Keeping Up with the Steins (PG-13, 2006)

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So-so comedy about over-the-top bar mitzvah.


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What parents need to know

Parents need to know the film includes jokes concerning a 13-year-old boy's burgeoning sexual interests, as well as his anxiety about "becoming a man" via his bar mitzvah. Using broad Jewish, uptight-suburban, and "hippie" stereotypes, the film establishes a series of conflicts to be resolved by the end. The film includes mild language, several sexual allusions (as 13-year-olds begin to notice the opposite sex), and some underage drinking (three boys steal liquor from parents' cabinet, get tipsy, and then one throws up, whereupon his grandfather covers for him, understanding that "boys will be boys"). A grandfather and his younger girlfriend appear naked in a pool (the grandson sees their naked behinds). The grandfather pulls out a sword to fight off an angry driver.

Positive messages: Children lie to parents; adult child is angry at his father, who left the family 20 years ago; kids tease Benjamin, burp, and throw up (after drinking parents' liquor).
Violence: Slapsticky humor; Irwin pulls a sword on a driver who tries to fight him after a car accident (this upsets Benjamin's father).
Sex: Mostly jokey references to youthful desire (Ben has a crush on a girl and fumbles his way through asking her to his bar mitzvah); Benjamin has what looks like a sexy-girls site on his computer screen, which he hides when Adam enters his room; Irwin and his girlfriend appear naked in a pool (we see his back, and only hints of her breasts); wedding planner mentions a past job for a "Rastafarian gay marriage."
Language: One s-word, several uses of "hell," "crap," and slang for sex act ("get laid") and genitals.
Consumerism: References to Versace, Amazon.com, Barnes & Noble, Bill O'Reilly, The Real World.
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: 13-year-olds sneak drinks, get instantly drunk, then Ben throws up.

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Talk to your kids
Families can talk about the tension between Irwin and Adam, as this is premised on Irwin's abandonment of his family 20 years before: How can Adam forgive his father? (And how is it hard for him to accept that his mother forgives his father?) How can traditional rituals (like bar mitzvahs or birthday parties) simultaneously be exciting and stressful?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Young Benjamin Fiedler (Daryl Sabara) worries that he'll make a mistake during his upcoming bar mitzvah, unaware that his father, Adam (Jeremy Piven), is still haunted by the mistake he made at his own bar mitzvah. When the Fiedler's neighbors, the Steins, decide to throw a bigger-than-life celebration for their son, Adam plots his son's ceremony so as to outdo his neighbor. Meanwhile, Benji decides he can't handle the pressure and decides to create a diversion at his bar mitzvah by inviting his estranged grandfather Irwin, whose abandonment of his son and wife Rose (Doris Roberts) left Adam seething with resentment. Now living on an Indian reservation with girlfriend Sacred Feather (Daryl Hannah), Grandpa is full of remorse, advice, and energetic attention for Benji, exactly what neurotic Adam can't manage. Benji begins to see his father in a new light, flawed and sometimes menacing, yes, but also as a son himself, disappointed and unable to move on. Irwin, in turn, learns the value of family even in the face of stress and compromise, the conditions he was unable to face as a young man.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 
KEEPING UP WITH THE STEINS is both broad and affectionate, wielding stereotypes like blunt force instruments. Yes, all the Fiedler boys have lessons to learn, including forgiveness, flexibility, and the meaning of the Haftarah. The women who tend to them play equally conventional parts, though they are considerably less annoying. Sacred Feather, Rose, and Benji's mom Joanne (Jamie Gertz) affect predictable, sweet, long-suffering poses. You only wish they were allowed more movement -- at least as much as those antic boys.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Miramax
Director: Scott Marshall
Cast: Garry Marshall, Jami Gertz, Jeremy Piven
Genre: Comedy
Run time: 99 minutes
Theatrical release: May 12, 2006
DVD release: October 31, 2006
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: for some crude language, nudity and brief drug references.

This review was written by Cynthia Fuchs
 
 

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Jbobsession11
teen, 13 years old
 
Real Funny
My mom rented the movie from the library because were jewish and it looked funny.My mom let me watch it and we laughed alot.It was pretty funny but not appropiate for some younger kids.My favorite part was when the granpa saw this guy "digging for gold" and gets his speaker thingy out and make a big fool of the man.lol

moviebash
teen, 15 years old
 
I laughed!
Wonderful film about a bar mitzvah

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