The Rules of Attraction

  • Review Date: April 28, 2003
  • R
  • Genre: Drama
  • 2002
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Common Sense Media says

Not for kids, and not for many adults, either.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie contains many elements that they wouldn't want their kids to see. The first scene alone of a horribly demeaning date-rape is followed by a nonstop montage designed to shock the most jaded of college party kids, let alone their parents. Sex is pervasive, casual and often described in excruciating detail. Drugs are ubiquitous and feature no downsides beyond the occasional bloody nose or fight with a dealer. Alcohol is more prevalent than soda. The bathtub suicide of one of the minor characters is so devoid of emotion that the laying out of the razor blade is as casual as removing one's rings.

  • Peril and brief, explicit violence, graphic suicide scene.
  • Extremely graphic and explicit sexual situations.
  • Extremely strong and abusive language.

What's the story?

Based on Brett Easton Ellis' book, RULES OF ATTRACTION is set at fictional Camden College, where the young, wealthy and white escape reality through sex, alcohol and drugs. The story alternates perspectives and time lines while focusing on several campus parties. Bi and beautiful Paul Denton (Ian Somerhalder) loves self-described "emotional vampire" and part-time drug dealer Sean Bateman (James Van Der Beek), who in turn loves the doe-eyed and virginal Lauren Hynde (Shannyn Sossamon) who loves self-absorbed Victor (Kip Pardue). To stir up the party, Sean sleeps with Lara (Jessica Biel), Lauren's roommate, as a proxy, while Paul has a nostalgic fling with long-time friend Richard "Dick" Jared (Russell Sams). Notable cameos include Eric Stoltz as a student-seducing professor; Faye Dunaway as Paul's tipsy mother; and a cocaine-dusted Clifton Collins, Jr. as unpredictable drug dealer Rupert.


Is it any good?

 

Ellis' books have all dealt with similar 1980's themes from different perspectives and have woven in references to characters from his other works. For example, Rules of Attraction protagonist, Sean Bateman, is younger brother to American Psycho's Patrick Bateman. Roger Avary has done a good job at adapting this multi-perspective narrative into a slick, visually dynamic movie. His backward-forward filming and present- past-present timing gradually reveal the story but he cannot put content into what is, in the end, an empty tale.

Although the movie is set in the present day, the strong influence of the book and Avary's decision to weave in references to Ellis' other books keeps a '80's zeitgeist. The times having changed so dramatically over the years: the end of the Cold War; the flannel-clad nihilism descending from the Seattle scene; the disappearance of the rich, white boy as the movie bad guy; the return of heroin. But perhaps, most importantly, the world did not end.


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What families can talk about

Families can talk about why some people rely upon drugs as a crutch and be sure to discuss the film's bleak portrayal of adult drug use as well as that of the college kids. Other issues to be discussed include the connection or lack of connection between the characters and the consequences of the choices we make.


This review was written by Nell Minow
Adult
April 9, 2008
 
dreadful and pointless
Although there are some appealing performances in this movie, the whole thing is just dreadfully depressing and pointless. I'm really sorry I spent time watching it.

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Teen, 18 years old
April 9, 2008
 

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Adult
September 18, 2009
 
Perfect for older kids AND for mature teens!!
To hell with those stupid sex-negative drug-phobic unfit parents who think they actually know something when in reality they don;t know know crap! Those revolting sex-negative stupid anti-drug unfit dysfunctional parents could care less about their grown-up teenage kids unless they complied with their parents' stupid worthless obsolete pseudo-moral crap that is more important to them than understanding the feelings and suffering their own kids are going through, which by the way, has NOTHING to do with drugs or sex!!!

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Teen, 14 years old
December 21, 2010
 
Well I only saw the trailer and it looked like a interesting movie but alot of it wasnt appropriat for kids and that was only in the trailer. So i wouldnt recomend showing this to your "Kids". But it looks like a interesting movie

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Adult
July 20, 2011
 
Not bad
So let me get this straight Sex scenes/situations are very explicit and there by this is off limits from persons aged 14 Suicide scene is graphic and disturbing, other violence (slashing with the machete), punching and other stuff is considered moderate. Drug use is moderate, but graphic girl is also raped. So choose wisely before you think 14 year old can handle this

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This review was written by Nell Minow
Studio:Lionsgate
Director:Roger Avary
Cast:James Van Der Beek, Jessica Biel, Shannyn Sossamon
Genre:Drama
Run time:110 minutes
Theatrical release date:October 11, 2002
DVD release date:February 18, 2003
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:strong sexual content, drug use, language and violent images

This review was written by Nell Minow
 

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