In Her Shoes (PG-13, 2005)

common sense media says

Drama about rival sisters. Best for teens and up.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the film includes sexual references (images and language); indeed, it opens on fragmented shots of a drunken sexual encounter in a bathroom at high school reunion. Focused on the tensions between two grownup sisters, one a rowdy rebel and the other a prototypical "good girl," the movie pays particular attention to familial conflicts, secrets, and traumatic history (the sisters discuss the mother's suicide, committed when they were children; their father is remarried to a woman who treats them disdainfully). Characters use some crude language, usually in anger or surprise, including multiple uses of the s-word and hell, and slang for sex and genitals. One character reads aloud from a romance novel (including predictable, here comic, references to heaving breasts and sexual passion); and an episode of Sex and the City on TV refers to sexual activity. The rebellious sister wears skimpy clothing, including bikinis and underwear. Characters drink (to the point of vomiting) and smoke. The rebellious sister steals money and other items, sometimes from family members.

Positive messages: "Bad" girl is sexually promiscuous, steals from her family, and learns the error of her ways; snobby/mean stepmother; frequent family tensions.
Violence: Not applicable.
Sex: Sexual references, slang, and images (activity, cleavage, sounds), some pushing the edge of a PG-13 rating.
Language: Mild, including s-words, sexual slang, ass, and hell.
Consumerism: Clothing brands (Jimmy Choo shoes)).
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: Drinking (to the point of visible drunkenness and vomiting), some smoking.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids

Families can talk about the sisters' long-term, mutual resentments and distrusts. How does the sisters' competition for attention shape their relationship? How can they reconcile with one another by sharing basic truths? (The fact that Maggie's dyslexia has remained undiagnosed all her life is especially troubling.) How does the father's dishonesty about his troubles with their mother and her mother/their grandmother also a source of conflict?

What's the story?

What's the story?

Maggie (Cameron Diaz) is something of a ditz, perennially irresponsible, drunk, reckless, and promiscuous. Her sister Rose (Toni Collette) is a workaholic lawyer in Philadelphia who's just started to date her boss, even though he has a reputation as a womanizer. Kicked out of their father's (Ken Tucker) home -- where he lives with his second wife, the odious Sydelle (Candice Azzara) -- Maggie moves in to Rose's apartment, but then Rose kicks her out, too. Maggie travels to Florida, where she establishes a relationship with their grandmother, Ella (Shirley MacClaine). While Maggie is building a life for herself, Rose is realizing she needs to make changes, too.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

Although frequently formulaic and often slick, IN HER SHOES nevertheless features some strong performances, emotional conflicts, and heartwarming reconciliations. The sisters' conflicts are deeply rooted, of course. They interact primarily by way of snapless one-liners, as when Rose suggests Maggie look for a job ("There's a whole world of commerce out there that has nothing to do with sex") or Maggie uncleverly deplores her sister's fashion sensibility ("1994 called; it wants its hair scrunchy back"). The sisters' most prominent shared interest is shoes, as objects of desire and signs of emotional stability. Rose has a closet full of them, expensive, neatly arranged and mostly un-worn ("Shoes always fit," she says, "I treat myself when I feel bad"). But where Rose preserves shoes, Maggie wants to wear them; as soon as Rose leaves for work, Maggie going through her closet, picking the most stiletto heels and outrageous boots. When Maggie commits a predictable act of (sexual) betrayal, Rose demands that she leave.

Their road to reunion thus takes a detour, as Maggie moves to Florida, where the girls' proud, cynical, and engaging grandmother lives in a retirement community. Following initial tensions between, Maggie and Ella come to appreciate their similarities (stubbornness, insecurity posing as arrogance, anger refitted as independence). Maggie's swimwear makes her a big hit among the men at poolside, and her ability to shop for others -- framed as a career-worthy talent -- wins favor with the ladies. The film eventually allows the three women to come together, better understanding themselves in relation to one another and their shared sensibilities.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Twentieth Century Fox
Director: Curtis Hanson
Cast: Cameron Diaz, Shirley MacLaine, Toni Collette
Genre: Drama
Run time: 131 minutes
Theatrical release: October 7, 2005
DVD release: January 31, 2006
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: thematic material, language and some sexual content

This review was written by Cynthia Fuchs
 
 

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funawesomegirl
kid, 13 years old
 
umm luv it but not so suitable

 
i loved it.It had that touch and its not bad at all.
I think it should be a pg rated it is not bad at all its fine i would let a 8 year old watch it.

RAVEN_ROCKS
teen, 17 years old
 
COOL
I really liked this movie it was a little inapropriot at first but i thought it had a good lesson.

grmntownmom
parent of 15 and 18 year old
 
I was entertained with this movie
I really enjoyed this movie. I thought each character, including Shirley Mclain as the grandmother, was realistic and interesting. Cameron Diaz's character (the "bad" girl) definitely exhibited behaviors that may not be suitable for young teens to see; although the outcome of the story is a good one. That also made it a feel good movie. I would not recommend this for kids under 15 because of several sex scenes, including an intense one that the movie opens with. Also the drinking, smoking and promiscuous behavior isn't to be taken lightly for young teens to watch.

 
Just Okay
I really thought this would be a GREAT movie...but it wasn't. It was simply okay. The language was rough at times. It had a good morally redeeming ending. The characters evolved. It had a few funny spots...but is was simply an okay movie.

 
i agree
This movie was a little inapropriate but you know they message is great!!! i thought it was a great story.

 
Great Message
This is a great movie for teens. I thought it would be really dumb but I loved it!! It has a great message, no matter how hard you try to get rid of them your family will always be there for you.

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