreak Kid is an entertaining-enough comedy, with a decent dose of laughs. Silly/extreme sight gags are particularly plentiful. But the film can't be judged purely on its own merits, because it's a remake. While the Farrellys have changed their version enough to make it different, they chose not to change the title -- and maybe they should have, because their film just doesn't compare to the 1972 version. Whereas the original was layered, the new movie stays as close to the surface as can be, content to make viewers laugh not at the human condition but at whatever gross-out moment is unwinding onscreen. A crucial scene in which the husband breaks off with his new bride -- which put the heartbreak in the original film -- lacks punch here, diluted with yet another gag. And while May's movie ends on a wistful, almost painful note that immediately shifts everything that came before it into brilliance; the Farrellys just try to get away with one more joke (bitter as it may be).

All of that said, the new Heartbreak Kid does have Stiller, who rises to the occasion once more, never overplaying a scene; the same is true for his dad, Jerry Stiller, who plays Eddie's pervy-but-supportive father in the movie. (Akerman seems to be channeling Cameron Diaz, to some success, and Monaghan's passable.) Still, the Stillers alone aren't enough to buoy this film to There's Something About Mary greatness. Since that movie was released in 1998, Judd Apatow has arrived on the scene and, in a way, proceeded to out-Farrelly the Farrellys. Maybe that's part of the problem. When the big moment (involving a Man o' War and a bodily function) arrives in the end, we're not shocked enough. Nor are we laughing out loud.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Paramount Pictures
Director: Bobby Farrelly, Peter Farrelly
Cast: Ben Stiller, Jerry Stiller, Michelle Monaghan
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 116 minutes
Theatrical release: October 4, 2007
DVD release: December 26, 2007
MPAA Rating: R
MPAA explanation: strong sexual content, crude humor, language, and a scene of drug use involving a minor.
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BestPicture1996
teen, 16 years old
 
Very crude
Stiller is good in almost everything (Tropic Thunder, Night at the Museum, etc.) he stars in, but this remake doesn't get out alot of belly laughs, it's more just entertaining to see what the poor schmuck is going to do next.

Scream
kid, 12 years old
 
OK.
It May Be Crude, but theres nothing really bad in this movie. Ben Stillers Hilarious.

Cholee
parent of 2 and 4 year old
 
DEFINITELY view it before letting your kids
there are numerous scenes that deal with sex, sex talk, drugs, alcohol ect. But then parts that shocked/bothered/embarrassed me the most were 2 scene with the donkey. One is an donkey shown with erect genatalia ( might have been a fake plastic prop on the donkey but still...) and a after credit scene where it is heavily implied that the main female had just finished an act of beastiality. Both scenes are relativley short but enough for me. I was very embarrassed watching this movie with my mother and boyfriend and I am 23 years old!!!!! Some teenagers may be mature enough to handle so watch it before they do and then you can decide for your self

zink340
teen, 18 years old
 

DeagleD
teen, 16 years old
 
Really funny, but dirty...
This movie is a riot, but the concern of this review is the content. I strongly question Commonsense's judgement if they think There's Something about Mary is +17 when this movie gets +16. Mary has strong innuendos and a very brief nudity, but The Heartbreak Kid has MUCH worse. There are two (nude) sex scenes which are almost pornographic, a scene where a woman pees on a man, and a brief hot tub nude scene. The movie has strong language, a use of c***, and several uses of f*** and s***. Overall, though, it all depends on what you are allowed to watch. There is sex scenes, nudity, strong language, and brief drug use. If you can watch it, I highly recommend it.

 
Vulgar disgusting could be funny without the vulgar
Do not watch this with children. Ben stiller is so much better than this. Why all the vulgarity?

 
Terrible
I had the "great" opportunity of seeing good luck chuck the night before and I am so annoyed with nudity in movies can't I see a movie with subtle sexual content and not in my face breasts and butt. Hollywood has run out of ways to make people laugh and it's sad that they now have to result in nudity to get a giggle.

ssugden
adult
 
OK but not one of Ben Stiller's best
Well, the movie experience wasn't bad, just not very good either; rather predictable, once the initial plot of guy winds up on crazy honeymoon becomes apparent. The story line was Ok but doesn't deliver the satisfaction of watching Meet The Parents or Meet The Fockers. I crack up every time I remember the todller saying "Asshooole" in the latter.

 
Not bad, but not great
This film contains some gross out humor(as always with movies directed by the F. brothers. There is also strong language and some drinking. Wouldn't recomend it for anyone under 16.

momsole
adult
 
Gag
This movie is pretty much porn with no redeeming value.

jldroulers
teen, 18 years old
 
There's sexy, then kinky, then vulgar, then disturbing. This is disturbing.
I laughed at the joke's in this movie and people behind me were cracking up. This must mean that this movie is funny to some extent for most ages. Unfotunatley, this is definitley not for kids seeing as there is everything but drugs and bloody violence. There are fights with a baseball bat and a hot pepper to the nose though. There are 2 sex scenes which are disturbingly rough and painful full of punches, slaps, and twisting of the ni---es and pe--s. Prepare to flinch at the exxagerated and disgusting joke nudity. The language is also hardcore. Other than that its ok. If you go see this with small children (which I highly recommend you dont) prepare to cover their eyes the majority of the film. On the upside, it is very comical and has an awesome ending. It also touches on themes that men might agree on but women will revolt against. Enjoyable overall.

rlo
adult
 
Crude, rude, obnoxious, a little pornographic AND completely Hilarious!
This movie is very, very funny. The scenes will have you first gasping then laughing out loud but it is absolutely NOT for the kids. It's also not a movie to see with your parents or grandparents.

 
As funny as a watching a fat kid jump up and down
AWESOME MOVIE soooo great. Everyone should see it..then buy it when it comes out. Totally watch this movie...and don't take your folks cuz I can imagine that it would be awkward. But a good time all in all.

 
Funny Adult Humor
A movie meant for only adults to watch. Sex scenes, language and adult humor are an issue.

 
I want the two hours of my life back.
So the preview for the movie looked okay and fine enough, so my mom and I rented it. Sadly enough, we didn't checked the rating. Even if we did know it was rated R, we wouldn't have been prepared for the content. I was embarrased and shocked at the crude and disgusting "jokes" in the movie. Yeah, it had its moments, but it sure isn't a good sign when the movie ends and you have a grossed-out grimace on your face.

junktrucka210
teen, 14 years old
 
just a couple scenes
Okay, let's get this out of the way, this movie is dirty. Come on,, it's the Ferrelly Brothers. The main problem with this movie is about 3 scenes and one fraction of a scene. There are extremely graphic sex scenes, breasts seen in both. In one of them they are trying out sexual positions. Another scene you see two people walk in to a room and see that they rape women with a donkey (VERY, VERY BRIEF), and in another scene a women pees on a man (vagina shown quickly) It does not live up to Ferrelly standards like There's Something About Mary and Dumb and Dumber, but it should be fine for kids as long as they close there eyes on the naughty scenes.

ddue2be
adult
 
This movie was on the verge of nc-17
there was sooo much nudity in this film, it would of been fine without all that nudity, funny though.

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