The Lovely Bones (PG-13, 2010)

common sense media says

Haunting mystery-drama examines a child's murder.


parents & educators say
  • 30% say violence is an issue
  • 30% say there are positive messages

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that director Peter Jackson's drama based on Alice Sebold's best-selling book The Lovely Bones centers on the aftermath of an enormous tragedy: the death of a child (though the actual death itself isn't shown on screen). The intense subject matter -- murder and molestation -- may overwhelm younger teens. Although the movie's messages about love and loss are ultimately positive, the film is often deeply sorrowful and, at times, quite violent (images include dead bodies, bloody clothes, and more). Language includes mostly name-calling; there's also some kissing, and one older character smokes and drinks in front of children.

Positive messages: Though it centers on a shocking murder, the movie takes great pains to juxtapose the violence with love and domesticity. Loss, though destabilizing, is portrayed as far from decimating. Death isn’t explored as an end but a passage.
Positive role models: Yes, there’s a murderer/pedophile involved, but besides him, the movie's characters are decent and earnest -- as well as realistically imperfect. Though the mother reacts in a surprising way to her daughter’s death, her love for her child comes through; the father is more textbook caring. And the younger sister is impressive in her courage and determination.
Violence: Brief flashes of a man grabbing and throwing a teenager to the floor and against the wall (though her actual death takes place off screen). He’s also shown carrying a bloody bag and soaking in a tub, his blood-stained clothing strewn on the floor. The sink is filled with bloodied water. A safe that presumably holds a corpse is repeatedly shown. The bodies of a serial killer's victims are shown in the various places where they were dumped. A teenager beats up a man with a baseball bat; the man is later shown bruised and battered.
Sex: Some kissing. Implied pedophilia.
Language: One "f--k," plus occasional use of words like "hell" and "oh God" (as an exclamation). Also some name-calling, including “jerk off,” “moron,” and “stupid.”
Consumerism: Some labels and signage are visible (Kodak, Seventeen magazine).
Drinking, drugs, & smoking: A grandmother chain-smokes and drinks heavily in front of her grandchildren.

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What to talk about

Talk to your kids
  • Families can talk about the movie's messages. Do the violence and intense subject matter make it harder to see the positive take-aways, or do they come through?
  • How does the impact of the violence in a movie like this compare to that of an action/sci-fi movie? Which affects you more? Why?
  • Talk about the events that lead up to Susie’s murder. What lessons can be gleaned from the tragedy? Why is Susie stuck in the in-between?
  • How did Susie’s death affect everyone, including herself? Do these reactions seem believable? How does everyone find peace?

What's the story?

What's the story?
Fourteen-year-old Susie Salmon (Saoirse Ronan) has her whole life ahead of her -- filled, hopefully, with boys, a photographable world, and family. Only she doesn’t. When a neighbor (Stanley Tucci) lures her to a bunker, she's murdered, which sends her soul in limbo to watch those she's left behind. Her mother (Rachel Weisz), is so shattered that she has to flee; her father (Mark Wahlberg) grows obsessed. Only one thing will set them all free: The capture of Susie's murderer, who continues to go about his days, trying to keep a lid on his monstrous urges.

Is it any good?

Is it any good?
 

As Susie, Ronan is infinitely watchable: She’s compelling every time she’s on screen. Her sadness plumbs depths; her joy soars. And when it’s clear that she’s been hurt, the impact is enormous. Losing her is palpable, and that’s critical, considering that she’s the story’s pivot point. Wahlberg and Weisz are strong, too, though perhaps not as gripping, as is Rose McIver as Susie’s younger sister. But Tucci: Though terrifying, he tragically plays to type. You can spot his child molester a mile away.

THE LOVELY BONES loses its way when it spends too much time in a place where director Peter Jackson is clearly comfortable: the in-between (the place between Heaven and Earth). Painted with visually arresting CG effects, this place is a sight to behold, a lyrical middle earth. But Jackson lingers there way too long, slowing down the movie's pace. Unfortunately that comes at the expense of the family’s unraveling, which seems painted in over-broad stroke.

Movie themes & details

Movie Details
Studio: Paramount Pictures
Director: Peter Jackson
Cast: Mark Wahlberg, Rachel Weisz, Saoirse Ronan
Genre: Drama
Run time: 135 minutes
Theatrical release: January 15, 2010
DVD release: April 20, 2010
MPAA Rating: PG-13
MPAA explanation: mature thematic material involving disturbing violent content and images, and some language
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What parents & educators say

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Based on 20 parent & educator reviews:
  • 30% say violence is an issue
  • 30% say there are positive messages

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Violence mildly disturbing
I enjoyed the movie very much, but the violence is mildly disturbing for some. Mature kids 9+, immature kids 14+

laneylane30
kid, 13 years old
 
Very Good
The Lovely Bones is a very good movie but also a little creepy. I think it's sending a good message to kids to not talk to strangers even if they bribe you with something or if something sounds very appealing. It has a little violence in it because Bryan is hitting Mr. Salmon with a baseball bat. There's a little conflict with Grandma Lynn smoking and drinking in front of her grandchildren. Overall I'm 11 and I saw the movie with my mother and I recommend it because I think kids our age can handle what this movie's message is sending.

runwithsmiles
kid, 13 years old
 
Weird, but good!
Here's a tip: Never go somewhere we you and a creepy 40 year old guy will be alone. Lol, the movie's weird, and hard to understand. I suggest read the book first. I love it though! P.S Take my tip as a gaze of the movie. :)

 
Who would want to watch something this sad?
Seriously. This is one of the most depressing, anti-climactic movies ever made. I hated it, but that's just me. I wish I hadn't spent money on it. Others may consider it beautiful. I don't judge them, but I still thought this was dull, dark, and depressing. Oh, and as for the special effects sequences, there were just too many. Parents: This movie is about a child's off-screen rape and murder. There are also other acts of on-and-off-screen violence and sex, plus language. Bottom Line: Sad and slow, this is not a movie for action, comedy, or thriller fans. I honestly don't know who would want to watch this. Thanks for reading! - Movie Man

kaytopian
teen, 14 years old
 
This movie was amazing and I deffinently cried. It was one of the saddest movies I have ever seen. I think 11 year olds shouldnt watch this. She dies by getting raped, which is a mature subject. There wasn't any nudity at all except for a man's bare chest. Surprisingly there wasn't alot of bad lanuage just really mature and disturbing scenes. The "F" word was barely understandable because it was muttered. There really wasn't anything else though. It is a great movie for 12+ year olds. The parents are role models because they don't give up on her daughters murder case and they find a way to cope with thier loss of thier daughter. I would recomend this to any preteen or teen kids. But be prepared to cry.

MovieLover1222
teen, 16 years old
 
For mature audiences
I really liked this movie. Although you need to be mature enough to see this.

Monkeys are cool
teen, 14 years old
 
Great movie directed by Peter Jackson.
This movie was hunting and a great drama horror story. This movie sat with me all through the night. Positive stuff...... Pretty much the story tells you the connections that people make when someone dies. The arguments that people have. The lovely bones they discover. Concerns: Violence: You see Susie shoved around by Mr.Harvey. Her father is beat up by a teenager. We see a black bag dragged along the floor, the corner is dripping blood. You see Mr. Harvey soak in a bath splattered with blood. We see a man fall down a cliff covered in blood. You see other victims' body parts. Sex: Not too bad. Just some kissing. Swearing: P word, D word, H word I say if you have encountered a recent death SEE THIS MOVIE.

Cyonnara
teen, 17 years old
 
This movie was very well done I do not know why critics hated it so much but I personally loved it, it would be alright for a younger teenager to watch this but beware though there isn't much "violence" but there are a lot of disturbing content

Kid Reviewer
kid, 13 years old
 
Great Movie!!
It was great,but also very sad.Watching it with my Mom,we almost cried if it got any sadder.

Peguin
adult
 
See it with your teenaged daughter!
The best part of this movie is to teach young girls what NOT to do... walking alone, going off alone with a man (stranger or not!), being afraid to say no when you sense danger, for fear of being rude, The villain was frightening in his unrelenting tenacity. He seems cartoonish by today's standards, but this was the 70's before people talked about ugly things that could happen to kids. And he was NOT a stranger, as some reviews imply... he was a neighbor, portrayed as odd but in no way dangerous. All his victims gathering in limbo struck me as very creepy, and I think far too much time was spent in afterlife fantasy. The sense of loss from "what might have been" was very sad. I most felt sorry for the little brother, who kind of disappeared!

Toby392
parent of 12 year old
 
Not good for ANY kids.
I took my 11 year old and wish I hadn't. Its very distubing.

LittleRatersGirl
kid, 12 years old
 
So sad, So good
I was 10 when it came out and i watched it on the internet it's not very scary i've watched scary movies sense before i could talk. I like the people in it because the good people dealt with the death. I really like it, it's a little sad though :[

Spielberg00
teen, 14 years old
 
I couldn't sleep after seeing this movie. I found it extremely disturbing, and it was the first time that had ever happened to me.
My rating: PG-13 [borderline with R] for disturbing content throughout.

moviefan22
teen, 13 years old
 
So magical! So tragic! So Lovely Bones!
This is probably one of the most mystical movies I have ever seen! I mean, even the transitions from scene to scene were astounding! It blows my mind that Tucci or even Saiorse didn't receive an Oscar! Beware, this film is intensely creepy! Not scary, just creepy. NOT for kids! Any mature 12 year old can handle it though. CSM was way too strict about this movie. It sends a message that this can happen to anyone, and you shouldn't talk to strangers. There is one part that is so sad because **SPOILER ALERT** when it shows the young girls that Mr. Harvey killed, one of them is six! And then at the end of the scene, she says her name. Whoa, that was deep! Anyways, other than the bad role model of the grandma (drinking, smoking) and the violence, this movie is FANTASTIC and it's mature also, so know your kids before letting them see it. It takes a lot to handle this. It may be hard to understand midway, but in the end it all fits together. Also, I think the ending was underdone (is that a word?). They could of done a lot with it, but failed. But, still see this movie.

CORN ROX
parent of 4 year old
 
One of the best movies I've seen in a while!
Very good movie! The acting is amazing and the story has a powerful meaning! Yes of course you probably shouldn't play this movie at a preschool but it is actually a good movie for kids to see. It teaches them not to trust people who are lets say.....strange. Nice movie! Very good. Thought it was really well done. I would recommend it to anyone!

Coop°
teen, 15 years old
 
scary, but beautiful
I actually think it really was depressing and a little scary; I was 13 years old when I saw this movie and I was a little afraid that someone in my street might do the same thing; cause for this character, it is just a man in her str and he's a psychopath or whatever. And after, he wants to kill her sister to and that is what Ii think the most scary part. He creates a whole trap and well yeah, i don't have to explain. But I definitely don't regret that i saw it and it gives a great message. Don't be afraid to die, it's not the end. I think that gives hope to people who lost someone.

MovieGuy23
teen, 14 years old
 
The Lovely Bones: A good, yet borderline R movie
The Lovely Bones is a movie that will make an impression. Stanley Tucci is horrifying in the role as a serial killer. Mark Wahlberg and Saorise Ronan match him with emotionally deep performances. Jackson's direction is not as acute as normal, the movie is uneven in parts trying to pull together spellbinding afterlife with cruel realities. Yet the acting and visuals are strong enough to keep the film afloat. Note to parents: The subject matter is far too intense for 13 and under. There is not too much graphic violence here, but there is in pockets. The worst part of the movie is where the girl is trapped with the killer in a claustraphobic environment. The scene was strong enough to which I almost fast-forwarded through it. Even some adults may be disturbed by it. Older teens only.

shanno15
teen, 16 years old
 
Awesome drama
Very good movie, sad, but it proves never to talk to strangers. Very good graphics

momwith4kids
parent of 12 year old
 
everyone should see it

ijustlovemovies
kid, 13 years old
 
If your looking for good role models and positive messages this is not the movie for you
its a great and beuatifully acted movie that i have seen many times before. It is a sad dark and confusing thriller about a child murder.In the movie you dont actually see her death but if you've read the book oyu know whats going on.

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